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Good Enough to Fight The War~ But Don't Come Home With PTSD! email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 95/100. TheHairDresser (3366)   ranked 4 out of 119 in ptsd2 years ago

The first sentence of this blog insert kinda hit a nerve with me.
And then as I read on, I was not happy with the fact that there is even a debate about how much is being spent for the care of disabled veterans.
I can attest to the fact that PTSD is very very real and it deserves status along with a host of other mental health conditions.
Why is it always downplayed like this, especially for those who have fought in the name of protecting all who would say they are 'too expensive' to care for now that they are home?
The undertones in this blog insert are clear to me.

http://www.newscientist.com/blog/shortsharpscience/


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Ldyjarhead (5170) response was accepted on 3/19/2008.
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tags:  ptsd, stupid blog insert, soldiers disablity care, mental health conditions, war trauma
 
1. myLot reputation of 90/100. Ldyjarhead (5170)   ranked 26 out of 119 in ptsd   2 years ago

Are you referring to your title here, or this first sentence in that blog?

Is post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) real?

I, too, know it is real.

I served in the Marine Corps for more than 21 years and saw a lot of it.

My husband suffers from it greatly.

My son served three tours as a grunt in Iraq.

It's real, alright. I do know that the VA health care system is being a lot more vigilant in treating it in recent years than they ever were before. Many more veterans from prior conflicts (and PTSD is not always from war time experiences, I know) are coming forward and getting the treatment they need and deserve because it's much more in the lime-light now. It's no longer hush hush, a disgrace, a weakness, something you don't talk about.

I do have other issues with the health care system, but that's a whole 'nother issue, so I won't commandeer your discussion.

happy


myLot reputation of 95/100. TheHairDresser (3366)   ranked 4 out of 119 in ptsd  2 years ago

Hello Ldyjarhead
I honour you here and yes, I am referring to the first sentence of that blog..is it real haha yep it is..that is what I was referring to. I was like huh?
Commandeer away Lady, because that was the point of this discussion..It just hit a nerve as I said, and since I suffer too, yes it does not always come from war trauma, but I support strongly and vehemently those who suffer.
I need say no more here to you Ldyjarhead, as you know what it is that I am discussing here..I get a bit feisty now and again when things like that hit me LOL hehehehe xoxoox Thanks for coming here to comment on this most vital issue.
happy

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. Tetchie (1300)   ranked 28 out of 119 in ptsd   2 years ago

I did a post recently bringing to readers attention the multi-trillion dollar cost of this war - so far. This was also a news item from a reputable news source. Countries that participated in previous world wars, also Vietnam are still paying the cost to soldiers effected by PTSD. As much as soldiers are trained to fight to the death, nothing really prepares them for the real deal, killing. Blood and blown up body parts, the images of dying children leaves massive scars of the mind. Psychological damage that soldiers are thought to be prepared for but are not. Not to mention their own missing limbs. Easy to say when you are saluting your Sergeant Major that you will fight for your country, be brave and strong and not crack up. That is not the real deal at all.

If you want soldiers to fight for your country, then be prepared to cover the cost of their disturbed minds afterwards. I think governments play down this side effect of war. I'm not sure why, perhaps they do not want to put off other young men and women who they need to join the army or navy or airforce.


myLot reputation of 95/100. TheHairDresser (3366)   ranked 4 out of 119 in ptsd  2 years ago

Hello Tetchie
I really am in awe of what you said here, so very well said and really there is not much I can add to that for I feel the same way...of course the government downplay it, for who wants to know that this is the true cost of the war..men and womens heart and minds not to mention their bodies..so sad and I just had to post when I saw that ridiculous first line..I thought journalists would have a bit of a clue..but here we have a discussion and we are myLotters so we will tell them a thing or two hehah Tetchie..thanks for your great words here, much appreciated by me. happy

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. lecanis (7212)   ranked 1 out of 119 in ptsd   2 years ago

Huh. I found this really interesting because I have PTSD, though not from anything associated with war. I wonder how that diagnosis looks on my own record.

As for the treatment of veterans with PTSD, I can't believe that's even being debated. How can the government send human being out to fight a war which pretty much guarantees to damage them mentally and then try to say "Oh, it's not real" when they come back with that damage? Arg!

This also makes me think about the differences between mental health professionals that treat civilians and the ones in the veteran-care industry. There seemed no problem slapping a PTSD label on me, but then it didn't cost the government anything for me to get that diagnosis, but when it means the government has to take responsibility, everyone has to argue over what PTSD is or if it even exists. Interesting how that works.


myLot reputation of 95/100. TheHairDresser (3366)   ranked 4 out of 119 in ptsd  2 years ago

Oh yes lecanis, when money is an issue then the diagnosis becomes an issue.
It is indeed sad the first line of that article, to tell you the truth I was really bothered by it.
It is just an article, but it just hit me the wrong way LOL yeah I guess coz I have it too hehee. I didn't need a doctor to tell me however right?
((((lecanis)))xoxo Thanks for commenting and support here..I value you. happy

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. nova1945 (1094)   ranked 34 out of 119 in ptsd   2 years ago

My husband has PTSD from the Vietnam war. He didn't understand it until 30 years later when I made him go to the VA and find out what was wrong. Unfortunately our government is very reluctant to admit complicity to anything that might cost them a lot of money in the lon run. Heck, they just admited to the effects of Agent Orange a few years ago. That is really sad when these people gave everything to stand up for "our" rights to argue that they are non-the-less for wear. "we" weren't there, they were. God bless all the heroes who fought for us. It's time to treat them right.


myLot reputation of 95/100. TheHairDresser (3366)   ranked 4 out of 119 in ptsd  2 years ago

Hello nova
Your dear husband has this great affliction too. And after so many years..you are a great support to him and I admire you..it is no easy task to get it noted and treated and the entitlements that should come with it.
I agree, God bless the heroes and may their lives and the lives of their loved ones as yourself, dear nova, be free and long.
((((nova)))xo Thank you for your contribution here, much appreciated and I too honour your husband, a great hero in this nation. happy

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5. myLot reputation of 86/100. Ravenladyj (17949)   ranked 3 out of 119 in ptsd   2 years ago

Okay I suffer from Chronic PTSD and have since childhood..do I really want to read whats in that link?? PTSD is VERY real and it can be a hellish thing to deal with in fact it IS a hellish thing to deal with hands down...for anyone to suggest even for a minute that its fake is bogus..for anyone to imply that vets in particular are "faking it" and it doesnt need to be addressed is just sickening!

*big sigh*..I'm gonna have to read the link I know..I'll do that later when my head is more up for it


myLot reputation of 95/100. TheHairDresser (3366)   ranked 4 out of 119 in ptsd  2 years ago

Hi Raven
Thank you for showing here Dear..yes I know I was miffed..bigtime as my head is not much in a good place nowadays, despite my discussions being all fairy like, hehahah rubbish, I am hell on wheels too Raven..know what you mean!
((((Raven)))xo
Thanks for the support here and reading if you ever do get in a place to read this rubbish! xohappy

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. danishcanadian (20483)   ranked 66 out of 119 in ptsd   2 years ago

I think it really stinks that people with PTSD are being cast aside like nothing ever happened to them. My husband was in Viet Nam, and he battles is PTSD every day. I've been able to help him with it. When is the government going to wake up?

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. cblackink (807)   2 years ago

I think it's really sad that anyone should resent helping those who sacrificed for us. I heard in the news about a week ago that the suicide rate among Iraqi war veterans is increasing, and it's something that our government really doesn't want to make public.

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