Does your spouse make a mess and then ask why you never clean up?

Same here except my husband something tells me directly that I'm a messy homemaker. I simply reply that he has two capable hands and an able body himself and if he would start picking up after himself and pitch in here and there I would have a perfect and sparkly home...

When you figure out how to get them to pick up, let me know. I have a son that follows in the footsteps.

Man's nature that has been a dilemma for his woman for years,

"Don't fix if it's not broken." (John Gray, Ph.D.)

My tips: "Make it break!"

My husband is finally starting to see how fast stuff gets messed up around here, and he's starting to understand that it isn't that I'm not cleaning it, it's just that between our 2 year old child, our 3 dogs, and our cat, stuff just gets messed up really fast. I'm really lucky because my husband does most of the laundry and dishes when he's only working 40 hours a week. I do most of the rest of the cleaning, though. And sometimes he will make comments about something being messy. I tell him I just cleaned it, and he makes some comment about it being a mess. Well, recently he cleaned our bedroom, and he really went at it. He moved stuff around, got some stuff out of there, organized some other stuff, etc. Within about 3 days, it was just as messy as ever! I keep telling him that until we have somewhere to PUT some of the stuff in there, we can't really keep it as clean as I would like. I think now he's finally understanding what I'm saying. He bought shelving the other day to finally convert one of the closets in the spare room into a linen closet. That will really help out with the extra stuff in our room!

My ex was all that you mentioned..but that's not all, after using the bathroom, the shampoo, soap and toothpaste are all over the sink,why can't he just put it back where he got it? Not to mention the toothpaste stain and shaving residues are all over the floor as well..The hamper is just next to the bathroom door, but still can't put the dirty clothes inside, instead it's on the top of the hamper, waiting for me to put them inside! He drinks a glass of water and just leave it at the table. After awhile, he'll drink again using another glass and leaves it there, until there will be at least 5 or more glasses that he alone used, all lined up on the table waiting for me to wash them..That goes the same with the plates and cups and saucers..And he had the nerve to ask me why I haven't washed the dishes yet..When he clearly saw that I was busy picking up his other mess while sweeping the floor at the same time.`
One day I finally had it- went out of the house and left all his mess. I went shopping and watched a movie ..

My husband's the same...and following him, my older son has started too....but he doesn't get away with it like daddy. At first I would tell my husband and then pick up after him...but it got harder after I had the kids. The thing I hated the most was wet towels on the bed. Thankfully, he's stopped that after all the nagging.
Yesterday(Sunday), I had to work and I cleaned the whole house before I left. I came back after a couple of hours to a home that looked like a warzone! And my husband had nothing else to do besides take care of the kids. I'm usually cooking and cleaning....as well as taking care of the kids and picking up after them (actually only the younger one...the older one cleans up after himself).
And my husband thinks sitting at home is the easiest thing in the world...when he's in a good mood he does say things like 'I know how hard it is for you to do everything alone and manage the kids too'...but he forgets it the moment he has to put his clothes in the hamper or keep something back after he's used it.