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What would you do? If you felt that you were falling in love with someone, email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 94/100. crackhead (1390)   ranked 262 out of 16,771 in relationships4 months ago

If you think you are matured enough then would you tell the person that you are falling in love with them. Express your feelings towards them, Saying how much you care and how much u love. How do you like to express your love like the one in the picture or do you have some other ways to express your love?

Or do you hold back your feelings worried if what happens once he/she rejects. Hope you dont want to break your heart if the person rejects your love. What would you do? I just want to share my response to this discussion along with you friends so i will wait for commenting on the discussions.


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laydee (1449) response was accepted on 4/23/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. jesbellaine (2348)   ranked 472 out of 16,771 in relationships   4 months ago

I am girl so it is somewhat hard to tell the guy that I love him so I think I would express my love in simple way like being caring, thoughtful etc.., then hopefully he notice me or feel the same way too. Cheers!


myLot reputation of 94/100. crackhead (1390)   ranked 262 out of 16,771 in relationships  4 months ago

Wel as a girl you may not be able to express it to your guy in words, but being caring thoughtfull etc will let them feel that they are special to you. Thats really a nice way of expressing that you love some one. Cheers thumbup


myLot reputation of 98/100. jesbellaine (2348)   ranked 472 out of 16,771 in relationships  4 months ago

thumbupYup! Thanks!

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2. myLot reputation of 88/100. itsmepinky (1146)   ranked 1,791 out of 16,771 in relationships   4 months ago

well i would wait for that person to confess his love to me. Somehow i feel i shoudn't take the initiative coz it might spoil my image on his mind.

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myLot reputation of 94/100. crackhead (1390)   ranked 262 out of 16,771 in relationships  4 months ago

Untill and unless he doesnt have the same feelings you have and cannot understand your feelings he might not get into that bad opinion on you. So i guess you can dare express your feelings in some way or the other rather than in words.

I being a guy i can express it, take her to places which she likes, arrange her dinner with her favourite dishes and show how much i care when she needs some help. I dont even if my love is turned down, cause it was me who liked that person and its not necessary that they like me. But i know we just get hurt and broke our heart, obviusly we should be ready for that.

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. mnflower (920)   ranked 3,695 out of 16,771 in relationships   4 months ago

If it was me and you are mature enough I would tell them, better to know how they feel, then to keep feeling that way and finding out later that they not interested you would just be wasting you time..I think it is important to let the person know you already know your either going to get a good response or not a good one and either way then you can really just move forward and being young you can move forward and not waste your time and energy on it...


myLot reputation of 94/100. crackhead (1390)   ranked 262 out of 16,771 in relationships  4 months ago

"it is important to let the person know" i absolutely agree with this statment of your irrespective of the response from the one, we have that responsibility and we can express it. Well time and tide wait for none and it shouldnt be too late weather that is good or bad. Thanks for responding. wub

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4. myLot reputation of 71/100. magrylouyu (695)   ranked 3,347 out of 16,771 in relationships   4 months ago

I know the truth hurts when someone says sorry not interested. I've had it happen one too many times. But it's good that you get it out in the open about how you really feel about that person. I would tell them. Hopefully they feel the same way too. happy


myLot reputation of 94/100. crackhead (1390)   ranked 262 out of 16,771 in relationships  4 months ago

Sorry to know that u were hurt. But thats nice to learn things from the past. Its always good to stay open to people. Thankshappy

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5. myLot reputation of 37/100. Jezebella (116)   ranked 4,877 out of 16,771 in relationships   4 months ago

it depends. It took me three months to tell my ex that I loved him, but a week for my current boyfriend. Its hard to know when you'll fall in love, but I believe you shouldn't hold back telling someone you love them for any reason.


myLot reputation of 94/100. crackhead (1390)   ranked 262 out of 16,771 in relationships  4 months ago

Well may be u gained some confidence from the earlier relationship. Yeah its nice to reveal your feeling to the one you love.

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6. myLot reputation of 83/100. ximeiguang (123)   ranked 1,521 out of 16,771 in relationships   4 months ago

Your words get me back into the period of my university.
I was allured by one of my classmates exactly when I came in my university. He is a handsome boy and has very good achievement. In my mind, he is perfect!
After following him stealthily for two years, I decided to tell him my "love". At least, I think it was love.
The result was funny. He said he was falling in love with his younger sister, a girl who was really pretty.
I was striken! I thought he treat the girl only as his family sister!
I became finding new persons and new things to offset my pain. And I find that a boy is paying great attention on me. He is a warmhearted boy. I was inspired by his hard work and fall in love with him.
He is now my husband.


myLot reputation of 94/100. crackhead (1390)   ranked 262 out of 16,771 in relationships  4 months ago

Thanks for sharing such a wonderful love story with all of us. Hope you both are having a great time. I am happy that i did remember you of the old university days. Thanks for sharing and responding.

 
7. myLot reputation of 86/100. ayou82 (3217)   ranked 1,726 out of 16,771 in relationships   4 months ago

I always express my love .. if i really love the person i will tell him and choose to be straightforward..

 
8. qiusha (4)   4 months ago

it is a secret i ll never tell if someone i had loved. i loved the one who was always hurt me. i cant bear the same thing came to me.
so, just belie. it`s fine. except he would tell me that he loves me . ha...


myLot reputation of 94/100. crackhead (1390)   ranked 262 out of 16,771 in relationships  4 months ago

Well as you say its a secret, how long can you hold on to that. How will you know if the opposite person is also of your kind? Anyways thanks for responding.

 
9. myLot reputation of 90/100. ozzeth (505)   ranked 492 out of 16,771 in relationships   4 months ago

I tell the person and express what i fell for him. Once i express it... i am sure with it.

But sometimes, i am afraid to be rejected. Thats why i hold it and better to keep it by myself. Especially if you observed that person whom you love doesn't have any feeling for you.

Some changes, aloof and no interactions. So, i will stop and just go on with my life. Its hurt but thats the truth. Important is he knows how i feel.


myLot reputation of 94/100. crackhead (1390)   ranked 262 out of 16,771 in relationships  4 months ago

But rather than holding the feeling to yourself might hurt you more right, Instead you can let the person know throught some other means like your friends, love letter or email .. etc.


myLot reputation of 90/100. ozzeth (505)   ranked 492 out of 16,771 in relationships  4 months ago

yeah your right dear...

 
10. myLot reputation of 79/100. Hatley (10010)   ranked 2,438 out of 16,771 in relationships   4 months ago

This is what I did do when I knew I was falling in love, I said Garland I love you so now what do we do" and the answer was surprisingly as we had only known each other for five months, will you marry me?. It was all that simple and I had been so nervous I almost passed out. Of course we wereolder but romance doesnt know an age really. I was thirty and he was thirty seven so we did know our own minds.He was a person I felt comfortable with as he took me just as I was faults and all . He was my best friend and mylover.what more could anyone want?


myLot reputation of 94/100. crackhead (1390)   ranked 262 out of 16,771 in relationships  4 months ago

Well what more can i say? you are gifted for that. Its great to get such kind of positive response.

 
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