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A feature we need what do you think email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 84/100. oneandonemakesix (24158)   ranked 1,877 out of 24,937 in mylot.com5 months ago

Ok a friend of mine is being targeted by a troll, I've had my own mylot problems in the past, but this would be something that would be helpful to us all, while its not hard to find a person, especially if they are on the first page of the user list according to ranking, and it wouldn't be hard to stalk them, but I ahve to say that I have denied a friend request and they came back and requested me again, what's up with that, I denied them for a reason, and they should figure that out,

So here's what I think

that mylot should put in a 'feature' that if someone is denied a friend request they should not be allowed to ask again, if you accidentally delete a friend they should be able to re request you

but this request and re-request and re-request is hogwash!!!!

Do you find yourself requesting people continully more than once?

Mooch

 
 
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wolfie34 (11356) response was accepted on 7/17/2008.
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tags:  abuse, friends, feature, friends requests, repeatedly get request from same person
 
1. myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (11356)   ranked 3 out of 24,937 in mylot.com   5 months ago

I am as angry about this as you and a lot of her friends Mooch and what I can't understand is that it is allowed to carry on, Yuwie for example a classic example has the BLOCK option so that you can block or ignore other users especially if they spam, abuse or harrass you! Now I am sure that Mylot wouldn't for one second CONDONE harrassment, so I personally feel that our mutual friend should waste no more time and get onto HQ straight away and nip this in the bud. Because it is tantamount to HARRASSMENT. A BLOCK option is needed otherwise this will happen continually, whether it will be heard or not is another matter.


myLot reputation of 90/100. dumblnddzzy (8826)   ranked 146 out of 24,937 in mylot.com  5 months ago

I'm with you wolfie, maybe if enough of us 'bombard' myLot with this kind of request maybe they will listen to us for a change. I'm gonna start emailing today about this matter.I hope you all will join me in this campaign to get a block option added..Lori


myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (11356)   ranked 3 out of 24,937 in mylot.com  5 months ago

Strength in numbers, will email them tonight, or should I say this morning now LOL!

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2. myLot reputation of 68/100. enterpriseLEE2010 (703)   ranked 1,819 out of 24,937 in mylot.com   5 months ago

That is a VERY great idea, Mooch! Hopefully MyLot will take heed to its members' suggestions. Good luck with that!

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. highflyingxangel (6178)   ranked 315 out of 24,937 in mylot.com   5 months ago

I think we definitely need a block option. People here just keep getting bothered by people that do not understand what no means. Other big name message boards have block options and I think Mylot should be no different. We do need a block option, badly.

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4. myLot reputation of 80/100. Marleysa (2781)   ranked 1,788 out of 24,937 in mylot.com   5 months ago

I think I've so far only requested one person since 2006. People usually request from me and if I deny it, they do not ask again..usually..it happened only once that a person asked again..but after denying it the second time, it did not happen again..but i do agree with you to have such a feature would be nice, I think.


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5. myLot reputation of 90/100. dumblnddzzy (8826)   ranked 146 out of 24,937 in mylot.com   5 months ago

That would be a great feature to have & one I think myLot should implement right away.Email them with the idea if enough of us do this maybe they'll listen to us. I'm so sorry this is happening to you, someone is geting me too but I can't figure out who it is..Pm me if you could...Lori

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6. myLot reputation of 92/100. OreoCookie3 (13777)   ranked 299 out of 24,937 in mylot.com   5 months ago

There is a certain person I deleted because all he does is spam. All his discussions are about making money on his sites and the only reason he is here is to get referrals. I deleted him and he came back for 3 months every few days asking for friend request.. and I decline every time.. so I get tired of it and accept him just to be able to tell him why I am refusing him and then deleted him again.

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. luvstochat (6020)   ranked 1,425 out of 24,937 in mylot.com   5 months ago

That would be a great idea. One way they could do it is to put a section in the friends request that says deny and block user. Right now there is just accept and deny. If we had a deny and block user that would take care of that problem.

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. toni_nakama (2041)   ranked 447 out of 24,937 in mylot.com   5 months ago

thumbup I like this idea Mooch. They use this feature in
Yuwie and Friendster. I hope MyLot admin can consider this
great idea. I haven't experienced repetitive request from
others though. But I think if they are doing that to you
they are just trying to annoy you Mooch.

 
9. myLot reputation of 77/100. Hatley (12491)   ranked 2,179 out of 24,937 in mylot.com   5 months ago

mooch I think you have a good point. as for myself if I'was
denied once I would certaingly not come back. I have only'
asked to be someone's friend once. all my friends came to'me
for whatever reason. as I understand about this stalker
he or she was making insulting remarks to the person he or'
she stalked. surely that user can be turned in to mylot.

 
10. myLot reputation of 90/100. DarkDancer (567)   ranked 479 out of 24,937 in mylot.com   5 months ago

I was wondering why there was no ignore feature, many places have the ingore so that when someone is ignored you don't even see their posts any more.

 
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