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 You know in your heart they are not trust worthy. You know your holding on to nothing. Why are you still there with them. Your not really in love if you don't trust them. How can you be happy if your trust is on shaky ground?
What is it about that makes you stay?
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1.  YorkieBear (982) | 5 months ago |  Sounds like you are writing my life. Why do I stay? Trapped. Nowhere to go and no access to money to be able to go. He makes sure of that. Tried to leave once but kids were having a hard time with it because he was fighting me for one and they did not like that they would not be able to be with me all the time. I am their security. Tried to make things work but when that trust is gone it is gone along with everything else. I ask myself the same question many times....why do I stay?
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 giftsandbagscom (10610) | 5 months ago | Oh I feel so bad to read this. I know just how you feel. i was like this when I was married. But I could not stay with him. I am glad to this day I left. But my daughter was 3 so that was the difference.
Hope things get better soon. | |
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| YorkieBear (982) | 5 months ago | It is hard to stay with a person like this. Interesting you left because you had a child and I stay because I have children. | |
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2.  ElicBxn (7668) | 5 months ago |  A lot of times people stay because they are afraid. they are more afraid of the unknown than the known, it could be worse after all.
I guess I'm not really one to talk since I don't have a relationship of that kind - I guess I'm just not trusting at all, I expect most guys to lie to me.
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| giftsandbagscom (10610) | 5 months ago | I think I am putting my none trusting on to my new relationship. I am going to work on that one. Plus I see that I am passing the bad done to me in the past. On to him as well. He was sick tonight and I sounded like I did not care. He said I knew you were going to say that. Thanks so much | |
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| ElicBxn (7668) | 5 months ago | Its really hard to trust people when they have betrayed you. And I don't mean that HE has done anything, I just mean generally.
If you have to, sit down with him and explain that you know you have issues with trust, and that you are working on them, but he can't expect you to get over years or a lifetime of betrayal in a few months or even a couple of years.
New relationships kind of expect to have a free pass, and sometimes forget that the other person may have baggage that have become attached to their souls. | |
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3.  winterose (12022) | 5 months ago |  well the only time it ever happened to me that I was with someone who I knew was cheating on me, I was young. It was my first boyfriend, and I did love him with every ounce of my mind and body. I stayed because I felt I could live without him and then I did leave. And I hurt for 10 years afterwards, it took me that long to fall out of love with him.
Never again did I let that happen to me.
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