Why do people tie old shoes and cans on the back of newlyweds' cars?  |
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| This is an old tradition that lots of people partake in, but do we know why? I know it makes a lot of noise so everyone will look at them as they travel to where they are going, but I'd like to know where the tradition came from. Where did it start? WHY??? Also are there any other wedding traditions that you have in your family? What are they? | | | | | |
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1. jillhill (17704)
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4 years ago
| | I wonder why too.....and I remember a time when they used to write just married all over the car with shaving cream...and it took the finish off a few! I think that tradition as calmed down....In my family though we have a tradition that when there is a wedding all the aunts sing....going to the chapel! LOL....it embarasses almost everyone...even though we aren't half bad! LOL | | | | | | |
tammyr (3462)
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4 years ago
| | My cousin got married and they put shaving creme on the car. Her new hubby was FURIOUS!!! I was working at a detail shop at the time and offered to clean up the car and re-wax it for them for free, but I think he just wanted something to rant over because they never did come in. | | | |
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jillhill (17704)
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4 years ago
| | I don't blame her.....I would be mad too! | | | |
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2. dumblnddzzy (10631)
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4 years ago
| | HI Tammyr!! MY take on this is this: The shoes arre for the many roads the couple will travel down as a married couple. And the cans are just to irritate the shiat out of people..lol...Lori | | | | | | |
tammyr (3462)
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4 years ago
| | LOL Then should we use NEW shoes? Seems like they would be better prepared! LOL Really that is a good thought though! and the cans CAN be very irritating! | | | |
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3. Valenas (1138)
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4 years ago
| | Perhaps the shoes tie into the phrase "Walk in someone else's shoes." In that phrase, shoes represent life. The old shoes, may then, represent their old life, the one before they were married. They might tie it on the back of the car as a way of putting their old life behind them. I am not sure of the can's use. Maybe it is to attract attention? "Hey, look at me, I am married now, and I am starting a new life." | | | | | | |
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4. GardenGerty (35334)
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4 years ago
| | I do not know if that is part of the tradition of chivaree or not. When my daughter married, her new husband put her in the wheel barrow and wheeled her around the block. I think my brother looked that one up for me and he said it meant that no matter what it took that Jason would take care of Samantha, even if he had to carry her, or push her in a wheel barrow.(Old European, even if they could not afford a horse.)I had thought it was just to embarrass her so to speak. He said he did not know why, but his family always did it, and he was the youngest of five siblings. | | | | | | |
tammyr (3462)
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4 years ago
| | What a sweet tradition! I wouldn't be embarrassed at all! I think it is great that he did it in the spirit of family tradition! | | | |
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Angelwhispers (4603)
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4 years ago
| | You just reminded me of a response I gave to this guy that asked such an asinine question, and no one was responding to it.. I went in and said Do a google for Gods Sake! I must have been in a bad mood.... LOL | | | |
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tammyr (3462)
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4 years ago
| | LOL I can't see you being that mean!! LOL I do search when I want an answer to something like this, but I thought it would be more fun to get others thoughts on the tradition. I also want some other traditions from around the world. I got everything I wanted and then some! Thanks again for the link, it is a great one! | | | |
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6. gabs8513 (23375)
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4 years ago
| | Lol Tammy I really do not know where it came from The Tradition in my Family is which I will not follow lol the Bride gets Kidnapped and the Groom has to find her I really do not know where these have all come from lol | | | | | | |
tammyr (3462)
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4 years ago
| | Angel gave a great link with customs and the origins. I have heard of people kidnapping one or the other of the newlyweds. I think they said it originated in Greece, but I may be wrong. | | | |
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7. weemam (6718)
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4 years ago
| | I don't know pal , but it would nice to find out , Maybe it's because we are always skint after a wedding and we maybe can't afford NEW shoes :) xx | | | | | | |
tammyr (3462)
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4 years ago
| | LOL That is a great reason!! I know weddings can be expensive, even if it is a small tado! | | | |
weemam (6718)
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4 years ago
| | See!! and you thought I was daft lol :) :) xx | | | |
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8. danishcanadian (24610)
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4 years ago
| | The tradition of cans, I would imagine, is just to draw attention to the newleyweds. Unfortunately, I read somewhere that in the olden days a father would hand the bride's shoes to her husband to symbolize a TRANSFER OF AUTHORITY from father to husband. I think that tradition stinks, and if, at our family wedding reception (we eloped last year) anyone goes near our car with a shoe, I'm going to hit them over the head with it!! | | | | | | |
tammyr (3462)
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4 years ago
| | LOL The link Angel gave said that too, and, they use to throw shoes at the newlyweds and if they OR the carriage got hit it was good luck! How can a concussion bring good luck!?!? | | | |
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9. hiccup (8758)
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4 years ago
| | It's FALLIC, Its a wish for good fertility and good luck. I just found that out, another useless INFO for me to use sometime in the future. Here is a site that will back up what I have just said, Why do we tie shoes/cans to the back of newlywed cars? | Answerbag Why do we tie shoes/cans to the back of newlywed cars? ... Since feet were considered a phallic symbol, guests threw old shoes at the bride to promote ... www.answerbag.com/q_view/331885 - 42k - Cached Have fun, HICCUP. | | | | | | |
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tammyr (3462)
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4 years ago
| | UUMMMM... I will be nice as I can see you are new. This answer adds nothing to the discussion and is very short. There for it violates the guidelines. To find the guidelines, look at the very bottom of your page. You will also see the FAQ, both are very helpful when you are new here. I hope you read them and become a great member here in mylot. Posting things such as this will not make you money because the members of mylot will report it as a violation and it can be deleted. Happy posting! | | | |
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