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myLot reputation of 82/100. rjscott (3074)   ranked 732 out of 23,282 in relationships2 years ago

Imagine you met someone to whom you were attracted to so much that you couldn't think straight. Imagine further that you totally and absolutely fell in love with this person. You haven't had sex, but you simply KNOW this is the person who was meant for you.

What would you do if you discovered that person had a sex change? Was once a female turned male or male turned female?

Do you think that would change your "absolute love" or would the initial attraction bring you even closer to that person?

Or, would your sense of "morals" and "decency" or thoughts of what others might think take over causing you to abandon your new and "absolute love"?

People are different ... and often strange.

What would you say, after having told said person that you love them ... would you switch gears and immediately back up or would you pursue the "love of your life"?

I want to know. The world wants to know.

Memo to self: Where DO you come up with these things, RJ? At the beach ... of course. (C) 2008 RJScott

 
 
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novataylor (2141) response was accepted on 4/14/2008.
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tags:  mature content, true love, absolute love, think about it, it's always complex
 
1. myLot reputation of 100/100. jillhill (11686)   ranked 326 out of 23,282 in relationships   2 years ago

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myLot reputation of 82/100. rjscott (3074)   ranked 732 out of 23,282 in relationships  2 years ago

Ah, it was meant to be tough, Jill, and to inspire COMMENTS and THINKING.

I think it beats the hell out of "I earned $3.31 this month, how much did YOU earn?"

Memo to self: Starting discussions on earnings has become so 1960. I think it's time to talk about something MEANINGFUL or CONTROVERSIAL! (C) 2008 RJScott

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2. myLot reputation of 87/100. agfarm (747)   ranked 4,393 out of 23,282 in relationships   2 years ago

This is a head scratcher.....Hmmm.............
I only have one solution........
God made all humans,correct?
Whether we approve of male turned female, or Female turned male
or whatever the situation may be.....God still created all of us. Now.....does God make Mistakes?
We humans judge each other for EVERYTHING under the sun, but......
God created all humans........ does he make Mistakes??????


myLot reputation of 82/100. rjscott (3074)   ranked 732 out of 23,282 in relationships  2 years ago

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3. myLot reputation of 92/100. novataylor (2141)   ranked 3,066 out of 23,282 in relationships   2 years ago

I honestly think that it might actually deepen my love for them somehow. To know that they had come through that kind of hell, that kind of adversity, intensity, agony, and come out through the other side to become this amazing person that I fell completely in love with would be a stunning realization. I think that I'd look at them in a new light of course, but with new respect and awe. And then, I'd want them to sit down with me and tell me everything. I'd want to know all of it, from the moment that they knew who and what they were inside of themselves. How much more intimate could you get with someone? And I think if I hadn't told my love everything about myself yet, I would. It seems to me that it might just further cement our feelings for each other.
I don't think I'm going to be in the majority with this outlook, but that's nothing unusual. Thanks, rj, for the opportunity to think and to look into my own heart. And also, I should say, for the opportunity to look into a few other hearts out there on the Lot. I wonder what we'll see.


myLot reputation of 82/100. rjscott (3074)   ranked 732 out of 23,282 in relationships  2 years ago

Nova, I find myself to be very much like you in my thinking.

I don't think it would be possible for me to turn my love on and on as we do with a water faucet.

I firmly believe that if I fell in love with a woman who was born a man, nothing would change that love.

This may make me perverted, but I know myself well enough to know that you don't stop loving a person simply because s/he doesn't meet society's "standards."

Fortunately for me, I'm so much in love that I'll never have to sweat over this hypothetical discussion.

Yeah ... let's watch this one to see if "love" is more or less important than the 32 cents someone made today!

::GRIN::


myLot reputation of 82/100. rjscott (3074)   ranked 732 out of 23,282 in relationships  2 years ago

Doh! On and on should be on and off!

Good grief, RJ. Pull yourself together and type right!


myLot reputation of 92/100. novataylor (2141)   ranked 3,066 out of 23,282 in relationships  2 years ago

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