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myLot reputation of 65/100. benoy85 (514)   ranked 4,914 out of 16,786 in relationships5 months ago

I don't know what to do with my life. I had a great life a few days ago until my girlfriend broke up with me. She stopped taking my calls and avoided meeting me and when i finally confronted her she told me that its over. She did not give even a tiny bit of explanation. After being together for 3 years I felt that i deserved an explanation. Now i don't feel like eating and i don't feel like sleeping at all. I know that I should move on but I am not able to. I keep thinking of her even though i know that she doesn't deserve it. Help me

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 79/100. Gesusdid (1020)   ranked 2,535 out of 16,786 in relationships   5 months ago

yeah i think you should deserve an explantion, but the again if she doesnt want nothing to do with you than go on about you buisness, she probaly found something new, and didnt find anyother way to tell you, if you bumb into her again she probaly walk the other way cause she feels guilt so that makes ou a better person cause you didnt do nothing wrong

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2. myLot reputation of 81/100. giftsandbagscom (10613)   ranked 638 out of 16,786 in relationships   5 months ago

At least you have your head on straight. You can't get over her in a day. or even a week. Just know you had the right to reasoning. Then If she never comes back. Stand firm and say no. It would not bother me much at all. it's their loss I would say.

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3. myLot reputation of 84/100. nengs10 (2215)   ranked 623 out of 16,786 in relationships   5 months ago

This is one of the weirdest thing that may happen to an individual. Well, it happened to my friend already and it hurts so bad after all. In my case, I would definitely try so hard to talk to her immediately. But after several attempts, and she doesn't want to talk to me, then it's time to let go.

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4. rsk1965 (32)   5 months ago

Certainly you deserve explanation from her. Just have patience perhaps she also needs time to give you explanation. Don't hurry perhaps you may try to find from one of your common close friend. Be positive and try to get in touch with her again. Tell her that you respect her decision but at the same time you would like to know the reason. If there is some misunderstanding there is always a scope to reconcile.

Don't lose heart and cheer-up.

Wish you all the very best!

 
5. myLot reputation of 80/100. rintintin (2348)   ranked 3,036 out of 16,786 in relationships   5 months ago

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6. myLot reputation of 88/100. busta1baby (1193)   ranked 914 out of 16,786 in relationships   3 months ago

hmmm im not sure try and get them to tell me and then if not dnt worry bout it


myLot reputation of 65/100. benoy85 (514)   ranked 4,914 out of 16,786 in relationships  3 months ago

Thats true but when its serious heart then it causes pain for a long time.

 
7. myLot reputation of 85/100. wonder_grrrl66 (174)   ranked 1,326 out of 16,786 in relationships   3 months ago

I have been there and it really sucks. It's hard getting over someone when you really don't have the reasons for why they left. You can try to confront her, but you have to realize that may never happen. And if she does talk to you she might give you answers that don't help any way. I think you are handling it the best that you can. Just take each day at a time and eventually you will be able to get over it. Like I said I've been there and I understand what you are going through, it will eventually get better. Just give yourself time.

 
8. myLot reputation of 31/100. bond0077 (165)   ranked 5,024 out of 16,786 in relationships   3 months ago

what you have to do is,try to remember all the things you did or didn't do while you were with her or maybe she met someone else,has there been anyone you can think of that keeps hanging around and not quite in place!

 
9. myLot reputation of 31/100. bond0077 (165)   ranked 5,024 out of 16,786 in relationships   3 months ago

boy you must have done something really stupid,i hate to say it but i find no one ever just stop talking to somebody else without a good reason,just move on,history has shown me that you will get your answer in the future it will come full circle!

 
10. myLot reputation of 91/100. teena22 (206)   ranked 9,018 out of 16,786 in relationships   3 months ago

3 years isn't short enough.you deserve a good explanation, be it painful or not. guessing "why?" is the hardest part. but then again, if she dumped you just like that, you don't have to uncare fourself. beat pains...it's hard but, you should do something positive.