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Why do you fall in love with the wrong persn sometimes? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 72/100. rukki123 (129)   ranked 184 out of 1,552 in lover4 months ago

A person may fall in love with a character who is not so perfect and; may find a person with all the admirable qualities in the world and not fall in love with him?Why is love so blind?

 
 
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tags:  love, falling in love, preferences, people, attracted
 
1. myLot reputation of 88/100. busta1baby (1193)   ranked 239 out of 1,552 in lover   4 months ago

i feel in love with all the rong ppl well that was till i mean my present boyfriend...our love is like no other love i have ever had...

i love my baby

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2. myLot reputation of 83/100. meiji15 (315)   ranked 70 out of 1,552 in lover   4 months ago

the closest answer i can give you is the person is probably in love with love. that he/she is too blinded by the notion of being in love that he/she immediately hooks up with the first person (of the opposite gender or otherwise) that comes along.

with regard the statement about a character who is not perfect, my dear, love sees pass the imperfections. what your partner lacks, you fill. you're like yin and yang. two opposite entities that create a balance, that completes each other

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3. myLot reputation of 75/100. busta1 (831)   ranked 344 out of 1,552 in lover   4 months ago

i feel in love with my baby the first time i started to talk to her with in that same day i told her i loved her and to this day we are together.

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. giePortlandOR_08 (3930)   ranked 3 out of 1,552 in lover   4 months ago

Love is blind because when we fall in love we never see the bad side of the person we are in love with.we only see the good sides.When we are in love we feel that the person is very perfect for us.

 
5. myLot reputation of 88/100. busta1baby (1193)   ranked 239 out of 1,552 in lover   3 months ago

CUZ U ALWAYS HAVE TO FALL IN LOVE WITH THE RONG GUY SO U KNO WEN U FIND THE RITE ONE

 
6. myLot reputation of 89/100. aowaow (1081)   ranked 536 out of 1,552 in lover   3 months ago

You are not falling in love the wrong person, if not, you won't stated this love from the very scratch of the relationship. Everything has the good and bad times, wax and wane condition. Human has a mood. We must accept this unconditionally. Staying single yet has its bad and good times.

So no matter where you run for, you still face two sides for all phases. Love is not blind as long as we want to find the key of root's problem, why it has caused this. When you're not eager to find it, the next relationship won't be better than current one. Next relationship you may won't find this problem, but it will also give you a new problem that you have never had in current one.

Nobody's perfect. Because you won't find the perfection from others, because it's only found inside yourself. You want to look other as a perfect one for you, then in time, other will always be a perfect one for you. But if you knock it down, the result will gone sour than you'd imagined before.

 
7. myLot reputation of 96/100. ayessa (754)   ranked 311 out of 1,552 in lover   3 months ago

I once ask that question to myself and the only answer I get is loving or falling inlove includes ACCEPTANCE. Accepting the person all his qualities even his bad side. Because a person does not only have good qualities he/she still has a bad side which we should learn to accept when loving them.

I never call love is blind. Love sees everything. Good or bad. maybe the reason why you call it blind because you've learn to accept the faults/wrong of your partner and still accepts him/her.

 
8. myLot reputation of 96/100. nanayangel (2434)   ranked 272 out of 1,552 in lover   3 months ago

Hi there rukki!

I think that it's because every person is different from the other so we all have different preferences and we get attracted to different kinds of people. And sometimes, it's not about being blind. It's about seeing something that the others do not see.

 
9. myLot reputation of 65/100. subha12 (10903)   ranked 213 out of 1,552 in lover   3 months ago

it is such life. love mainly is controlled by heart. so in love many fail to notice the truth behind these. so many people fall for wrong person altogether.

 
10. myLot reputation of 94/100. jyoti_medha (458)   ranked 1,142 out of 1,552 in lover   3 months ago

I believe that love is blind so most of the time people do not think before they fall in love with someone because their feelings are controlled by their heart and not by their mind. So they do not realise if the person is right for them or not and fall in love with the person and after some time they realise that they have fallen in love with the wrong person

 
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