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myLot reputation of 85/100. Sparkles1969 (167)   ranked 1,357 out of 2,067 in relationships6 months ago

How soon do you think is too soon to say "I love you" in a relationship, are you good at saying these three little words and have you ever said it and not had it reciprocated? how did it make you feel?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 92/100. xxjinx8xx (897)   ranked 52 out of 2,067 in relationships   6 months ago

saying i love you is very important to me, if i say i love you to you it is true & sincere. i will think a million times before i say this 3 magic words. for me it's hard to say this words if i didn't feel it..


myLot reputation of 85/100. Sparkles1969 (167)   ranked 1,357 out of 2,067 in relationships  6 months ago

I completely share you view on saying it, for me I can't say it unless it's felt..thank you.

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2. myLot reputation of 85/100. landi927 (351)   ranked 1,499 out of 2,067 in relationships   6 months ago

I don't mind how soon to say these three words.I think if u know u love the guy,u can say "i love u".U can fall in love with a guy at first sight, why can't u say 'i love u" at frist sight too?I often say"i love u" to my bf coz i think if u really love someone u need to let him know. But i haven't experieced no response when i say these three words coz i won't say "i love u" to a guy that i can't sure he loves me too.


myLot reputation of 85/100. Sparkles1969 (167)   ranked 1,357 out of 2,067 in relationships  6 months ago

True I have to feel sure myself I'm loved before it's uttered but I don't think a limit is needed it's up to the individuals.

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3. myLot reputation of 83/100. sk66rc (1531)   ranked 1,497 out of 2,067 in relationships   6 months ago

There's a saying where I came from, "Think with your head but talk with your heart"... Basically it tells us to be logical & be reasonable in making your decisions but when relaying that message, do it with feelings & be fair, considering other's feelings, & all that good stuff... That being said, when I realize I have feelings for a person, I need to know what that feeling is... Could be just an infatuation, I could be in love with the "Idea" of being in a relationship not the person, or it just could be that I love that person... I'd take some time to think & sort out my feelings before saying those 3 words... As far as not having it reciprocated? I had that happen few times & didn't really feel good, lol... But I always try to state my feelings honestly... I would feel worse if I didn't say it regardless how bad I felt when it wasn't reciprocated... How soon? I'd say once you're sure of your feelings... I wouldn't wanna mis lead anyone no more than I wouldn't wanna be misled... I think how long ever it takes for one to sort through the feelings & come to an assurance that Love is how they feel, that's when "I love you" should be expressed...


myLot reputation of 85/100. Sparkles1969 (167)   ranked 1,357 out of 2,067 in relationships  6 months ago

I enjoyed reading your response..very thoughtful thank you.

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. greenline (1832)   ranked 1,498 out of 2,067 in relationships   6 months ago

It is never too soon for me to say "I love you". But, I really want to make sure before I say it! When I say it, it will be from the bottom of my heart!


myLot reputation of 85/100. Sparkles1969 (167)   ranked 1,357 out of 2,067 in relationships  6 months ago

That's how it should be...thanks.

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5. myLot reputation of 84/100. wildecoyote (870)   ranked 1,495 out of 2,067 in relationships   6 months ago

Saying I love you is the most important thing you can say. I say it to my kids all the time. Now with a new partner you have to be careful not to scare them off by saying it to soon. You should be able to tell when your partner loves you. Say it then.


myLot reputation of 85/100. Sparkles1969 (167)   ranked 1,357 out of 2,067 in relationships  6 months ago

I agree with you...thanks.

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6. myLot reputation of 91/100. ayessa (964)   ranked 258 out of 2,067 in relationships   6 months ago

With my husband before when he was just courting me it took me too long to finally say that magic words to him. I really find it hard to say the words even I already feel it. Most of the time I feel not confident on saying it and it makes me nervous. But now that he's my husband I don't let the day pass without saying "i love you" to him because no one knows until when we can say that words to our love ones.


myLot reputation of 85/100. Sparkles1969 (167)   ranked 1,357 out of 2,067 in relationships  6 months ago

I agree it is very important to tell the ones we do love that we do.

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. twistershot (470)   6 months ago

I Love You, these 3 words have much meaning, it makes all the relations very close. But every one has to know this 3 words values. once I feared about these words to express some one, but time comes and said it to my dearest and nearest friend and she was surprised to listen these words, and she asked me again and again how did you dare to say, is it true? yes that's true I told that "I Love you" by heartily, if any one wants to dare with me..... you can..... but by heartily.

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8. myLot reputation of 95/100. vermillion (345)   ranked 1,349 out of 2,067 in relationships   6 months ago

I am not that verbal of a person. So i tend to say and mean words like these to the people most deserving to hear them. When you get to a point where the person is always in your mind and then you smile or laugh out of nowhere just by remembering him/her, and when you can no longer live a second without him/her by your side, then i suggest you start trying to say these words(^^,)

Just remember that you won't be able to get back what you said so before saying it, think about the consequences and results it may bring(^^,)

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9. swarooop_479 (64)   6 months ago

I say it! When I say it, it will be from the bottom of my heart!

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. tattylashes (2348)   ranked 26 out of 2,067 in relationships   6 months ago

well you won't believe this but you know that me and he split before christmas...there were many reasons why but the main one was because in the 12 years that we have been together, he never once told me that he loved me, it hurt really bad, and it pushed me away from him.... it took me a few years to tell him because i had to feel it first, i gradually fell for him hook line and sinker, and when i told him he went all strange on me, but he never once told me up until a few months ago, now he tells me every day without fail, when i asked him about it, he said that he was scared to open up because his ex's had hurt him in the past, so in all them years i was with him, i was deprived of his love because of someone else...now he never stops telling me....thank god.... happy

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