Check her out!  | |  I have been around guys than girls lately, since I started my new job I have been around guys (my co-workers and boss) almost everyday, and whenever we go out, it seems like they are always on the outlook for girls. I know it is normal for even I do somehow scout for guys, but the thing is that they always have something to say.
Most of the time my co-worker would react and say "yummy", at first I did feel uneasy with the remarks, but have eventually gotten immune to them.
Of course once in while I still feel awkward when they eye a woman and follow with their glances and talk about them and the like.
For guys: I am just wondering, what do you guys actually think of when you react like that? Is it something really normal with you guys to do?
For girls: Have you been in this kind of a situation? And how do you react or respond?
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| | | | | | | | 1.  kfrisk (2817) | 2 years ago |  I find that when I am with a group of guys, I act like the guys. I don't openly ogle girls because I am not into girls, however I will comment with them about whether I think a girl is hot or not. But, that's just me. That doesn't make me feel uncomfortable at all. Guys will be guys and I assume they think that because you are out with them, you consider yourself one of the guys and wouldn't expect you to be bothered by it. If anything does bother you, I bet they would be cool with it, as long as you say something to them.
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 smints8985 (1013) | 2 years ago | Most of the time I have learned to deal with that, that it is just natural with guys. But then again, there will be those times when it is somewhat unavoidable to feel a little bit awkward especially when the topic goes beyond the usual "check her out she looks hot" glances.
At some point I do react and tell them that they are acting a bit too creepy.. haha... but they still do the same thing anyways, I guess that's just how they are.. | |
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| kfrisk (2817) | 2 years ago | I think you are right. We will never change them, better to just accept it and move on with our lives!:-) And yes, if they are creeping you out, lol, I would say something, too! | |
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| | | | | 2. ladym33 (5159) | 2 years ago |  I am the only female (most of the time) who plays cards with a group of guys every weekend, one of the guys is my own husband. Although we are not in public the television is always playing in the back ground and every time a halfway decent looking woman comes on the screen they all have to comment, well all except my husband who I am certain is only quiet because I am there, and sometimes he even joins in on it. Someone put on a dirty movie one night I don't know why but, they were playing while we were playing cards. I had my back to the TV so I couldn't see it. All of the guys were completely mesmorized by the screen and making comments. It was great because none of them were paying any attention to the card game. I won a lot of money that night:)
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| smints8985 (1013) | 2 years ago | Ahahaha!!! Wow you got the upper hand on that one huh.
Yeah it just seems like guys always have to be vocal about their side comments regarding women. A lot of times it is funny but there are those times that they tend to overdo it and it feels creepy.. ahaha | |
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| | | | | 3. tigerdragon (2986) | 2 years ago |  we love beautiful things specially beautiful women! and it is natural for us o react that way but it is all bark, i am sure of it. do not feel awkward if you are with a group of guys and recting that way because that means you are on of the pack and you are safe with them. they do not mean to disrespect nor demean you nor your sexuality. you are just geting to see the boys in the men.have fun!
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| smints8985 (1013) | 2 years ago | Heheh... yeah it actually is fun seeing how boys are when it's all boy talk. A lot of times I have a great time with them hearing they comment and seeing how they behave. Then again there is a thin line between appreciation and somewhat being a p*rv...hahah | |
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| tigerdragon (2986) | 2 years ago | well, you might as well get use to it since you will be hanging out with the pack for a while. at least, you got the first hand experience on how boys are when we see girls. | |
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| | | | 4.  sisco100 (1386) | 2 years ago |  well the thing is tht we do tht when we see a hot girl wearing something hot. if women weor baggy cloths then there would be less of it. if women didnt wana us to look then they should wear less revealing cloths. its all based no how the girl is dressed. if she looks hot then she wants people to notice her. thts why they wear things like tht. some girls just have want some men like most about women like big rack, or nice butt or something tht they actcent so the we notice.
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