Ok guys, why do you do this?!

That would aggrivate the tar out of me. I think they do it because they see us as servants, or the clearner uppers.. or maybe their mama's cleaned up after them, so they expect us to too. It doesn't happen in our house, my SIL is very neat and takes care of his messes he makes.

Lol Foxy I doubt if that will ever be taking notice of lol

Were you in our bathroom today? My hubby does that too, he'll shave and trim his beard and brush off whats left into the trash. Half of it makes it there and half doesn't. But, i guess of all the problems i could have that is the least of my worries. haha
Donna

Tom and I have only been married since Aug and he doesn't shave every day, but I have never found hair in the sink after he does.

He is very considerate in a lot of ways like that.

Oh this is good. I thought I was the only one with a slob for a husband... lol. I cannot understand why they do that! Does yours spit in the sink? Mine does and then it dries... oh I won't go into detail... makes me nauseated just to think about it! I have told mine before to put a towel over the sink or at least wipe it up when he's done. Men are definitely hard to train.

I was wondering who was teaching my partner.
It is your s/o.
That is one of my bug bears.
For some reason thaey cannot wash the hair out of the basin,
Cannot put their shaving gear back in the place it came from.
Cannot wipe up the water they have spread all over the bench top.
Cannot spread their towel out to dry.
And last but not least, leave the darn tap dripping.
I think I have covered it all, and that is just when they shave.

My brother used to do the very same thing when we were growing up. Actually.....I think he still does. Since I do not live in the same house with him anymore it does not bother me, but I feel for the woman who ends up with him. She will either have to clean up after him or hound him until he does it himself.

What I want to know is why more men haven't answered this discussion? I usually let the bathroom go until it's so bad he'll clean it up - it's a real stresser for me and I give up sometimes and clean it. My husband's worst fault is the messes of clothes, personal belongings, bathroom, etc. I don't know how someone can "make" someone clean up after themselves, I'd love to know, other than mentioning it, asking, threatening...

Are you sure your husband isn't my brother? He moved in with us temporarily (That was almost 3 years ago). He never cleans up after himself and is a total slob. We were an all female household before and never had to worry about that mess in the sink or around the toilet, now we do. The only thing he at least does is put the seat down Other then that he is a total slob and it is very annoying I know. I hope you can say something to the hubby on it. I can't to the brother, he doesn't seem to get a clue on it at all. It just goes right over his head.

lol I would be willing to bet that it is a woman writing this lol I don't know why that is that we do this but I mean at least i dont miss lol that is a positive thing i think but whenever we shave or something like that it takes time that we really don't want to spend doing it anyways and the way i see it its just gonna be the same way tomorrow so why would we want to clean it up today and then have to turn around and clean up the same mess tomorrow...when in all actuality we coudl just leave it till the end of the week and then clean it up one time...that is just my thought process...lol


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