let me get in ur mind (for the ladies)

i knew i wanted to date my baby cuz he was very sweet and he just seemed to be the rite one...and we been together for 8 months on Friday

Well first thing physically that turns me on to a guy is smooth chocolate or caramel skin, and when I see him smile, if I see dimples I get weak in the knees. I am a sucker for dimples.

When I'm about to date anyone, I try to get to know them as much as possible first to make sure we have enough in common to make a relationship work. Chemistry based on looks is good, but it doesn't always last, that's why its better to get to know someone and have a different kind of connection with them

My husband is hot, but he also is damn hilarious. I think humor is a great quality to have. He also can get along with pretty much anyone!!!

My guy has to be smart and make me laugh. I hate lines and a guy who seems to think he is all that. Guys that tell you what they think you want to hear instead of the truth are pathetic. If I only went for looks I wouldn't be much of a person. Looks help but being a decent human being is more important.

Well a guy does have to be attractive to me first. I beleive personality is important but if you cant get hot looking at them youre in trouble. I have dated guys that I thought were just okay looking and like them more and more as I got to know them.

First and formost when am looking for a guy to date, i want personality!

Im not into parting alot, so i dont like hearing a guy saying that they did this girl last night, and they did these drugs last night.

I hate cocky guys! Ladies you know them guys who over impress, or make themselves out to be the hottest guy in the room.

I was having a discussion a while back with my boyfirend, we were talking about some of the reason guys get ladies and some dont. We both agree that when your on a date, pay attention to what the girl is saying, but dont be over intrested in her, eyes glued on her like a Zombie on. That can potentially feel uncomfortable to a female. Talk to her like your firends, and develop the conversions from there.

Its important not to be looking at another girl in the way of intrest in her, while your with a girl. Even if its your best female friend, i find it rude. lol

As for apperance, i think it has a large part of choosing the man and am not saying the guy has to be a super model or nothing, i just believe that you should also not loook like you just craweled out of a garbage dump, raggy clothes, unclean clothes, teeth stains from cigarrettes:P Have a little bit of pride in your apperance.


When am looking for a relationship, i want personlity, i personally like a man whom i can freely and easily talk to, someone i can chill with, someone i can laugh with, LOL and most of the female i talk to agree that we love cuddling hahaha.

My favorite part of a guy is there eyes, followed by a nice upper chest, with some arm mussle...NOT overly worked arm mussle like your on some type of steroids either.

any pickup line to a girl ..at least to me...is a waste of time.
If a guy is smart and can hold his own in an intellectual conversation...thats a real plus.
But personality> looks.
and what does anyone want out of a relationship? lol..a meaningful connection..a lover..a friend...etc etc.
And fav part of a guy? physically? i havea thing for shoulders....yea i am wierd.