Sexual Ecstacy - One Pathway. Do you have any to share? Can you help advise?  

Must be telepathy Nova. LOL.

Yup, must be, p1ke.

There is my 'muse'. The beautiful girl as well as a bearutiful person.

I had a wonderful time in 'that' discussion with you Nova. It, I believe, is what re-awakened me with more sexual interest. It was just so very stimulating. I haven't managed to (you know) yet, but I WILL work on it and report when or if I do. It is very much on my mind now. All because of you and your boldness.

And your new 'toys' also sound very interesting to me, yes, very interesting, indeed.

Yes, I couldn't believe the sensations that came over me when using the Ben Waa.....the way I did.....and so quickly, too. It was truly amazing!

Well, I must admit, I did have to ask P1ke how to spell ecstasy properly. Somehow I was sure he would know.

I should know, as I am an avid speller, but it annoys me to spell something incorrectly.

So he kinda had a heads up about something to do with the word anyway. hee hee

Now tell me more about those 'toys' you mentioned.

The one I can use whilst making love with my husband that doesn't get in the way?

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Ok, the Silver Bullet. It's a good one. Runs on two double A batteries, and more power than you might expect. It's sort of oval, like a narrow egg, and it's the vibrator,which is attached by a cord to the battery box, where the speed control is located. Now say your husband is behind you -you can put the bullet on your clitoris and get the double pleasure of being penetrated while having your clitoris vibrated and the orgasms that can produce are mind-boggling. The thing is, it's small enough to be able to hold where you want it, without it getting too much in the way of things. If you need more details or info, say the word.

Just don't let your cat get anywhere near it.

Well, now I want one of those, too.

But is there also a kind that their isn't 2 peices attached by a chord my cat could chew? lol I want to avert disaster if I come to love it like you do yours, you know.

Yes, it was an absolute disaster, of huge proportion!! I miss my BOB!!!! And there are small vibrators that have a control located at the bottom of them, but I don't like those as well. With the cord attached ones, it's easier to control the speed - I dunno, I just like them better. There's also something called a Pocket Rocket, or Mighty Mite, things like that - it's a very small vibrator too, often with different attachments for it that have varying textures on them, for multiple kinds of sensations. Do you have any store there where you can go look at these things, AnnieO? If not, check out EarlytoBed.com. They've got a lot of selections, and their prices are very reasonable. That's where I'm sending off for my two new ones. My silver bullet's only $9.00. A lot of places charge way more than that for them. You need to go to a store or a site that has several for you to look at and see what tickles your fancy. Let me know what you decide to do, please. And hey, I think we should order one for Spark. Wouldn't that be a nice thing to find in the mail? Fun in a plain brown wrapper! Woohoo!

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Are you off looking for your bob? Ask the cat.

Actually, I was off getting ready to go meet the hubby for cocktails. And now, I'm gonna jump on the bike and ride, darlin! If I don't see you later, and I just might, I'll see you tomorrow. Love ya!

OH, and NOva, I wouldn't reccommend using them and having penetration. They take up a lot of space already in there. I would be worried about them going in too deep or too far. You may have to birth them out much, much later or cause an infection if they got stuck too far in and couldn't get them out. I think they are only meant to be the ONLY thing in there at that time. hee hee.

But they are pretty much the same size as 'his member' anyway, so give a somewhat similar feeling. Ooooooooooo.

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Just don't let your cat get anywhere near it

ROFLMFAO omg I just had the most disturbing visual...disturbing yet highly amusing all at once!!

P1ke, would you like to discuss with me with more details about those balls, hmmmmmm?

What would we do with them I wonder? Big marbles? My mind is boggling now.

Well, Thank you P1key for those suggestions. I will try them and report back to you my findings for sure.

I have a horse....hmmmm. Sounds very interesting. Very interesting indeed. But wait, might I fall off if I reached climax whilst riding. Oops! But it would definitely be an interesting story to impart.

Oh, why would it get pulled? Don't think negatively like that. Think positve. Let's just go with the flow and enjoy.

You are one of the highest on my 'friends' list. I will definitely elaborate for you, P1key my dear. All in good time.

I like to be stroked, you know. Don't we all?

Maybe after a few more requests for more info. Don't want to reveal too much too soon. lol

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I think that reaching a climax while riding a horse would be waaaaaaay cool, Annie. They're such sensual animals anyway, ya know? And all that thrusting movement......

Yes, very sensual. They way they rock and sway, would most definitely put those Balls to good use. Oh, my, I'm getting exciting just thinking about trying it.

My pleasure Annie - or rather yours - Yum Yum. I am thinking positively. Positively looking forward to your research report. LOL. Look out Dobbin, Annie's out for the ride of her life. Yee Ha!

I want a horse!!!!!

Angel wants me for her ponyboy. But you can share. Just be mean to me. You know I'm worth it.

Oh honey, you'll be whipped into a lather, trust me.

Yes, I like lather.

Come over here for a minute, P1ke. Just for a minute, okay? (she giggles deviously)

Now get down on your hands and knees, yes, that's right, like that....

Now I am mounting you, don't be nervous, it's ok, I won't hurt you (so he thinks) much....

And as I kick you in the ribs, it only means I love you, ........

Annie, get the lariat! Let's ride this cowboy!! You know what they say, don't you? Save a horse, ride a cowboy. There are English cowboys. Well, there are now. Giddeeyup, p1ke!

Annie. When you said you were mounting me I had something completely different in mind. Phew, what a relief. Go easy with those ribs. I was always taught to give constant and steady pressure. But if a kick helps...........

There's a "thing or idea" missing from that sentence. I'll leave it to you to decide which.

Yes, I think I like the 'english cowboy'. Very much.

Yeeee Hawwwww!

Okay, P1key, I'll not kick too hard, just little ticklish jabs. There, hows that?

(as she gently, but firmly squeezes his ribs with her heels, while she rides his back)

I think I can feel those balls working, too. Woooo Hoooo

Mmmm Annie. So can I.

Gawd, I can too, trust me, I'm rollin...........

And so, after a nice ride, she slowly slips off of him, exhausted with pleasure. And he asks,"was it good for you, dear?" She says, "yes, just wonderful". And you?, she asks?

I think Nova went off to 'take care of business' with the bullet. We may have gotten her over-excited. Do you think?

Oh yes thank you. More than wonderful, ecstasy.

Nova and her bullet. She'll need a big gun to fire that thing.

How big's YOUR gun, p1ke?

I think that it is what is called a "lady's gun" Nova. I only let ladies handle it. Some ladies more than others.

I knew Nova was naughty but I had no idea about my dear naughty P1key!

Skinny, you're here!!!!! Yippee!!!!! And yeah baby, p1key is as naughty as they get, darlin, don't let him fool ya! He's a wicked boy, chickee, so now that you know, demand something of him! He'll do it, I'll just bet ya! After all, he did model the bra. Not to mention what he sent to Spark! Oh shite, I've prolly had way too many cockatails, and he's so gonna kick my butt tomorrow. But we all know how much I like that sort of thing, don't we? Roflmao, yup, too many cockatails, and yes,I know that I'm saying it wrong, but oh well, I like saying it that way. Giggle, giggle, giggle!!! I think I better go check the hubby and see how the fire is coming along. (waggles eyebrows, thinking, "think they'll wonder what fire?". Mmm mmm, rare meat for dins tonight! Ha! How's that sauce comin along, darlin?

However, I do have something a little similar that I bought in Hong Kong and use as stress relievers. However, I just roll these around my hands

Which is exactly what they are for...I have a set myself...

BenWaBalls are something different! and I WOULD NOT recommend using the stress/harmony balls as a substitute!!!

Thanks for that. I have no place other than my hands where they are going either!!

Roflmao, Spark, roflmao!!! Ah, honey, your time's comin, no pun intended. You need a toy!!!!! Or two or three. Flying solo has its rewards, you know. I promise! Hey, I can send away for one for you and mail it to you if you'd like. All you gotta do is say the word.

R O F L M A O!!!!!!!!!!!

Still laughing too hard, wait a minute. Can't talk or type.....

Yeah, mail it to her. Mail it!

It will go nicely with what I just mailed her today.

Heee heee.....

We'll have to tell her how it "feels", nova. She is a good little catholic girl, you know.

Ok, I will, Annie, but I'll have to get it first. Hmmm, I wonder what you might have mailed her today, let me think. Might it be something edible? Something stupor-inducing? That would go well with a new BOB. Yup. Poor Spark, she's gonna kick our butts. She'd use one, wouldn't she? I know she has in the past. Ok, I'm gonna order two silver bullets, not one. One for Spark, one for me. And one for you too, if you'd like. Say the word.

How it feels.......I think we can remind her of those days, Annie, when she knew how it felt. And oh, it feels soooooooo good too. Vrooooom, vrooooom, rev up that bullet!

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Your fault, darlin! After all, she's YOUR best friend! I just got caught up in her wonderfulness, like I did yours. But I think you might be right about our being dangerous together, yup, I think you might have something with that one. What fun, though, what fun!!!!

THE WORD. THE WORD. Ok, Nova, I'm in. I'll send you an email money transfer for whatever it costs and I'll split spark's, too.

Sparks, ROFLAO. Really, that's what it said. I can't see it, darn.

Yep, I see it now.

Yes, we are going to gang up on you and PROVE that you don't NEED a man for satisfaction. hee hee

NOPE - I don't need a man. I've always known that. I think really that's what drove my two hubs away. They knew it too.

Ok, I took the survey. I am not masturbating too much. ha ha

Apparently, if anyone wants to know.....13 times a week is too much or any more.

Nope, don't blame yourself. Stop it! Do you hear me? Stop it!

They weren't good enough for you. You are a brilliant, beautiful woman. You are caring, loving and very respectful of everyone's wishes, but not often, your own. That is your only fault I have found so far.

Ok, the word's been heard. Three it is!

So, 13 times a week is too much? Let's see, that would be about twice a day, every day, hmmm? I don't think that's too much. Who decided this, anyway? Who ARE these survey people? Not that I do it more than 13 times a week......

Oh, and Spark? WHat Annie just said about not blaming yourself? DITTO! In spades!!!

Is that 13 times too much for women or men Annie. I don't like odd numbers so twice a day it'll have to be. Lend a hand there. (Too much P1ke. Calm down)

Yep, Nova, stupor-inducing. It will help her relax and let the stress melt away.

She can vaporize it though. Makes it last longer. No waste that way.

It's that catholic girl thing. They were raised to believe they needed a man to be respectful and to fulfill their destiny.

Sparks does make a very, very good wife, though. She is really good at it. And she likes it, too. It does suit her perfectly, really.

But they likely also knew that you wanted to be married, and have used it against you, too.

They say all is fair in love and war, but nothing is fair in love and war.

Anyway, we'll put you in a better mood.

P1ke, then a helping hand it will be. There, how's that? Didn't mean to neglect you.

I took the survey for a 50 yr old and it didn't ask for male or female. But I get the feeling that the site is geared towards males.

Mmmmmmmmmmmm. That's very good Annie. You are a clever girl.

I've created a monster! LOL
Just not sure if it's me, Annie, Nova or P1KE! ROFL

Ummm, Annie, I guess it's a good thing to be ambidextrous? That way 13 times a day wouldn't be too much of a stretch eh? LOL
I have to go off line now, my wrists are tired.*pout*

I'd give my right hand to be ambidextrous Sparky!

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Ahhhh, Skinny, I'm so freakin glad to see you, darlin. You've been away too long. Welcome home. Now - it's not a matter of 'needing' toys, chickee, it's a matter of, well, play, I guess. Believe me, I understand how, at your age, it's always so intense, with your partner, so 'omygod, skin on skin', and it's that way later on too, but, when you're in a marriage or the like, and years pass, and oh shite, it doesn't take years to pass, it doesn't take a marriage or a S/O situation, it's just something that's fun to do, a playfullness that you sometimes want to run with, I don't know, but I DO know that the right toy, in the right place, can add that extra bit of something that can rock my fuckinworld, darlin, and that's something that all of us could do with, eh? Now, as to the balls? Well, that's an internal sort of thing, one that I haven't yet experienced firsthand, but one that I look forward to feeling, that's for sure. I say, the more the better. The better the better. Why the hell not? We're only human after all, so why not enjoy every little inch of humanity we're given?

Keep checking in, Skinny, we'll tell you how they work and how they feel. You may actually be interested in 'trying' them yourself. Privately or with your current hubby. They can be quite similar to 'his member' being in there, you know. Just with better curves, hitting all the right spots. Uh huh. Yep.

Sounds delicious!! :)

Well, thank you so much. Butterfly, huh? I'll check that out. I think I used to have one of those actually. Strap it on, and walk around. Yes? Maybe I'll have to hunt up in my 'old' undie drawer and see if it is still around or not.

However, I am very much liking Nova as my guide though. It is such a personal thing to share with others, you know. I'm not such a girly, girl. But I have my girlie moments. And I just think Nova is totally awesome. So she is my 'Toy Party'.

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I hadn't heard about this method of using them, laglen, but it sounds very interesting. But you'd have to be using the 1/2" ones that I'm most familiar with, I think. The more hear, the more curious I get about these things. Gotta get some.........

Thank you very much for the suggestion, not just for me, but for anyone else reading that is too shy to actually post here. I'm sure it will not go unnoticed.

I have 2 sets actually.....(giggles shyly).

I have 1 set that is plastic, they are attached to each other, not far apart, so they won't fall out and have a strong string attached for removal. They are only 1 and 1/4".

But these Stainless Steel ones, OMG! They are 1.5", pretty large really and 1 will fall out if I walk around too much or lift anything. Oops.

Because they are steel, they are always cold, which I find stimulating in itself the very minute I touch them to my skin....espcially down there. hee hee
I found that inserting the first one, repeatedly near the entrance (clitoris included) was quite stimulating in itself. As unless you push it right up past your pubic bone it tries to repeadedly come back out, which is stimulating. Very interesting.

More later, can't get you all to excited. Stay tuned............

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Oh, I didn't realize that's what the plastic ones were intended for. But I'm certain I bought them 'brand new' in the package, and I have only ever used them vaginally. They stay in, while walking around and don't try to leave as much as the big ones do.

Tighter undies, eh? Hmmmmm. I guess tigher pants then, too, because these are quite slick, smooth and slippery and really try to get out, unless I push both up further past the pubic bone, to keep them there. But they aren't nearly as fun up that high.

I had another thought, too, that just not wearing any panties at all with a skirt or dress is stimulating. Just because......you know, but nobody else does......hmmmmm. That's a juicy thought. Trying gardening or shopping like that. OH, DEAR! HOW NAUGHTY!!

The SO may be lucky and be in for another early juicy treat again during the week.

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Oh you can get actual BenWa's in various sizes....AND you can get them drilled through so you can string a bunch together etc etc..

cool on teh PM..I need to get outside and get some work done anyway so raincheck works...

LOL "fun" is one way of putting it..freaky and twisted would be another

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I learned that cute name from another one of my coworkers (Slumber Sisters--we're everywhere!) and it seemed you needed a laugh! I also learned that crotchless pantyhose are great when you're in a formal gown...just pull you panties aside and do your business without the struggle of pulling them back up! (don't laugh...I had just gotten myself into mine wearing a short gown and wouldn't you know..I had to go again!).

We'll chat--we're friends now. Send me a PM and I can help you out in all sorts of ways! We're (Slumber Parties) all about helping enhance relationships!

va-jay-jay

*falls over losing it* OMFG "va jay jay" thats too freakin hilarious!! I might have to start saying that instead of punany

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Thanks for the B.R.!