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myLot reputation of 99/100. ratyz5 (3043)   ranked 63 out of 32,776 in mylot.com2 years ago

Here in myLot, I often see members use images of other things or people, a character in a particular animation or simply a drawing (like mine happy)

Then, there are also those that really use their own image. I find a bit of recognition to those who do that since they are confident enough to post their actual photos and not simply use other images as their avatars.

I'm not saying that those who don't use their own actual images as avatars here in myLot, or in any other site for that matter, are not confident. Though I have long hair compared to the image I use, I just fancy using this image of mine which I have just drawn. Sometimes, a member has a very nice image as an avatar, it somehow implies to me as well that he or she has a nice personality.

How about you guys? What do you think about those who use their actual images as avatars and to those who use other images that are obviously not them at all?

Thank you in advance for sharing your thoughts thumbup

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 90/100. Residual (849)   ranked 6,571 out of 32,776 in mylot.com   2 years ago

I myself prefer to use a portrait of myself.

One of the reasons is to let everone know that I am for real and to have a presence in whatever I do.

To me using a portrait is to let everybody know that I have nothing to hide and that I am here to make friends


myLot reputation of 99/100. ratyz5 (3043)   ranked 63 out of 32,776 in mylot.com  2 years ago

I find you reasoning quite sound. So that's what you think on real portraits as avatars or user images.

Would that be exactly the opposite when it comes to user images or avatars that aren't real portraits of the user here in myLot?

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. recycledgoth (6135)   ranked 233 out of 32,776 in mylot.com   2 years ago

I must admit, I would not post a picture of myself on this, or any other forum, as a user pic. I worry sometimes when I see people using images of their little children too. I prefer to use my lovely blue dragon instead, to me he represents me perfectly and I am happy with him on here.


myLot reputation of 99/100. ratyz5 (3043)   ranked 63 out of 32,776 in mylot.com  2 years ago

Why do you worry about those who use children as user images or avatars?

Is the current image your work by the way?

Thank you happy


myLot reputation of 99/100. recycledgoth (6135)   ranked 233 out of 32,776 in mylot.com  2 years ago

The dragon is part of a series of pieces of artwork that a friend of mine sent me as I collect dragons and love pictures of them.

I guess I'm just a little old fashioned when it comes to images of children used as avatars.:-)


myLot reputation of 99/100. ratyz5 (3043)   ranked 63 out of 32,776 in mylot.com  2 years ago


You collect anything related with dragons? You have figurines as well? Asian dragons? Medieval dragons or both?

Old fashioned when it comes with images of children used as avatars? You mean using images of children are old fashioned? I just don't quite get it, sorry..

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3. myLot reputation of 89/100. afternoontea (547)   ranked 1,254 out of 32,776 in mylot.com   2 years ago

Actually, I dont really care about the avatar because ussualy I only read their response for a discusiion. Although I prefer if people can put their own picture so that I can see how they look like. Anyway it's about choice...so it doesn't bother me alot...

I use my own picture. The picture was taken by by bf (now my husband) when we went to a beach festivals 2 years ago..(LOL it's kinda old picture of mine..) I have a shorter hair now..


myLot reputation of 99/100. ratyz5 (3043)   ranked 63 out of 32,776 in mylot.com  2 years ago

Indeed, depends on the user's choice and reasoning for having the current image as their profile avatar.

How would the actual photo of a member influence your impression of them?

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. SomethingGood332 (1344)   ranked 2,737 out of 32,776 in mylot.com   2 years ago

I don't know, I kind of think that the image a person chooses to represent him- or herself can say quite a bit about that person. Seeing a picture of the person can tell you what s/he looks like, but a chosen avatar can tell about interests, sense of humor, artistic sides, etc. It just seems that it tells so much more than a mere picture.


myLot reputation of 99/100. ratyz5 (3043)   ranked 63 out of 32,776 in mylot.com  2 years ago

I guess you can consider that "Don't judge a book by its cover" which we often hear when it comes to face value. Alternate images does ignite our imaginations as well as our impressions.

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5. myLot reputation of 86/100. kbourgerie (1919)   ranked 1,712 out of 32,776 in mylot.com   2 years ago

I don't think any less of a person for not posting their own picture as their avatar. I know that everyone has their reasons for making the decisions that they do. Sometimes I wish I could see a picture though, because I think it makes it easier to identify with who you are talking to. You can get a little better sense of someone's personality by seeing their picture.


myLot reputation of 99/100. ratyz5 (3043)   ranked 63 out of 32,776 in mylot.com  2 years ago

I guess we could still judge a book by its cover, I suppose.

Indeed, there's that immediate interaction the actual photos communicate compared to alternative images which leaves up pondering on the actual image of the user along with the preconception that we have built from the one that they have provided.

Thank you happy

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6. myLot reputation of 84/100. oneandonemakesix (24038)   ranked 2,246 out of 32,776 in mylot.com   2 years ago

Hey Ratzy,

I could never use my own image, simply because I don't do pictures, I have some pictures of me (exactly 2) on a hard drive somewhere in the house, but I want people to know me for who I am not what I look like so I do not use a picture of myself,

Although my image is one of the first digital pictures I ever took. And very very special to me

Mooch


myLot reputation of 99/100. ratyz5 (3043)   ranked 63 out of 32,776 in mylot.com  2 years ago

To be known for who we are and not by the exterior image that we have in reality.

Uhmmm, how does this current image represent you, may I ask? confused

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7. myLot reputation of 90/100. punkin1803 (478)   ranked 9,841 out of 32,776 in mylot.com   2 years ago

Well for me, the reason i always use my own pictures as my display pic is because i want people to have a sense of who they are communicating with and responding to basically. When i am responding to a dsicussion here on mylot and i can actually see a picture of the person that i am talking to, it just makes me feel a whole more compfy in a sense. I dont think that there is anything wrong with having your own personal pic as youe avatar. It basically just shows what type of person that you are in a sense what you think about yourself. And everyone is not the same. SOme people just will nt post anytype of pics up on any website clarifying weho they are. It has nothing to do with how friendly they are or not. Some people just have different ways of doing things.


myLot reputation of 99/100. ratyz5 (3043)   ranked 63 out of 32,776 in mylot.com  2 years ago

So an actual image grants you assurance. Well how does alternate images for user image or avatars that aren't actual protraits of the user imply to you?

Thank you for responding happy


myLot reputation of 90/100. punkin1803 (478)   ranked 9,841 out of 32,776 in mylot.com  2 years ago

It doesnt bother me at all. Now if the picture happens to be of some obscence nature then i know that i would feel a little bit uncompfy about responding or posting an answer from this person.


myLot reputation of 99/100. ratyz5 (3043)   ranked 63 out of 32,776 in mylot.com  2 years ago


I think staff member of this site would take down any obscene images uploaded by anyone, more so if it were used as a profile image or as an avatar. thumbup

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8. myLot reputation of 84/100. bournecaindelta (2032)   ranked 2,461 out of 32,776 in mylot.com   2 years ago

There are some people who assume that the people in the avatar looks like them or they want to be thought like the one in the avatar. I prefer using an abstract image as an avatar cos its something illogical like me. I like the way some people make abstract images and I love them a lot. The one which I have for present is my hand taken by myself, through the in built web cam from my MacBook. I love images like these which are way out of thoughts and are abstract.

I do not like my own photographs. So I never use them as my Avatars. Although there are many poses which my friends have advised that can be used as avatars, but I prefer to keep it to something like the one I have now...

bournehappy


myLot reputation of 99/100. ratyz5 (3043)   ranked 63 out of 32,776 in mylot.com  2 years ago

You mean those images that are more or less celebrities for example? Yeah, I kind'a see those too. Nothing bad about it though. Most of them are still nice and friendly.

You seem to have a unique idea when it comes to avatars. That's very cool. thumbup

Thank you happy

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. moneyandgc (3083)   ranked 525 out of 32,776 in mylot.com   2 years ago

I am one that uses a photograph of myself as an avatar. I started the site by using one that my husband took of me in NYC. He had a red filter on the camera when he took it. A lot of users have told me that they recognize me by the red photo, so when I wanted to update the photo I was at a loss. The NYC pic was the only red one that I had.
Then I decided to take another more recent photo from my hard drive. First I turned it black and white with photo editing software. Then I added the red. Problem solved!
It doesn't matter to me if someone uses their own picture or uses something else. I have seen some really cute animated ones!
I don't care for the green generic ones that mylot give you initially though. So the first thing I did here was try and figure out how to change that! lol


myLot reputation of 99/100. ratyz5 (3043)   ranked 63 out of 32,776 in mylot.com  2 years ago

I see that not only do you tolerate both actual images as avatars as well as those alternate images that obviously not the users, you also have unique trend on your own user avatar thumbup

Thanks for responding happy

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. angelwhispers30 (1907)   ranked 39 out of 32,776 in mylot.com   2 years ago

I like seeing all the different images that people use. I think for most of us, it speaks volumes about our personalities.

I have no problem showing an image of myself, but I prefer not to. The crocus flower that I use is a copyrighted image taken by me just a few weeks ago, so it's personal to me, and I like that.


myLot reputation of 99/100. ratyz5 (3043)   ranked 63 out of 32,776 in mylot.com  2 years ago

I think we all could agree on the multitude of impression that each of us could come up with a provided image of someone here in this site.

The same goes with your current crocus flower avatar happy

Thanks for responding!

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