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 For all of my myLot friends who know about the ordeal I was going through with John, here is the answer to why he was acting the way he was: He was considering leaving me. It's not because he doesn't love me, but rather because he took a look at the whole situation and he didn't like what he was seeing or feeling. He became discouraged. Like I said previously, a lot has happened in our relationship and a lot of it came from family. My mother and brother hate him because of the gun issue and my brother going back to jail for it (he pulled gun out on John while in my house), my youngest sister for some unapparent reason just started disrespecting him and taunting him and this would happen for a couple of months, my ex-fiance came out of the blue and asked a total stranger (John) if he was sleeping in my house and that started a fued that would last for nearly 4 years, he is judged by my family big time.
In his eyes, everyone around where I live hates him, and there was this other woman whose family adored him. There was no drama, no judging. He went out with this woman's mother one day to Applebee's and he told me that while sitting there, he wished that it was my mother that he was with. He visited this woman's church and was wishing that he could have this type of relationship with my family, but there was this woman that wouldn't leave his mind or his heart and that was me. Now, in the beginning of the relationship, my mother liked him, she invited him into her home and remember, he asked her if he could take me out. It wasn't until my brother did what he did that my mother started disliking him. We had a long talk last night, and I shed some tears because I can't blame the man for what he is feeling and I must give him credit because he is truly honest, almost brutally honest because he told me everything and when I say everything, I mean everything. Needless to say, we are going to work things out because after all that we have been through together, the love and respect is still there. Pray for us okay. 
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1.  nicholejade (1625) | 2 years ago |  I'm sorry to hear all this going on. I know somewhat how he feels. My Granny hates my fiance. And well that is her choice to not like him. But you can't judge someone that you have never met. And she has never met him nor will she ever. I have wiped my hands clean of my Granny. At the beginning of our relationship my mom's side of the family didn't care for my fiance as he was quiet and he was shy. He felt weird around them and he told me that. I don't blame him though. It's just the type of person he is. I love him my parents and my brother love who he is. He has since opened up to them. But with the extended family there is still some work on some of them. But as I say to him I love him for who he is and how he treats me. If my family doesn't understand. Then so be it.
Don't let your family get you down on this. I know it is hard. But as you said there is the love and respect there. If your family wants to come down on him. Maybe it is time to part your ways with them as well. As everytime you see them they are just going to bicker to you about him. It's honestly not worth it. Yes it is abandonening your family a little but if you love the guy (you can't help who you love) be with him and make it work. Good luck to you. Keep your chin up head held high and I pray that things will work out for you both. Sounds like he is a good guy.
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2.  dragonfly242 (852) | 2 years ago |  What a sad thing to have happen between your family and your man. It's good that you decided to work your issues out,you already have the foundation for a solid relationship. Just remember that a love that has been tested and survives is a love for all times. The hopeless romantic in me will most definitly be praying for you.
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3.  carolscash (4886) | 2 years ago |  This guy loves you and will remain true to you as long as you are willing to take a stand for him. I think that I would tell my mom that she was not going to cause us to split up and that John is the man that you love and will be with. She will either accept that or she will have to live with the consequences, which may be that you stay your distance from the family.
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4.  subha12 (16450) | 2 years ago |  I am sorry to hera all these. i think here you do not have any faults. still he wants to leave you like this? i do not think its very good from his part.
i will pray for you so that everything is ok.
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