sign in • sign up
web | myLot | discussions | tasks | blogs | news | photos
homeinterestsdiscussionstasksblogsnewsmessages friendsphotosearningsmyLotquizzes

Have you found " the one "????? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 84/100. mark17779 (515)   ranked 3,734 out of 23,255 in relationships2 years ago

Have you managed to find your perfect partner/soulmate yet, if so how many years and after how many failed relationships??

A survey in todays news says us Brits take 22 dates, 3 one night stands and 3 relationships to find our perfect partner.

I thought I had found my perfect partner in my last relationship. she was smart,sexy,funny,caring,fun to be with,good personality.... shows Im not a good judge of character as we split 5 months in to our relationship.

Do you think "the one" is really possible to find or would you rather keep moving on to a different partner?

 
 
relationships
sponsors
Used Honda Automobiles at Yahoo!
Certified Used Cars in Washington, DC. Shop for a Honda Used Car.
www.honda.com/yahoo

Washington 72 Hr Dissolution of Marriage
No court appearance. File by mail in 72 hrs. Guaranteed. $149.
www.helpyourselfdivorce.com

washington post.com job
Search Jobs& Post Your Resume on Washingtonpost.com - Try Now.
www.washingtonpost.com/jobs

jona_jz (68) response was accepted on 3/27/2008.
denotes best response.
tags:  love, the one, relationships, mature content, marriage
 
1. jona_jz (68)   ranked 11,134 out of 23,255 in relationships   2 years ago

DEFINITELY, I have found my ONE and only TRUE love. I met him over the Internet and we've been together for almost a year. We were engaged on June last year and hopefully will get married this coming June.

I have been to to many relationships and I wasn't expecting that I could find my one true love since I was thinking that I already found "them" but just not meant for me. But I was wrong, I found him right before I gave up looking for one.

Whatever you'll do and whoever you meet, you'll really find someone who is meant for you so it doesn't matter if you've been in a lot of relationship as long as you keep your heart open, you will really find the one who is meant for you.

Good luck to all of us!

Used Honda Automobiles at Yahoo! Certified Used Cars in Washington, DC. Shop for a Honda Used Car. www.honda.com/yahoo
 
2. myLot reputation of 94/100. skbh12 (1169)   ranked 5,554 out of 23,255 in relationships   2 years ago

i think i have found THE ONE that i have always been looking for and that is my present boyfriend marco diolata ii.. Im so much inlove with this guy that i wanted him and that i also feel that he is gonna be my last.. well, i know i should put an end to what i am saying but this how i wanted it to happen.. well, for now all i think of is the present. by tomorrow, we are turning on our 1st year and 4th monthsary.. yeah i know it is too early for me to say these things but he is the last guy whom i want to spend my life with. it is very tiring to have another guy and doing the firsts firsts again... he is the only guy i was able to introduce to my parents and all i want is for him to be the last guy they'll be seeing until their end comes..

Washington 72 Hr Dissolution of Marriage No court appearance. File by mail in 72 hrs. Guaranteed. $149. www.helpyourselfdivorce.com
 
3. myLot reputation of 97/100. Bethany1202 (2108)   ranked 3,640 out of 23,255 in relationships   2 years ago

This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.

washington post.com job Search Jobs & Post Your Resume on Washingtonpost.com - Try Now. www.washingtonpost.com/jobs
 
4. nataliemurie (82)   ranked 7,952 out of 23,255 in relationships   2 years ago

I know I've found the one. We're only 17 but we have been together for 3 years & we know each other so well. I wouldn't give him up for anything

Quality Relationships Online Form Quality Relationships in Your Area. Easy Online Registration. www.QualityProfessionalSingles.com
 
5. myLot reputation of 88/100. fajert (778)   ranked 8,287 out of 23,255 in relationships   2 years ago

Im a married man. I can say that my partner is not perfect for me and there are times before that im thinking she is not the one for me. But time goes by, we have 2 kids now.. She is not perfect but i love her the way she is. Its reaaly hard to say that the one with you now is the right one for you, your soulmate.

How to Fix Your Marriage Change your relationship habits & save your marriage. Free help. www.MarriageMax.com/Free-Help
 
6. jsarten80 (23)   ranked 10,009 out of 23,255 in relationships   2 years ago

I thankfully have found my one and only true love. We met in may of 2006 and were married in march of 2007. I had to go through 3 painful relationships before I found my husband and 1 failed marriage to a man who cheated on me with anything that had legs. The guy I was with before my husband, I was with him for 4 years and did not want to get married. I had swore off marriage until I met my husband and then I couldn't get down the aisle fast enough. We celebrated our first anniversary a few weeks ago and we look forward to many more!


myLot reputation of 97/100. Bethany1202 (2108)   ranked 3,640 out of 23,255 in relationships  2 years ago

That's very good -- HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!:)

The Quality of Life Group Looking For The Quality of Life Group In Your Area. Call Now. TheQualityOfLifeGroup.Local.com
 
7. myLot reputation of 82/100. candiec2005 (745)   ranked 195 out of 23,255 in relationships   2 years ago

I believe that it is possible to find "the one" but it isn't like many picture it. I believe I have found the one but there's no certainty of that. Nothing is certain in life. I believe I have found the one, because he is the only boyfriend that I can actually picture my life with, the only one I can picture having a family with, and growing old with. BUt that doesn't mean that there aren't moments that I wonder whether he is the one or not.

I believe that if you can picture yourself with someone in such a way that you never had before with anyone else, it means that maybe there's potential there. And if that's the case and BOTH people feel the same way, not just one, then they need to make certain adjustments in order to make the relationship work. Many relationships and marriages fail because most people don't want to work and relationships/marriages require WORK. People usually want the easy way out so, they divorce or break up. But if two people who are together feel a certain special way about each other and feel that it is worth the time, then I encourage them to work on their relationship if they want to make it. Bearing in mind that it won't be easy, even if they are right for each other, because life isn't easy, but it might be worth it.

Washington Nursing Jobs 8-26Wk Nursing Jobs in Washington Make $95,000yr + Benefits. www.TravelNursesNow.com/washington
 
8. myLot reputation of 95/100. giePortlandOR_08 (3894)   ranked 91 out of 23,255 in relationships   2 years ago

I think it will just come in the right time...

Single and Over 40? Meet Older, Sincere Singles Everyone is Serious and Screened. www.MatureSinglesOnly.com
 
9. myLot reputation of 98/100. babostwick (1640)   ranked 3,712 out of 23,255 in relationships   2 years ago

I wish I could saay I have but no I haven't. It is possible and I'm on a journey. Will I find her? I would like to believe so. Been tough on that one. I don't know where she is exactly and who is the one for me. That has more value than any money made. I haven't had many relationships at all to be perfectly honest.

Washington DC Real Estate Appraiser Flanagan Associates Residential Appraisers. Fast Quality Service you can count on. www.flanaganappraisals.com
 
10. myLot reputation of 86/100. leeesa (737)   ranked 1,141 out of 23,255 in relationships   2 years ago

Well maybe I should move to England so I can find my perfect partner. Haven't found him yet and I've been through 3 husbands! Seems the younger girls were a distraction to my men and I couldn't compete! And at my age, there aren't many men left to pick from. I have come to the conclusion that there is no such thing as the perfect mate. I think I am destined to be alone...

WA Appraiser Course Become A Real Estate Appraiser Now Quick & Easy Home Study Courses. www.RealEstateLicense.com
 
sponsors
Quality Relationships Online
Form Quality Relationships in Your Area. Easy Online Registration.
www.QualityProfessionalSingles.com

How to Fix Your Marriage
Change your relationship habits& save your marriage. Free help.
www.MarriageMax.com/Free-Help

The Quality of Life Group
Looking For The Quality of Life Group In Your Area. Call Now.
TheQualityOfLifeGroup.Local.com

similar discussions
age doesnt matter
it is a common knowledge that age doesnt matter in love..... is it really doesnt matter...
happy in the dream, but more sad in the day
last night, i have a happy dream. i deamed about the guy finally understand me and accept me. i...
What do you find more pleasurable in life?
Hi there, For me I find it most pleasurable to spend life with my family. What about you?
Is it okay to be a mistress?
Hi fellow myLotters! Just want to share with you a story of my friend. She is into a relationship...
If Everybody Like to do Love Marriages then.....
Hi guys, well i think two days ago i just find out in one discussion that everybody were supporting...
Most Important Thing in Life
The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.how many...
True love happens once in a lifetime.... Is It So???
People say and even movies show us that true love happens just once in a lifetime... and if you...
children
hello myloter's,what is the best thing or anything that we can offer to our children...share only...
In love there is not Connection without Communcation ..........................
But--------? Can There Be Connection Without Attraction?:)
How can you say that you don't love her aymore?
It's really difficult to say it. But, do you guys have any advise?
sponsors
Quality Relationships Online
Form Quality Relationships in Your Area. Easy Online Registration.
www.QualityProfessionalSingles.com
How to Fix Your Marriage
Change your relationship habits & save your marriage. Free help.
www.MarriageMax.com/Free-Help
The Quality of Life Group
Looking For The Quality of Life Group In Your Area. Call Now.
TheQualityOfLifeGroup.Local.com
Washington Nursing Jobs
8-26Wk Nursing Jobs in Washington Make $95,000yr + Benefits.
www.TravelNursesNow.com/washington
Single and Over 40?
Meet Older, Sincere Singles Everyone is Serious and Screened.
www.MatureSinglesOnly.com
Washington DC Real Estate Appraiser
Flanagan Associates Residential Appraisers. Fast Quality Service you can count on.
www.flanaganappraisals.com
WA Appraiser Course
Become A Real Estate Appraiser Now Quick & Easy Home Study Courses.
www.RealEstateLicense.com
DC Storage Trailers
Find Washington DC storage trailers & containers -- all sizes, rates.
Storage.YellowPages.com/DC
WA State Online Divorce
Complete All Required Forms Online Fast, Lawyer-Free, 100% Guarantee.
www.DivorceWriter.com
Locate Marriage Records
Search marriage records by name. The US marriage records directory.
marriage.recordsdirectories.com
return to mylot
We are loading a word from our sponsors. No thanks, cancel loading.