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what will you do is someone flirts with your boyfriend? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 94/100. rhane7315 (4137)   ranked 1 out of 19 in my boyfriend7 months ago

What will you do if you found out? Well it just happened on me twice. The first one is on my first bf (he's a dumbass two-timer anyway and that's the reason why I broke up with him)and the second one is as usual, on my present(second) bf.
My present bf went to their high school reunion last Christmas. He then told me that one his classmate named Stephanie asks if it's okay to take pictures with her. He said it was okay. When my bf got home, he showed me their picture then jealousy conquers me. Then he suspects that this girl named Stephanie has a hidden agenda on him because when on their way home, while my bf was driving, Steph suggests that it is okay to drop off bf's cousin first but my bf refuses. Instead, he drops off Steph first, then after that, his cousin. This girl gets on my nerves after I've heard this story. I like to punch her, slap her, kick her, etc.
After a week, I visited Steph's friendster to see what's new on her pics. Whoa! As I read her photo captions I felt like I was gonna explode because of what I read. It's like that she's dreaming to be my boyfriend's girlfriend. Damn that sl ut, I want to kill her.
Sorry guys if I say some bad words and if my english we're kinda bad

 
 
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020788 (57) response was accepted on 3/27/2008.
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tags:  relationships, flirt, love, flirting with someone's lover, stealing boyfriend or girlfriend
 
1. myLot reputation of 84/100. academic2 (4925)   ranked 12 out of 19 in my boyfriend   7 months ago

Boys will always be prone to flirting, I guess you need to appreciate that firstly, after that, judge him objectively and discover if the flirting is habitual, if so then you know you will never have peace with this boy friend, fire him-if it was a momentary act-then give him the benefit of doubt and talk it over with him to express your displeasure

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2. 020788 (57)   ranked 14 out of 19 in my boyfriend   7 months ago

Kill the beast? No, just kidding. Actually, we can't really avoid someone to be flirting with our lover most especially if that partner we have has that looks everyone would be allured to see and that lovable personality. I'll just leave that flirt alone when I'll have my boyfriend's assurance and confirmation that he would never flirt back. Of course that just means that even the flirt is my boyfriend's friend, he should be making a gap between them just to make sure nothing would be developed. We all know that human as we are, we could be tempted. One thing, prevention is better than cure as what a famous cliche says. So it's better to keep our guy away from that flirt and leave that flirt live her own life. But with that last thing you just said rhane that you saw it that flirt wants to be your boyfriend's girlfriend, you should probably remind her of her status! Just say to her, dream on! But don't ever start a fight. Every commotion could be solved through a simple talk I believe so.


myLot reputation of 94/100. rhane7315 (4137)   ranked 1 out of 19 in my boyfriend  7 months ago

If it's legal, I would love to kill her XD seriously, i talked to him about that. He said that he don't like her because she's chubby and she didn't suit in his taste. I believe him 'cause since from the start, he was loyal to me and he always tell me some things that he's been doing

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. Bethany1202 (1090)   7 months ago

I'd be a bit jealous as well, but it doesn't sound like your boyfriend was flirting back with her or doing anything wrong. Unless he was making out with her or something in the picture, taking a picture together is harmless.
He even dropped HER off first and it sounds like he discussed the whole thing with you as well.
I don't blame you for being jealous, but I hope you don't feel as though your boyfriend has done anything wrong. Fell good in knowing he only wants you, and try not to think about that girl too much my dear.


myLot reputation of 94/100. rhane7315 (4137)   ranked 1 out of 19 in my boyfriend  7 months ago

yeah you're right. maybe I'm just being insecure that's why I think about that girl sometimes.

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4. myLot reputation of 45/100. totalcomments_com (111)   ranked 13 out of 19 in my boyfriend   7 months ago

If my boyfriend flirted, I suppose the first thing I would do is explain to my wife that I have a boyfriend.

 
5. myLot reputation of 65/100. Gmdem13 (102)   5 months ago

In my opinion, everyone flirts. every male will naturally flirt with other girls. However, its not about the flirting. this is where trust in a relationship comes in. It sounds to me like even though steph was flirting with your bf, he cares enough about you to say no, and not hurt you. i think that you should let this role off and realise that... he wants YOU not her. i know its difficult, and it is different in certain situations. this is a little more profound. i think that usually flirting is harmless but when it gets to like physical flirting, then we get into trouble. im not a very jealous person, there have been a couple times that my bf has harmlessly flirted with other girls (yes hun, i see this)*i only say that because he just recently got a mylot* BUT, as much as he will harmlessly flirt with someone else, if the girl flirts back it doesnt really bother me because i know that he cares about me enough not to hurt me. i also make it very clear to ALL of my bf's that i do NOT condone cheating, and if they were to even think about cheating on me... they would not be producing sperm for much longer! hahaha. My Boyfriend knows that i am a pathological flirt.. (mostly when im drinking) when we go to a party and i might flirt with other people... it bothers him, but not so much because i always go back to him. he knows that i wouldnt hurt him. he means everything to me, and we trust eachother. i think that pretty much in any relationship everything goes back to trust. i think that if you know and your partener knows that you both trust eachother enough to flirt with other people and not actually ACT on it.. really everything ends up fine.

i hope that helped at least the slightest bit!

 
6. myLot reputation of 81/100. TheSpy (3383)   5 months ago

Hi Rhane:

I'm a man and men are all big flirts. So your boyfriend may have started it all.

I don't think that you deserve a boyfriend you takes his eyes off of you for one second.

Don't kill her get rid of him.

Ivor


myLot reputation of 65/100. Gmdem13 (102)  5 months ago

Spy, you confuse me... you say that all me flirt, but then you say she should get rid of him. just to find another male, which you say would flirt, because all men do?? are you telling her to switch teams?? hahah (just an observation) haha

 
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