My first time wasn't like a real first time  |
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 I've heard stories that you cry, and bleed, and even experience excruciating pain during the first time you have sexual intercourse. But my first time, in my man's bedroom, felt like a very nice pleasuring and absolutely memorable experience! No bleeding, pain or i didn't even cry or anything. It made me wonder, was i really a virgin? Am i really normal or is there something wrong with me? Maybe i was raped before(hope not)!? Anyways, what's your opinion?Were you like me?
--You tell me--(^^,)
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1.  OceanTiara (2962) | 2 years ago |  Hi vermillion
My first time, I was too scared to feel anything..
I was forced when I was 14 yrs by an older man.
A person had to carry me home because I was left in the park outside. I could not walk because I was crying so much.
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| vermillion (341) | 2 years ago | I'm so sorry to hear that. What happened afterwards?Was there like a trauma or something? So you didn't like your first time. Again i'm sorry to hear that. | |
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| OceanTiara (2962) | 2 years ago | Oh, well, I was very careful and cautious and inhibited for a while after that and had other not so nice experiences through the years..always vulnerable and then well, I just learned to think to myself, what happen happened and move on.
I was able to have good thoughts with my husband later on in years and everything was fine. I never let anything make me have bad thoughts..I adjusted well no problem. Thank you for asking and I am happy you had a wonderful first time! Good discussion! xo | |
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| vermillion (341) | 2 years ago | Thank you so much for sharing your experience and what you've been through! Best of luck!(^^,) | |
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| OceanTiara (2962) | 2 years ago | My pleasure vermillion...:) and thank you for starting a great discussion topic. It is always interesting to see how others have lived their life and how we can educate eachother. | |
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2.  Tianna2 (1087) | 2 years ago |  Hello Vermillion, I remember that I had some pain and bleeding but I dont remember it being real bad. I know I was real nervous and I dont think either one of us enjoyed the experiance that much. I dont think there's anything wrong with you, some people just get it worst then others and some not at all from what I understand anyway's.
(((((Hugs)))))to you, Tianna
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| vermillion (341) | 2 years ago | Oh is that so. Thanks for that information and for the response!(^^,) | |
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| vermillion (341) | 2 years ago | I guess i should be thankful instead of worrying about it at all. Thanks for the response(^^,) | |
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| 4. grammasnook (1260) | 2 years ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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| vermillion (341) | 2 years ago | Yes it did help. It made me think about my past if i had been doing some extraneous activity or something. Thanks for the response(^^,) | |
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| beautyqueen26 (9134) | 2 years ago |  That's true! The hymen can break on it's own.
And it can happen doing almost anything.
I read that when I was a teen in a teen magazine.
It's different with every woman.
If you enjoyed it, then that was good.
It shouldn't have to be painful.
The first time should always be enjoyable
and memorable.
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| 5. fluffnflowers (1368) | 2 years ago |  As someone else pointed out, many times a woman's hymen is already broken before her first time. It can happen if you're very active. Also, the hymen is not a solid barrier, and the 'holes' some people have in theirs are large enough to permit intercourse without breaking -- or so said my ob-gyn.
I wouldn't worry about it and be thankful that you didn't have a painful experience.:) I was very active in my youth and had no pain, agony, or bleeding my first time, as well.
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| vermillion (341) | 2 years ago | Wow. I'm glad i've met someone who had gone through the same experience as me. I guess we should be thankful.
Thanks for responding(^^,) | |
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6.  Allie_xoxo (295) | 2 years ago |  Consider yourself lucky:)
mine hurt a lot....kind of like a stabbing sharpness and I bled some too. I am rather petite tho.
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| vermillion (341) | 2 years ago | Really? Oh is that so. I should be happy and not worry anymore regarding this. Thank you so much for sharing your experience!(^^,) | |
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| tigertang (1494) | 2 years ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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| 7. milf15 (1) | 2 years ago | I was the same way, it just hurt and that was it. I always wondered if it was normal that I didn't bleed.. lol | |
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| vermillion (341) | 2 years ago | Some people hear kept saying that it is pretty much normal. They say we should be happy about not getting a very awful experience unlike some did. We should be happy. Thanks for stoppin by(^^,) | |
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| 8. jerkyong (109) | 2 years ago |  I'd say you had a very good man because he made you feel relaxed. you usually don't feel pain when you're relaxed.
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| vermillion (341) | 2 years ago | Oh is that so?! I guess he is really good. So you're saying that women bleed and experience pain because their man isn't good enough? just kidding(^^,) | |
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| 9. lovelydame3000 (922) | 2 years ago |  I have heard that fear is what makes the first times terrible. If you are comfortable with your partner then everything should be okay and you need not get any pain.
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| vermillion (341) | 2 years ago | This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content. | |
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| 10. lizardgod (74) | 2 years ago | I have to agree, I am a guy by the way, and I have been with a virgin during her first time she barely bled at all, only a bit of discomfort at first and then it was just the jitters from both of us. I think it depends on the man you are with and how caring he is to you. Just cause you don't know someone who has that expierence doesn't mean you are wierd, millions of people in the world that you don't know;) and besides another word for wierd is unique:) | |
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| vermillion (341) | 2 years ago | Yey i'm unique!LOL. Thanks for sharing that. I guess it may depend on the man if he's that good to be able to make his girl relax and feel comfortable. I'm guessing you're saying you're one of them!LOL. (^^,) | |
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| lizardgod (74) | 2 years ago | perhaps I am, but not in a bragging way just a statement of my expierence. I try not to brag, doesn't do ya any good.:) | |
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