Why do some people blame everyone else for their own mistakes? Warning Rant!

Well no I am not projecting my "perfectness", if I make a mistake I own up to it. Yes, hard to believe it's that simple. That must be hard for someone who doesn't own up to their mistakes to understand. I know I am not perfect but I also know if I make a mistake to own up to it, correct if it can, I don't go around blaming everyone else or making excuses as to why I shouldn't have to take responsibility. If you have a hard time understanding the concept of take responsibility for your actions then yeah I can see where you try to make yourself feel better by calling someone else who does take responsbility names or try to make them feel bad for having a stance.

I understand everyone makes mistakes but that is not an excuse to not learn from them and it's not an excuse to not own up to them or to try and correct it.

Oh yeah I know a few of those people. Always making an excuse why they don't have to take responsibility for their actions,I could sorta understand if they were 13 years old and didn't want to get in trouble with mom and dad, their 13 they are suppose to be just learning about responsibility the good and bad of it.

But when someone is say 35 years old and gets upset at an inanimate object because they stubbed their toe and makes excuses like, "Oh it's a design flaw that's why the leg sticks out more than on other tables." or "Someone most of moved this table by about an inch because I know the layout of this whole house." Instead of just being darn I need to watch where I'm going, hee hee. That is when it's painfully obvious they think they are better than anything or anybody and everything is someone else's fault but theirs.

DID YOU ACTUALLY READ MY POST! I don't think you did, why don't you ACTUALLY READ IT before you reply! Then you would have read where it says IF YOU ARE ON GOVERNMENT ASSISTANCE AND NOT BECAUSE YOU ARE ON A DISABILITY.......

Thanks FOR NOT READING THE POST! Nice to know you like to judge someone's post BEFORE YOU ACTUALLY READ IT!

TRY READING POSTS BEFORE YOU RESPOND TO THEM YOU MIGHT LEARN SOMETHING.

I AM SICK AND TIRED OF PEOPLE JUST AUTOMATICALLY THINKING A POST IS ABOUT THEM! NO WHERE IN MY POST DID I SAY IT WAS ABOUT YOU OR ABOUT PEOPLE WHO ACTUALLY NEED TO BE ON ASSISTANCE.

DON'T BOTHER TO RESPOND UNTIL YOU READ THE ORIGINAL POST, RESPONDING BEFORE READING IT WILL ONLY SHOW HOW MUCH YOU DIDN'T READ IT AND HOW MUCH YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT!

I read your whole discussion thoroughly and still find
you seem to think you are perfection plus because that
is the tone that is coming through. I reread it and
still get that feeling of someone who is so good that
he or she cannot stand the ordinary person who is not
perfect. Then your answer shouts at me and that is
rudeness in itself. no your discussion is not aimed at
any one person but seems to be aimed at all of us.
you have all rights to your opinions sure, but so have'I
all rights to mine

If you reread the post like you claimed then you would know I am not talking about people who really need to be on assistance. But it's obvious from your response you didn't and what a great way to not take responsibility for your actions though you claim it.

So now you are crying about me yelling at you? Well let's see you didn't have to respond to this thread but you did. You didn't read the original post because that is so obvious by your "poor me I need assistance stop picking on me response." Let me clear yet again, the post was not about you, yet YOU made it about you. And that YOU is captailized for emphasis for YOU to understand that, it is not yelling at you. But I doubt you will see it that way because you seem to have an issue with reading through a post before responding.

I never claimed you didn't need assistance, nor did I say you didn't deserve it. But yet you decided at some point that I was totally against you and I was wrong for thinking that you didn't need assistance. Once again the post wasn't about you, but you made it about you.

You can sit and claim I am trying to come off as superior to everyone else but I'm not, so stop claiming it. All I did was rant, yes if you actually read the title you would have seen the word "Rant" in it about what I've seen first hand, on the news and what I've read in the news papers. Let's be clear here, it wasn't a rant about you, please try to remember that.

The post was not about you, and the only people who would take offense to the post would be the people that are described in the post.

Oh and Hatley,

Just in case you missed it someone else tried to claim I was claiming to be perfect but obviously you didn't read my response to that person. So let me be clear to you.

I am not claiming to be perfect, I make mistakes just like everyone one else, however unlike most people I have witnessed, I take responsibility when I make a mistake and I try to correct it if I can. I also learn from my mistakes and try not to make them again. That's not being a perfectionist it's being responsible and if you have a problem with someone being responsbile enough to learn and try to correct their mistakes well then it's your problem to deal with, not mine so stop hanging your problems on me.

You do not know me at all and I do
not want to know you.You are
wrong I did read through all
of your discussion.But Let us
just drop this now.

You are right I don't know you, but yet you took offense to a post that wasn't about you and made it about you. You want to drop it then you have the choice to stop responding to my post. As a matter of fact you didn't have to respond to begin with.

By the way I'm not wrong, everything I said in the original post I've seen with my own eyes, either witnessed it, saw it on the news or read about it in the news. It's not my fault you took offense to post that wasn't even about you. Maybe you have a guilty conscious about something but that's not my fault and making me a target for your problems is not my fault either. Take your problems elsewhere.

I get burned when I see people abusing the system. I'm referring to the ones who can work but choose not to and take money and services needed by people who do need the assistance. I've seen many people who really do need to be on assistance not get it because the person standing in line in front of them, who is capable of working and does so under the table, is holding their hand out saying "Me first."

There are families and disabled individuals who go without or have to wait until the moocher who is sucking up everything they can steps aside. I do think the system needs to be revamped and it needs to be redone actually benefit those in need and not just allow people to take advantage of it, the loop holes need to filled and the money collected given to the ones in need not in greed.