it is only situations and not persons responsible for break-up...am i correct?  |
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 In my opinion breaking up is not always about persons(Partners/couples).It is about their relationship - something was wrong there, and not with the persons.And breaking up is equally hard on the person ending the relationship. No one likes hurting other people,especially someone whom they have been very close to. This being said,being dumped is,in no way,the end of the world.It's an obstacle in their way forward and they just need to remove it,thats all.
Many people think that being 'dumped' or rejected means something is wrong with them as persons. That is the wrong attitude. A failed relationship is not because of partners, but because of something that is not working out inbetween them. And I don't know why partners don't take things positive and understand this and move on, but stick to get saperated.
Yesterday was an heftic day for me, because,inspite of my continous effort I was not successful in my attempt to make my friends's daughter not to get saperated from her hubby.So sad.
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1.  sophialin (1043) | 6 months ago |  i pretty agree with you. even one couple divorce, it means break up of their marriage relationship rather their friendship. it's unfitted not wrong to over some kind of relationship.
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3.  jonatechme (103) | 6 months ago |  You are right, breaking up shows the incompatibilities between the two rather than condemning a person and therefore one shouldn't feel inferior since they broke up.
One could come to appreciate break up later in life if they go through a separation or divorce which you will find breakup to be a million times better.
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4.  talisman (1031) | 6 months ago | I disagree. If something is wrong with the relationship, it's because of the people involved in that relationship. Relationships aren't living, breathing creatures that create themselves, they're created by people. If there's something wrong with the relationship, then the people involved should work on it.
I also disagree that breaking up is equally hard on the person initiated the split. While I agree that it's true in some situations, it's not in most. Just because someone was in a relationship with someone doesn't mean that they cared about them. Breaking up with someone shows that you'd rather not be with someone than actually work on the things that aren't working. When you care about someone, you do what it takes to make things work. | |
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5.  subha12 (10889) | 4 months ago |  oh what a well thought discussion. it seems you look into life very closely. i think you are absolutely right in saying so.relationships are broken because there are so many differences. but still i may differ a bit. many relationships are broken a sa person starts cheating. its actually due to the responsibilty of one person.still people fall in love and still get separated.
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6.  carolluvyou (274) | 3 months ago |  No thats not true cause just because someone doesnt want to be with you doesnt mean that something is wrong with you cuase usually its because the person thinks of you in a diff way than you think of them or just ignerant.
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| 7. jawaharks (310) | 3 months ago |  i dont think so. may be some times the situation might be the problem. but the person also might be the cause for that.
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