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Someone says, "I love you." Do you know when they really mean it? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 99/100. writersedge (4418)   ranked 58 out of 485 in love2 years ago

How do you know when someone really means it? Sometimes I felt that the person meant it and later on I was wrong and vice versa. So how good are you at determining this and how do you know when you're right or wrong?

 
 
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carmelanirel (6329) response was accepted on 4/11/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. carmelanirel (6329)   ranked 263 out of 485 in love   2 years ago

I always look at how they act, are their words and actions the same?


myLot reputation of 99/100. writersedge (4418)   ranked 58 out of 485 in love  2 years ago

True, some people act one way and say another. But I've met some really good actors for a period of time who matched their actions with their words for the short hall, but the couldn't sustain it very long. Thanks


myLot reputation of 93/100. carmelanirel (6329)   ranked 263 out of 485 in love  2 years ago

That is true, an actor can pull off a loving attitude, but that is where time comes in and why someone jumping into a marriage without knowing the person for a while is taking a risk..


myLot reputation of 93/100. carmelanirel (6329)   ranked 263 out of 485 in love  2 years ago

Thanks for the BR.. thumbup

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. comeonmolly (571)   ranked 256 out of 485 in love   2 years ago

Yeah,that's true .action is really important when it comes to judge the person's words.However,I we can't ignore the feelings of ourselves..Sometimes our feelings can provide something for us and this kind of thing is somewhat mysterious but they do exist and command our actionshappy
Molly..


myLot reputation of 99/100. writersedge (4418)   ranked 58 out of 485 in love  2 years ago

I think I understood what you said, but I'm not a 100% sure.

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. wondericequeen (4413)   ranked 262 out of 485 in love   2 years ago

Well, you can always tell when people are lying from their eyes. Besides, sometimes people just change and they just run out of love for someone, it doesn't mean that it's a lie when they say that particular phrase.


myLot reputation of 99/100. writersedge (4418)   ranked 58 out of 485 in love  2 years ago

Most people, you can tell from their eyes, but some really, really practiced liars, you can't.

True, people's feelings change over time. Thanks and take care.

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4. myLot reputation of 91/100. Zhanec (1038)   ranked 257 out of 485 in love   2 years ago

i think i can feel it when they say it.Just look into their eyes when they say those 3 words.judge by your heart,and it will tell you if its real.And if you think at that moment,its true...just believe in it and never hesitate your judgment.That's my way.


myLot reputation of 99/100. writersedge (4418)   ranked 58 out of 485 in love  2 years ago

Interesting, sight and feelings plus judgement. Thanks and take care.

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5. myLot reputation of 75/100. DavidReedy (1671)   ranked 169 out of 485 in love   2 years ago

Better still, add to the equation, the truth of the matter, that feelings are subject to whims and change, and at one moment in time, I may mean it when I say "I Love you" to someone, or someone may mean it when they say it to me, but later on, feelings change... Then what... Not to mention there is the problem, of defining what one really means when they say "I Love you" in the first place.


myLot reputation of 99/100. writersedge (4418)   ranked 58 out of 485 in love  2 years ago

Yes, it is very difficult when you figure all that into it, isn't it? Thanks and take care.


myLot reputation of 75/100. DavidReedy (1671)   ranked 169 out of 485 in love  2 years ago

Indeed. Sorry I didn't have more to add. Fact is, that after answering a lot more in depth on the same topic on another thread, I'm kind of without inspiration--without the right words... Afterall, if we human beings had this Love thing figured out, much of our literature, movies, plays, operas, sonnets, sitcoms, poems, novels, propaganda, media, medical issues, social stigmas and issues, etc., would all simply cease to be.


myLot reputation of 99/100. writersedge (4418)   ranked 58 out of 485 in love  2 years ago

Interesting way to look at it, I never thought about it that way. Very interesting. Thanks and take care.

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6. bc3000 (39)   ranked 265 out of 485 in love   2 years ago

you can tell by how they act, how they say it, etc. if you know them well you can tell. i think i'm quite good at telling but hey.. what would i know? lol


myLot reputation of 99/100. writersedge (4418)   ranked 58 out of 485 in love  2 years ago

What do we all know, actually, take care.

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7. myLot reputation of 85/100. littlewhite (168)   ranked 259 out of 485 in love   2 years ago


um, actually i will quite dislike this kinda people who say "i love u‘ easily.


myLot reputation of 99/100. writersedge (4418)   ranked 58 out of 485 in love  2 years ago

I feel the same way. If it's a long time coming, it's probably more truthful. Thanks and take care.

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