Who's more bossy?
By gxnfly
@gxnfly (1147)
China
April 17, 2008 2:27am CST
I'm the boss in our relationship most of the time.Actually I'd love that if my boyfriend is a little bit bossy.But he never being bossy,he just "take orders from me".
When we are now watching a DVD, I'm the one hogging the remote most of the time.And I'm also the one hog the computer unless I'm tired of it.


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9 responses
@gcrew931 (228)
• Philippines
17 Apr 08
My girl is more bossy and I don't really mind that. I treat her like a princess I hope that's every man should do. However, when it comes to bed I become more bossy and I really take charge of the situation. I also believe in the 60-40 thing that he was talking about. But this time my girl gets the 60. I think it doesn't matter now who the boss is. I guess what matters is you guys making the relationship working and compromising who can dictate what to do. I think this where good communication really kicks in.
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
17 Apr 08
he he i noticed that too in me, i get to be the bossy one in my past relationships. sometimes i was thinking why don't they try to boss me around too? he he but everybody told me that they loved me so much that they let me do that....
i mean, i decide what to watch, where to eat, and i never let my past bfs talk to my angrily i will be more angry and sometimes even if it was my mistake, i tend to work it around and they are the ones to look they made the mistake... he he
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
17 Apr 08
it's my ex-boyfriend is more bossy than me because i dont like fights and he's older than me..i leave to him some of the orders, but sometimes he wanted me to become the boss and i like the feeling..hahaha
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
17 Apr 08
I can say, my husband is more bossy, and i really dont like it at times n really feel hez being a jerk....Thats gud wen you have a up hold, coz bossiness cud lead 2 abuse...4 some, not all...
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
17 Apr 08
Who is the bossy, as long as each can decrease the pressure and made it a silly fun stuff for a joke. This depends on each personality and how deep the understanding to each other.
Some people will be a sensitive, this one needs a bit hard work to settle up, there is always a solution to handle this type.
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
17 Apr 08
Well, most of the time, I am the "bossy one" but there are times that he is the boss especially when it comes to computers. We often fight over the computer, it's fun.
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
17 Apr 08
my bf was more bossier than me but in spite of that, he doesn't abuse it and he wants to have a give and take in our relationship so we could be both happy









