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Some things never change. I STILL hate age 3! email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 65/100. BCMike (3316)   ranked 1,377 out of 14,905 in parenting2 years ago

Today, my little Jason has been a pickle! Moody? Oh just a little. Crabby, whiny, and demanding. He has made me nuts all flippin' week. confused
I love him dearly but I don't think there is even ONE button left that he hasn't pushed so hard it stuck.
I'n gonna e'splode Looocy!angry
He has had a cold and been growing at the same time. Can there be a worse combination??? I don't think so.
I don't have enough attention span left and my wife has had a viscious cold as well. And it has been very rough on her. So rough that I have made her go to the hospital earlier this week and I even was in the lingerie store on the 19th just to help out. Luckily that day I had no customers but I was there anyway.
But this little guy has been coughing and barking and cranky, stubborn, fussy, moody, hungry, not hungry...
You know. "3". Just "3". You parents know how this song is sung.
Add to that and jason's dumb mother has been a pain too. She is a bit mentally challenged and now she doing lots of drugs too.
Oh yeah. This has been a banner week. I really hope this one coming is better. Please??????surrender

 
 
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Fishmomma (3524) response was accepted on 3/23/2008.
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tags:  children, cranky, kids, 3, colds
 
1. myLot reputation of 67/100. kcook57 (853)   ranked 3,488 out of 14,905 in parenting   2 years ago

WOW! Mike sounds like you need a long nap or something. LOL!
Kids do not change for the grandparents.....sorry, they stay young in our older days, and as we grow older our tolerance wears thinner & thinner. Hopefully you will have a better day tomorrow. It is bad when they are sick cause they sure can get cranky, too bad Mama is feeling under the weather too, Mama's seem to have more tolerance with the little ones.....LOL!
Happy Easter:)


myLot reputation of 65/100. BCMike (3316)   ranked 1,377 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

A long nappie-pooh and a few hours for just ME!
I understand that this is a tad selfish, but it is the full moon and I think I'm having my monthly...
I'm not bloated or crampy though. Thank God for that too.
But I am having post moonstral syndrome though. rasp

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. Grandmaof2 (4349)   ranked 1,908 out of 14,905 in parenting   2 years ago

I doubt you can make a difference in the mothers life, but sounds like you need to pull out your soup pot and brew up a big pot of chicken soup for your loved ones. I remember just answering a post of yours RE: chicken soup. Works magic on me. Good luck and stay well. Get better to your wife and Jason.


myLot reputation of 65/100. BCMike (3316)   ranked 1,377 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

Between the time I posted this and now, she texted my wife and was saying she doesn't have a mother anymore.
She is trying to say that she wants custody of the boy. That's so that welfare will give her more money for him, and baby bonus (In Canada, we get a monitary allowance from the federal government for each child based on your personal income.) and any child support coming from the father. With jason, she would likey be getting some $1500 each month or more. When you are a crack head, that is a lot of money.
As is, we think she is turning tricks in the city to support her habit.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Grandmaof2 (4349)   ranked 1,908 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

Good grief all one can do is pray she doesn't ever get Jason back. Poor little boy doesn't deserve that. I'm sorry but I have a soft spot for children. They don't ask to be born. All The Best.


myLot reputation of 65/100. BCMike (3316)   ranked 1,377 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

There is still enough fight left in me to go after anyone who dares try to do something harmful to him.
I'm tired and cranky, but I would never push him off on someone else.

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. Fishmomma (3524)   ranked 2,867 out of 14,905 in parenting   2 years ago

When you are done with the flag, then I'm getting in line. $1000 for plumbing was just the icing on the week, as if it could go wrong, it did go wrong. My cable was down part of today and I was working on taxes and 20 minutes of work has be done over. It was math calculations and I didn't save it.

I sure hope they feel better quickly!


myLot reputation of 65/100. BCMike (3316)   ranked 1,377 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

Mine's not much of a flag. What you are seeing is a paper towel tube and a kleenex. Pretty easy to make and you can wipe the tears away with kleenex after you wave it about a while.

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4. myLot reputation of 90/100. olivemai (2791)   ranked 1,526 out of 14,905 in parenting   2 years ago

It is difficult to deal with such young children! They are challenging their parents, as they must do in order to grow! Try to get some time off if you can! Remember it is how you respond that affects the outcome! Happy Easter!


myLot reputation of 65/100. BCMike (3316)   ranked 1,377 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

I have never gotten any better at this. I'm still a grumpy old fart. angry And I was an grumpy old fart when I was 25 doing this. 26 years later, I'm still a grumpy fart. But now I AM old... glare


myLot reputation of 90/100. olivemai (2791)   ranked 1,526 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

It is all that energy that gets them in trouble!

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5. myLot reputation of 86/100. Modestah (7932)   ranked 146 out of 14,905 in parenting   2 years ago

I have never understood why the cliche is "terrible twos" I always loved the twos, but gracious - those threes are so trying! they really are pushing the limits testing their boundries.


myLot reputation of 65/100. BCMike (3316)   ranked 1,377 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

You know? There is a cutsie name for every age where something significant happens in a child's developement. There is nothing for "3".
Talk to somebody with toddlers and you say three, and you get a look of horror like they had been there before... blinkshockedsurrender


myLot reputation of 87/100. shewolf52002 (622)   ranked 3,727 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

No more toddlers in my life right now.. Though my sons girlfriend is pregnant! 3 is bad alright but nothing compared to 13! (runs screaming in horror, LOL) I have forgotten the toddler years as I battle through the TEEN years! I have four teenagers in my house as we speak. (Flag please? or maybe two?) Hang in there it wont be long and he will be grown!

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. KrisNY (7347)   ranked 2,715 out of 14,905 in parenting   2 years ago

That stinks Mike---- I hate it when kids get colds... My daughter is fighting one too--- and believe me at the age of 11-- it's just as bad- whiny- moopy- cranky--- and to top it off she is so moody-- I think it might be almost time for her to start you know.
Eekk..

I hope your wife gets better soon--- and what a shame you had to work at the lingerie shop-- You always said you could tell a womans size-- too bad you didn't get customers!
I hope you have a better week! Sending you happy thoughts-


myLot reputation of 65/100. BCMike (3316)   ranked 1,377 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

droolEven if I had customers, for some reason they don't want me helping with fitting them... droolwub


myLot reputation of 96/100. KrisNY (7347)   ranked 2,715 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

There is the Mike that I grew to love! happy

I see you are using your emoticons now drool

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7. myLot reputation of 87/100. luv2cook4u (308)   ranked 2,492 out of 14,905 in parenting   2 years ago

I agree with you and modestah, I never understood the term "terrible twos" because 3 was always the worst age for me (for the record 4 is only slightly better and 5 slightly more). By 6 they have learned (my kids anyway) that whining and temper tantrums do not work, their independence has grown significantly (no more wiping dirty bums!!!), and they are much easier to reason with. Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy those moments when they are younger and the world is a new place to them, but they do just push and push those buttons until we are ready to explode. I cannot imagine adding an unstable parent to the equation nor could I imagine doing it alone. I give a LOT of credit to those who are those situations, because I think it would be enough to send me over the edge.


myLot reputation of 65/100. BCMike (3316)   ranked 1,377 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

The upside to this is that Jason's birthday is in May and he will be four. w00t The things are soon to improve. At least until he comes to the next most obnoxious age for boys. 14!!!thumbdown

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8. myLot reputation of 95/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 254 out of 14,905 in parenting   2 years ago

My darling Mike i am so sorry that this has been such an awful, nasty, challenging and distressing week for you my friend! I do know what 3 is like and that alone is almost enough to send most people over the edge without everything else! I am sure this week will be a huge improvement for you! i am sending hugs to you all! ps If I had only known you were in the lingerie store - I can just imagine your face if all we mylot ladies came trooping in - your face would have been priceless! lol xxxx


myLot reputation of 65/100. BCMike (3316)   ranked 1,377 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

It probably would have started like this blushand then gone to thisshocked. But then I would have settled down after the initial shock of it. wink


myLot reputation of 95/100. mummymo (11642)   ranked 254 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

Yeah and once we started heading to the adult section at the back.......

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9. myLot reputation of 93/100. slickcut (6004)   ranked 736 out of 14,905 in parenting   2 years ago

Well it is tough when kids get sick..Us big people are miserable when we have colds but we sniff, gripe,snort and go to bed...Jason is a little guy and he is miserable and he is doing all he knows to do and that is to pester you and be a holy Terror.....He is miserable and wants you to cater to them,they have it in their little minds that doing all these things will somehow make them feel better...They just do not know how to lay down and be sick....Hopefull Jason will get to feeling better soon and his mood will improve....


myLot reputation of 65/100. BCMike (3316)   ranked 1,377 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

On top of all this, we are trying to curb the lippy mouth too. There is only so much scolding you can do before he catches on to the correlation between cheeky mouth and a reminder pat on the butt.
This is a phase that he will grow out of thankfully. I have been here before and I managed to survive it. I will do it again... blinkrolleyes

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10. myLot reputation of 97/100. Polly1 (8463)   ranked 777 out of 14,905 in parenting   2 years ago

Ahhhhhh, shucks. I know where you are coming from. My 3 yr. old grandson lives with me, his mom and dad are here to. He can be such a joy and a pain in the rear at the same time. He can be so ornery and then heart melting sweetness the next second. I have days like what you are describing too, tomorrow will be better, yeah right, LOL. My grandson says "you be fine". Enjoy them while they are little, they soon grow up and become teenagers.


myLot reputation of 65/100. BCMike (3316)   ranked 1,377 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

Well Polly, I don't have the parents here. I and my wife are the primary care givers to Jason.
If you were to stand his mom and dad in front of you and start klunking their heads together like the old Certs commercial, you still couldn't make one good one out of the two. Let's just say they are a couple Certs short of a roll.
Dad is a boozer and now mom is a crack-ho. Quite a pair.
So we are determined to stand in the gap for him and make sure that he remains safe and secure.


myLot reputation of 97/100. Polly1 (8463)   ranked 777 out of 14,905 in parenting  2 years ago

Good for you and good for Jason, he is fortunate to have loving grandparents to take care of him. Your life will be so blessed many times. Enjoy him, treasure him and when he gets to be more then a handful come vent on mylot we will give you our sympathy and support. LOL

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