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Hi THere.
maybe he was just shocked of the things that you just bursted out when you were both drunk. Just give him space to think. If you think it is too long then you need to talk to him about both of your feelings.

I hope you will both be okay soon. Cheers

I don't really know what to tell you but I feel you in this situation. Of course,it's great to be honest and open but truth does hurt sometimes and some things better be untold. Life happens and he might feel hurt or disappointed now but hopefully,with time he'll understand that nobody's perfect and we all make mistakes.
Wish you best luck!

i think it was an accident from your part. just keep mum. if he is not taht much loving, try to talk with him frankly. try to find out whether he is truly upset. confront him that it is past.

Hi tripta, sorry to read this. Without knowing the ins and outs of your case, it is very difficult to say anything. Why did your boyfriend cool off suddenly? Is your past that terrible? If it is, you have yourself to blame. And if it isn't, then forget about him. He is not worth it. I am sure you will find someone much better than that.

Hi tripta, i may not be the best person to give you advice but what happened to you was really very sad. I don't think that it was a mistake from your side and i am convinced that it was an honest effort to make genuine relationship. Since i don't know much what you said him but it seems to me that he took it other way. It is doubtful that that he was serious in the relationship. On the basis of what you said, i assume that you had previous unsuccessful relationships and it is very likely that he might be aware of that. You should talk to him and tell him that you are in deep love and don't want to hide anything because you are not culprit for the failure of previous relationships and like a mature man he must understand this. He is not a kid, he must be 45 years old and must act accordingly.

He might can't believe about your past but if he really loves you he should accept whatever past you have.Give him time to think and figure out things then have a heart to heart talk with him.If he loves you then your relationship would go on but if not then you have to let him go and move on than suffer for long time.You deserve a better man that could accept about your past and loves you no matter what.

You shouldn't feel bad for your spilling your past out to him. If he truelly loves you he wouldn't have a change of heart or attitude but love you as much as he did befor you told him about your past. Try to talk to him for maybe it's not you that has his change of attitude maybe something else is getting to him but you just think it's you and seeing he is around you alot you will see something is wrong and just think it's you. I hope you two can work everything out and all be ok. It sounds like you really love this guy and want him to stick around for a long time. Talk to him it couldn't hurt. Good Luck.