more couples seek breakup for silly grounds?

I think more and more we are in a throw-away society. Commitment has become just a word and not reality for so many couples. Years ago, people tried to work out their differences, but now it is just easier to break up and move on. There were probably relationships that should have been ended, but the couples stayed together anyway and tried to make the best of their situation.

Also, many times when a partner wants out of the relationship and doesn't want to discuss the real reason, they will just come up with crazy excuses or pick fights instead. People and relationships are very complicated. Some will try really hard to work things out to stay together and others just prefer to walk away.

Hello,season! Break up relationship in western countries are very common now a days.I don't understand how they break up the relation for petty matters after remaining so many days together before and after marriage.how a relationship developed between them when they have difference of opinion.i think their relationship was just like use and throw articles.as we throwaway many articles after use once or for some time,so also these couples consider the relationship as use and throw.this is not relationship in the true sense.we the Indians,keep our relationship till our last breath.ofcourse,some of us also behave like these people and break up relationship.but in rare occasion they succeed.to strengthen the relationship the couple should regard each others view points,desire, and above all privacy.they should understand each others problems otherwise the relationship would sure to break up on petty grounds.

Wow i can say im surprised but not actually in denial. Now-a-days, break-up has been so common and easy to deal with. I cant see how that cud have been such a horrible case, like its the most impossible thing about your partner. Well i guess thats how the thought of people has become. But i do see the point of the girl, she cant beg and live a different lifestyle for some1 considered her better half....

that would be silly if they're reasons are like that. they're not a child to act that way and having a commitment with the one you love is not game lol

The sad thing is, society had decided it's easier to move on rather than to work on, and through, problems.
Where people once tried to work things out, now they simply storm out and demand a divorce.
Of course, I'm not saying that if two people are miserable, that they should stay together. However, people don't even try to talk about things, or compromise any more.
Many people go into relationships knowing they can just walk away if it gets too hard.
Life isn't easy, and of course problems will always occur at some point during a relationship. It's sad though that people choose to walk away without a thought, instead of trying to work through things though.

It's sad that society has come to this that someone could and does throw away a long term relationship on the grounds of their partners dress sense. In truth it may say a lot more about their deeper relationship, lack of communication and other things fundamentally wrong. Not only do marriages seem to be ended almost on a whim these days but often they seem to be entered into with the same carefree attitude. I often wonder if instead of making it harder to divorce maybe it should be harder to actually get married in the first place and people might pause a moment longer to realise the commitment they are entering into.

Personally, I feel most people tend to not even try to give Marriage a chance anymore. They are always just playing around with the idea of it, and after a yr. or two, they feel it is time to end it just due to someone not meeting their expectations like they thought they should. And the problem is that Hollywood is the one portraying this, so people never think twice when they decide to leave someone.

I personally think more people need to committ to Marriage more like back in the Bible days, and make it to where til Death do you part, or don't get married. It would save a lot of time and trouble for so many people, and be a lot cheaper as well. This is just my opinion.

To end a relationship or quit, is easy. A lot of people are looking for easy fixes. Instead of trying to work things out, we just simply quit or throw it away. My husband and I have been married for 6 1/2 years now and during a couple of arguments he has said, 'I want a divorce.' Keep in mind that these have been arguments about cleaning (or the lack of cleaning) or the babies not sleeping in their rooms every night. We have never followed through with his requests because he doesn't really want a divorce, he just wants the argument to end or quit because it's easier than working it out. I know a number of people who have ended relationships because it was easier than working through your problems. I say this, if you really love the person and you are truly happy with them, then work it out!

My opinion on this is If you love someone you have to accept them for who they are no matter what...don't love them to control their lives..Me and my husband comment on each other but we don't force each other to change. We give out suggestions to each other. I like fixing myself up I don't want to look ugly because I have 5 kids. I am very fit and if you see me you wouldn't think I have 5 kids. Now and then I hear my husband comment on me. I guess if this guy just told her wife in a right way what he wants then maybe they wouldn't be breaking up and if the wife just listened as well and maybe look herself up in the mirror and make some adjustments as well for her husband just to keep the relationship..I didn't say change all..just some.

Hello season, I must agree people don't go into marriage for the long haul
these days. Divorce rates have been high for many years now. Rather than try to work things out or accept the differences we each have people just walk away. I can understand if there were instances of abuse but the reasons for divorce that are
used these days can be termed as petty. I guess people don't believe in til death do we part or for better or worse anymore...this is a very sad thing to have come about...Mamablaze!!