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myLot reputation of 87/100. sweet23 (1191)   ranked 916 out of 24,361 in people3 months ago

mostly we criticize to others but probably not our self
have you ever criticize your self infront of others or when you are alone
sweety

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. edgyk8inmomma (851)   ranked 1,690 out of 24,361 in people   3 months ago

Most of the people close to me say I am too hard on myself. I find it much easier to criticize myself rather than others. I know what's inside my mind, but I don't know what's behind the words or actions of most others. So I find it wrong to criticize them.


myLot reputation of 87/100. sweet23 (1191)   ranked 916 out of 24,361 in people  3 months ago

lolgood edgyk8inmomma,
ok, so have you criticize your self in front of others?
sweety


myLot reputation of 95/100. edgyk8inmomma (851)   ranked 1,690 out of 24,361 in people  3 months ago

Yes, on a repeatedbasis. I am usually the first to admit my faults. I think its bad tho. I sholdn't do it as often, and that's something I'm working on.
by the way, you can call me edgy...its a lot shorter:)


myLot reputation of 87/100. sweet23 (1191)   ranked 916 out of 24,361 in people  3 months ago

whistlei do not think so that admit fault is bad everyone can not do this
rare persons are there in the world who admit their fault for this we need power in our mind and i do not think so everyone has this power
have a nice day edgy surrender
sweety


myLot reputation of 95/100. edgyk8inmomma (851)   ranked 1,690 out of 24,361 in people  3 months ago

No, its not a bad thing to be able to recognize your own faults. But when you allow your faults to keep you back from your dreams, its not a good thing.

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4772)   ranked 522 out of 24,361 in people   3 months ago

Sweet, I know what are my negative traits and I try to remove them, whenever possible, I analyse them when I am alone. If I commit any mistake, I readily admit it, knowing that mistakes do occur in life. It is difficult to directly critize oneself, that would be termed as inferiority complex and one's under-estimation.


myLot reputation of 87/100. sweet23 (1191)   ranked 916 out of 24,361 in people  3 months ago

happyagree with you not easy to criticize oneself but i think this is important so that we can improve ourself more

thanks for responding me
sweety


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4772)   ranked 522 out of 24,361 in people  3 months ago

Yes, I believe that I am learner and everyday in my life brings new experience for me and also there is always scope for imrovement in my skills, so I do not mind asking others and seeking others' help in learning. happy


myLot reputation of 87/100. sweet23 (1191)   ranked 916 out of 24,361 in people  3 months ago

great it must be in us the ability of learning from our own mistakes
have a nice day
sweety


myLot reputation of 90/100. dpk262006 (4772)   ranked 522 out of 24,361 in people  3 months ago

I always try to learn from my mistakes and try not to repeat them and whatever come my way, I also try to learn that to the best of my abilitites.


myLot reputation of 87/100. sweet23 (1191)   ranked 916 out of 24,361 in people  3 months ago

good qualities you have, this is the right way of living the life
have a nice eveinig
sweety

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3. myLot reputation of 65/100. hiccup (3354)   ranked 4,193 out of 24,361 in people   3 months ago

Whe you point a finger remember 3 are also pointing at you from your self, Take note next time you point your finger at some one, maybe its you who need the warning

( when I say you, that is everyone,it is not you as sweet, I speek to everyone.)


myLot reputation of 87/100. sweet23 (1191)   ranked 916 out of 24,361 in people  3 months ago

dear hiccup i am not saying that you criticize others but i am saying that how many of you who criticize yourself
and it is important or not/
we criticize others but what about ourselves

sweety

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4. myLot reputation of 73/100. blackhole (1347)   ranked 2,933 out of 24,361 in people   3 months ago

yes I do not when I am alone or not have done in crowd also!!!!!!!!1

 
5. myLot reputation of 95/100. kalav56 (694)   ranked 968 out of 24,361 in people   2 months ago

I criticise myself more than what I criticise others .
When we point one finger at another person three fingers are pointing towards our own chests[this is a famous maxim]
I hate criticising others and generally go with the policy of'each to one's own', but when I hear people criticising me or anyone else within my hearing I get a bit irritated.
But one thing that I have learned is to be analytical but never voice MY loud thinking[this gives smart people the opportunity to ride rough shod over you]
Many people do not have the heart to criticise themselves but when the other person is doing some honest loud thinking they seize upon the opportunity to shift the blame on to others or make smart supercilious remarks. That is why our self analysis and criticism should be within our closest circle and not to all and sundry because it is construed as a weakness and all people would dish out free advice.


myLot reputation of 95/100. kalav56 (694)   ranked 968 out of 24,361 in people  2 months ago

I used to do this earlier but now i am getting wiser and have learnt a few lessons from smart people who have hurt me.

 
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