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friday01 (6)   ranked 115 out of 1,251 in work3 months ago

i have just signed job contract, can i still withdraw from it? I thought over the salary I am about to receive from them against the expenses i would incur in one month's time and i realized that the expense is higher than the salary, while still bearing the hard even miserable situation of bedspacing in apartments in the city. So I have to back out.

But would the employer allow me to do it? Can i just do that?

I have been told of the salary I will be receiving beforehand and I accepted it because it is higher than the salary i used to receive from the jobs I held in my province where I am staying now. I have always wanted to work in Manila becuase I think there are many opportunities there, and because it's been hard too looking for a job here in our area. But now, after asking prospective landladies and computing for the most frugal budgets I can do to my meal, transportation, and expense for basic hygiene, I realizd that my salary can't cover that.

Now I have decided to look again for a job here in our area where i can earn more but less connected to my education. Or to go abroad like taiwan to work as a factory worker.

I have to accept that my dreams about succeeding in Manila is a very faint vision.


So now, back to the topic, how can i tell the employer that i am backing out? it's actually on friday that i have to report there for training which is also the start of my employment with them. I have one more day left to tell them, and i actually just decided tonight.


Help. would I have a very negative impression on them doing that, supposing that they don't understand fully my explanations, (because i am not good at talking)
would they blocklist me for doing that?






 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 74/100. kerriannc (1362)   3 months ago

Friday01 sometimes it is best if you attend the training and show your potential. After seeing this even the salary that you agreed on can be increase. Do not be hasty. Go to the training and in the meantime continue to look for a cheaper apartment. Trim your lifestyle who to tell you maybe make a partner. No one know his/her future.

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2. donbukriv (42)   ranked 816 out of 1,251 in work   3 months ago

You can still back out. A lot of people have done that. You can visit them or give them a call and tell them your reasons for backing out. I'm sure they'd understand.

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3. just12blog (71)   ranked 883 out of 1,251 in work   3 months ago

Hi friday01, you can do so. However, as a proper way, you have to call up the company and inform them that you would like to withdraw from the offer. If they ask you the reason, you can just tell them honestly. Maybe they will change their mind by offer you more. You will never know will happen, right?


myLot reputation of 94/100. crisesand (527)   ranked 85 out of 1,251 in work  3 months ago

Thanks for the response. But I just had a painful cold and fever the last night, so I decided not to go anymore. I have considered it gone. I sent them SMS and hope it'll do the explanation.


just12blog (71)   ranked 883 out of 1,251 in work  3 months ago

Hi, in my opinion, it will better to call out to inform than just SMS them. Maybe you can try to call them once you recover, just to confirm that they have received your SMS.

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