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How is your feeling when He didn't call you for a day? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 91/100. aowaow (1097)   ranked 112 out of 23,275 in relationships2 years ago

What if your guy/spouse didn't call you for a day when you needs him?

(Open for men too) Share to us about your reason of not calling your girlfriend/spouse.

 
 
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tags:  relationships, love, in touch, needs, private time
 
1. myLot reputation of 83/100. giftsandbagscom (12032)   ranked 876 out of 23,275 in relationships   2 years ago

I did have a call from him today. It was the not being able to come to me that bothered me. I had a really bad say today. I just wanted him to lay next to me and I fall asleep. He had to take the car back to the shop.

When I don't call him for the day. he will call me and say I could at least let him know I am alive. Then I feel so bad for my baby.


myLot reputation of 91/100. aowaow (1097)   ranked 112 out of 23,275 in relationships  2 years ago

I know how the feeling is...

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2. hopebird2008 (79)   ranked 21,225 out of 23,275 in relationships   2 years ago

Actually I needs some private time.
I think everyone needs this,too.
Do not tie each other too tight.
This perhaps do good to you unexpeced.


myLot reputation of 91/100. aowaow (1097)   ranked 112 out of 23,275 in relationships  2 years ago

To men, it's valid rights to keep distance for awhile or "to be alone".
But not to women.

Not all women have this knowledge about your man's needs of "to be alone" at one phase of the relationship. It's the phase on where you will lose the grab of yourself in the relationship, and you retreat back to find again your identity. Then when you do, you will come back to give the love again.

If you can share about this knowledge to your woman about you needs, then she will feel not dumped if she can accept for your this nature needs. Frequently try to always remind her until she knows when the timing is.

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3. arhemsi (1)   2 years ago

Before I answer, are you man or woman?:D


myLot reputation of 91/100. aowaow (1097)   ranked 112 out of 23,275 in relationships  2 years ago

I forgot who I am.
:)

Hello, RMC.
I'm sorry you had lost contact with me in MyLot for 6 months. LOL.
How's those girls?

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. chiyosan (9208)   ranked 1,811 out of 23,275 in relationships   2 years ago

i think it is okay... he just might be busy... of course, i do not want that he will not think of me like for 2 days straight and i will not hear from him too. a simple and hello would do, at least i know he is concerned about me too...

as much as possible i do try to give him a short message to take care, and that i am thinking of him.. not being a clinging vine when i do send him a message everyday... i hope he is not thinking of it that way. of course he is free to do whatever he likes for the day.. etc... so i ain't being pushy that he has to let me know everything.


myLot reputation of 91/100. aowaow (1097)   ranked 112 out of 23,275 in relationships  2 years ago

You are an understanding woman. He must be very lucky to have you. Yes, I know how that feeling is. Thanks for sharing. God bless you and your family.


myLot reputation of 95/100. chiyosan (9208)   ranked 1,811 out of 23,275 in relationships  2 years ago

thank you.:) i just don't want my man to feel i am so attached to him that i can't possibly live with out him.. so he's got his breathing space...

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5. myLot reputation of 92/100. gxnfly (888)   ranked 305 out of 23,275 in relationships   2 years ago

When I was at college,I would feel more upset if more boyfriend didn't call me for a day when I need him.I would go like,doesn't he love me anymore?and all the other crazy thoughts going round my mind.Now,I don't .I've get used to it that my boyfriend call me in a week or doesn't call me at all.He is very busy,and I have my own things to do.When I need him,miss him,I may give him a call,or just think of him in my heart a little,then get back to my work.


myLot reputation of 91/100. aowaow (1097)   ranked 112 out of 23,275 in relationships  2 years ago

You had cracked the biggest mystery of balancing the feminine and masculine side.
He is lucky to have a such understanding woman like you are. Thanks for sharing.

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6. myLot reputation of 90/100. andrejuly84 (807)   ranked 1,457 out of 23,275 in relationships   2 years ago

when happened these kind of situations i didn't call the guy because i was too proud i didn't want him to know i care about him or maybe more than that.of course i was feeling like a lion in a cage.anyway i was very nervous on that guy and imagine different situations and reasons he could have for not calling.if the relationship with him wasn't so important or very short,the fact he didn't call meant almost the end of the relationship.maybe it wasn't right but i was young at that time 15-17 years cause at 17 i met my actual partner


myLot reputation of 91/100. aowaow (1097)   ranked 112 out of 23,275 in relationships  2 years ago

I'm sorry. I can feel the feeling you had by that time. But, man and woman were born differently. Maybe some communication to each other will solve this case. At least, "try to ask without it seems an asking". Maybe it's not our nature, but we need to count for his different nature feelings too in life of sharing. So, communication is the solution if you want to expect him to remind himself to not forget your needs too.

Thanks for sharing, God bless you and your family.

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