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myLot reputation of 90/100. MAHESH2008 (557)   ranked 34 out of 800 in life 5 years ago

Hi friends selecting/ checking sex of unborn baby is a criminal offence in my country. What do you think do you go for selecting sex of your baby? and Why?


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1. myLot reputation of 76/100. Pinkon4u (2149)   5 years ago

no ill not go for it all aloow anyone in my family to do tht...
as it is not good... all de baby wehter it is boy or gal... dey r little angles... who bring smile on our face...
den y should we... check...


myLot reputation of 90/100. MAHESH2008 (557)   ranked 34 out of 800 in life  5 years ago

Thanks pink keep it up. Thanks for your participation in my disscussion.

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2. myLot reputation of 85/100. danzer (2436)   ranked 260 out of 800 in life   5 years ago

We cannot select the gender of our babies. It's one of the miracles of God. We just accept if he is male or she is female!


myLot reputation of 90/100. MAHESH2008 (557)   ranked 34 out of 800 in life  5 years ago

Hi danzer, if you are selective of one gender means you will not allow to take birth other gender, than it will be the murder of other gender. literary it is a crime and should not be allowed. Thanks fot your response

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. apsara60 (2496)   ranked 95 out of 800 in life   5 years ago

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myLot reputation of 90/100. MAHESH2008 (557)   ranked 34 out of 800 in life  5 years ago

Yes Apasra, We have this problem in our country from long time but now situation is changing rapidly.I think this problem was their due to illiteracy and lack of knowledge. We should not forget that we also consider awomen, a mother as god, even small babies ( kanya) are also consider as as god. We have goddess lakshmi, sarawati, durga, parvati and so on. One thing is for sure that education will change thinking of peoples and difference of man and women will restored soon. Lets hope for the best. Thanks for your response. Do you no about Anamika (lovely dame) where is she. I didnot find any No new disscussion by him from long time.


myLot reputation of 91/100. apsara60 (2496)   ranked 95 out of 800 in life  5 years ago

I don't know who is Anamika, but you should not call her dame as it does not sound polite...you can say lovely girl or lovely lady or lovely woman. This sounds more respectful. I hope you will agree with me after all I am your elder sister.....:))


myLot reputation of 90/100. MAHESH2008 (557)   ranked 34 out of 800 in life  5 years ago

Yes your are elder and my sister too, but this her username on mylot and she is common friend of us. In fact she has only invited me on mylot earlier. Because of her invitation only iam able to meet you.Even she had only guided me on mylot. I always respect her and call her guru. But from long time no news from her thats why I have asked you.


myLot reputation of 90/100. MAHESH2008 (557)   ranked 34 out of 800 in life  5 years ago

sorry I have just chacked she is not in your friends list.I was wrong, I thought she is your friend too.


myLot reputation of 91/100. apsara60 (2496)   ranked 95 out of 800 in life  5 years ago

If she is in your friends list then send her a pm and she will reply you sometime or other. Have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 90/100. MAHESH2008 (557)   ranked 34 out of 800 in life  5 years ago

I always say she is my guru than a friend.

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. drannhh (9927)   5 years ago

Do you mean that it is illegal to try to determine the gender or that it is illegal to interfere with the birth if the gender was not the one the parents hoped for? I am not interested in having children, but if I were in the appropriate age group and did wish to have a baby I would not want to know ahead of time which gender my baby was going to be. I have no quarrel with those who do and would never tell someone else not to try to find out, but for me, sometimes what nature does seems like it ought to be a surprise.

On the other hand, I would wholly agree with any law that would prevent parents of aborting a child just on the basis of a preference they had for the opposite gender. It is hard to tell exactly what you mean here. Are those your children in your avatar?


myLot reputation of 90/100. MAHESH2008 (557)   ranked 34 out of 800 in life  5 years ago

Yes Drannhh, you have all right to know about the gender of baby you are going to have but assume if some one is selective and did not like to have baby of other gender than what he wants, Than he will definately go for termination and their the law is required to control such things.
Yes these are my childrens.

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5. myLot reputation of 94/100. chrysz (1077)   ranked 123 out of 800 in life   5 years ago

In the Philippines, it is not prohibited but I'd still want to have my baby's gender checked so I'd know what to prepare before his/her birth.


myLot reputation of 90/100. MAHESH2008 (557)   ranked 34 out of 800 in life  5 years ago

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myLot reputation of 94/100. chrysz (1077)   ranked 123 out of 800 in life  5 years ago

Sorry if I misinterpreted your message. What I want to say is, how do you choose your baby's gender? When you see in the UTZ that it is a girl, you have a choice to eliminate it or not right? I think that was the reason why India made a rule that choosing or telling the baby's gender is prohibited. I don't think that it is fair, especially to the child since they did not chose to be a male or a female and its not even their choice who their parents should be.


myLot reputation of 90/100. MAHESH2008 (557)   ranked 34 out of 800 in life  5 years ago

Yes chrysz, you are absolutely right it is not fair to be selective in this matter as you cannot make it according to your choice.

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6. myLot reputation of 83/100. kiran1978 (1232)   ranked 658 out of 800 in life   5 years ago

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myLot reputation of 90/100. MAHESH2008 (557)   ranked 34 out of 800 in life  5 years ago

Hi Kiran, it a life we cannot get every thing what we want. we are five brothers my parents waited for a daughter and we beacme five without any sister and even I have only two sons no daughter but I have decided to be with these two sons,
(you can see them In my avtar). But some how I feel my life is just incomplete without a daughter. In fact we cannot choose gender of baby its not in our hand. so lets be happy in our world. Thanks for your response.

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7. myLot reputation of 71/100. subha12 (16391)   5 years ago

NO, never. I also imagine its to be a crime. i am also from india. I think this law is very much justified in scenary of lots of female foeticide.

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8. myLot reputation of 87/100. Ravenladyj (19028)   5 years ago

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. maximax8 (17658)   ranked 199 out of 800 in life   5 years ago

I think that for a lady living in a country like the UK and probably Australia, New Zealand, Canada or the USA having a gender scan in pregnancy is a good thing to do. Then the parents will know that they are having a girl and so buy pink clothes or a boy so buy blue clothes. It cuts down on the surprise on the day of the birth. However in China where they have the one child policy the majority of pregnant ladies want a boy. Boys are also the preferred gender of babies in India. I can see that allowing gender scanning in India might lead to some ladies getting upset when thy find out they are not going to get their choice of gender. I have heard that abortion takes place legally in some countries and illegally in other countries. When I had my first pregnancy the hospital had a policy of not telling the parents the gender. I had a boy and he is now 12 years old. When I has my second pregnancy I had a private gender scan that told me I was expecting a boy. He is now 8 months old.

Some women in the UK try to select their preferred gender by eating a diet to get a girl or a diet to get a boy. They look at ph levels and consider timing is important. Some are lucky and have their desired gender. One I know one lady had a seventh son and is now looking into a more medically arranged way of getting pregnant with a girl. By not getting the girl she so wanted she kept on having more and more children. Overpopulation is an issue. However it wouldn't be right for only boys and no girls whatsoever to be born in China and India for they would not find a wife. If given the choice I would select to get pregnant with a baby girl.

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10. myLot reputation of 96/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 214 out of 800 in life   5 years ago

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