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myLot reputation of 91/100. Katesmama (3223)   ranked 4 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot2 years ago

My baby and i went shopping tonight for some big girl underwear for her to wear in preparation for potty training. She wanted boy style underwear, Diego kind to be exact. I really wanted to get it for her, who would know, really, but they didn't have her size. The styles she got, I let her pick, but I know if I let her, she would choose the boy style with the little front door.

What do you think? Should I find the Diego undies for her and let her wear them with pride? Or should I just let her forget them and enjoy the girlie ones she picked?

And why can't I find plastic covers?!?!

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. sedel1027 (12408)   ranked 119 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot   2 years ago

I would let her wear whatever she picked. I think they the undies fit about the same for little kids. Who is going to see them that would really care?

Plastic cover? You mean like they make for cloth diapers? I didn't think you were suppose to use those with undies because they were too diaper like and defeated the purpose.


myLot reputation of 91/100. Katesmama (3223)   ranked 4 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

Well, my friend used plastic covers over the undies, and it still worked well for her. I heard that the underwear or cloth diapers allow the child to feel wet and uncomfortable, which is why they transition to the potty easier, because the diaper absorbs wetness away. In effect, undies with plactic pants are more economical and environmental that pull ups. I just look to prevent leaks. I don't mind laundry, but I hate cleaning Mall carpets! LOL!


myLot reputation of 34/100. zukepr (11799)   ranked 174 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

I used the plastic covers over cloth undies with all my kids


danielsm (30)   ranked 531 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

Whats the frontdoor flap thing in boys under wear and boxers for?


myLot reputation of 94/100. austere (1626)  1 year ago

you should know!LOL

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. heavenschild (1716)   ranked 27 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot   2 years ago

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myLot reputation of 91/100. Katesmama (3223)   ranked 4 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

She's not into Dora. I don't think I'd put her in them to go out, only because I would not want her to feel bad for what she likes that is different from other kids.

I did find a US site that sells them at an affordable rate..

I hope it helps you

http://www.pottytrainingconcepts.com/Plastic-Training-Pants-c.html

Good luck to you!


myLot reputation of 99/100. heavenschild (1716)   ranked 27 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

My boy love Diego and Dora LOL!
What was your response to her when she asked for them in the store?
How old is she?
It may not hurt if only she wore them at home....

Thanks for the site it may come in handy soon!

~Heavens~


myLot reputation of 91/100. beautyqueen26 (9134)   ranked 40 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

Hi Heavenschild and Katesmama,
I loved the link too. I wish I'd had those when we went
through potty training. I could only find the plastic covers
for babies and those were way too small.

I will keep the link for future reference.
Fingers crossed!
LOL!


myLot reputation of 99/100. heavenschild (1716)   ranked 27 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

So Beautyqueen you are looking for a future addition...Me too...fingers crossed for both of us then!! LOL

HUGS
~Heavens~


myLot reputation of 91/100. Katesmama (3223)   ranked 4 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

She's always been one for Diego, and Pablo from the Backyardigans, so I would have gotten her either of those. Those are her reward stickers at home, so I couldn't think of a better way to get her interested in big girl undies. She doesn't know they're boy style, so i don't really see the harm until she's around the mean older girls at my gym's nursery. And that's simple to avoid. she's only two, so it will be a long road til she's wearing them to the gym.


myLot reputation of 91/100. beautyqueen26 (9134)   ranked 40 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

Hi Heavenschild! Yes, I'm hoping! Money was good for awhile so I thought it was the perfect time, but now that his schedule has been cut back, baby planning is sort of on hold.
But I am still making plans and hoping. I know what to expect this time, what I'll need supplies
wise, clothes, diapers, etc. So, I am doing some pre-baby shopping and stockpiling at
sales and such.

That's what I did before my daughter was born. I bought clothes three years before I got
pregnant and then put them in a box and saved them. She got so much good use out of
everything I bought and I felt like the best mom for knowing in advance what she would need.

So, yes, fingers crossed. And, good luck to you too.

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. pixelpixie (423)   ranked 139 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot   2 years ago

Find Diego ones and let her wear them with pride! Haha! I wear guy's boxers and PJ pants all the time.

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. honeydew82174 (1240)   ranked 142 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot   2 years ago

I can not find plastic covers either. I do not think they make them any more now that they have all the new products out like pull up's. I would let her wear the boy undies. What is it hurting? you will both have a good laugh when she gets older. Besides if it helps potty traning why not!


myLot reputation of 91/100. Katesmama (3223)   ranked 4 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

I found a site! Gerber still makes them, as well as some other vendors.

http://www.pottytrainingconcepts.com/Plastic-Training-Pants-c.html


myLot reputation of 97/100. GardenGerty (20408)   ranked 53 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

My daughter bought them this week at Babies R Us. I hope this helps others on here. She did look online, but she likes to see what she is buying first hand. I think they should have all characters from a series available for boys and girls both. She should have her favorites. lollol

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5. myLot reputation of 91/100. beautyqueen26 (9134)   ranked 40 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot   2 years ago

That's too cute.
You know that you're giving me cavities with
all this sweetness!
Crest thanks you! LOL!

As far as undies go, give her what she wants.
Maybe she will just forget about it.
If she puts up a fuss, maybe a pair or two
with Diego plastered on them, wouldn't be
so bad.

Maybe that would give her confidence to wear
big kid undies. Maybe it's a tiny concession
she is asking for in exchange for growing up
and being a big girl!

My daughter is good about doing that.
She will do what I ask, with a few strings
attached. It's OK with me.

You're the mom, so you know my best advice!
Do what your heart tells you to do.
Do what you feel is best for your little girl.

Another idea would be to get plain cotton undies
for little girls. And, then get an iron on from the
craft store and put it on the undies. Do you think
that would work?

I guess it could. Let me know. It's just a thought.
Or maybe use a Diego sticker she could put on the undies
each time she wears them. Would that work?

Just some ideas! Be well.
You know my thoughts on the whole kid thing.
Whatever they want is fine with me.

Be well.
Have a blessed and beautiful (and stress free) weekend.


myLot reputation of 99/100. heavenschild (1716)   ranked 27 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

An Iron on...Awesome Idea! the Sticker is great too for when she pees in the potty!! thumbup

~Heavens~


myLot reputation of 91/100. beautyqueen26 (9134)   ranked 40 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

You're totally right!
My little girl responded very well to the stickers
we gave her when she was potty training. It was one of the
things that really worked.

She has tons of Dora the Explorer stickers
and gets one each time she does something good, like
eating her noodles or picking up her books.

She's still young, so we reward anything that remotely
resembles good behavior. Hopefully she will want to
do more good things! That's the dream!

Best wishes to the both of you.


myLot reputation of 99/100. heavenschild (1716)   ranked 27 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

My boy responds well to stickers too...He will be five at the end of the month but is around three mentally and so we work with what we have but he is a good helper.. Most of the time!

~Heavens~


myLot reputation of 91/100. beautyqueen26 (9134)   ranked 40 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

That's very sweet! Mine is four.
She's mommy's little helper as well.

She loves using my computer and playing
her little games.

When she was about three years old, she
was having trouble speaking and putting
sentences together verbally so we got reader rabbit
and elmo cd-roms.

She began to use them on her third birthday
and within a month was doing very well speaking.

I'm the biggest fan of those cd-roms!

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6. myLot reputation of 79/100. jonesy123 (3254)   ranked 121 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot   2 years ago

I don't even know why they put that little front door (lol) there for the little boys. They don't even know yet what to do with that. Mine just pulls down the undies. If he would have to try to get it out the door first he would be wet by then, lol.

Anyhow, since he has older sisters, he did have to wear pink and purple training pants. I wasn't about to buy boy ones as he wouldn't wear them for long anyway. But even when he switched to regular undies, if he had too many accidents he had to use girlie undies. I wasn't about to run the laundry for just his undies, lol.

I would say, whatever helps to get them trained. They have to like what they wear or they won't like to work with you on potty training. However, since you could not find the Diego ones she wanted, don't worry about it too much, she probably has already forgotten about it anyway. Just make a big fuss about her wearing the big girl undies and how proud you are of her. She'll love them and forget about Diego, lol.

Forget about the plastic cover. That won't hold up diddle squad if they wear regular underwear. If you want them check with a baby specialty store like babies-r-us. Any store that sells quality clothes diapers should have them. But quite frankly, they will be a hindrance. Your child is supposed to learn to pull the undies up and down themselves. That's part of the grown-up feeling they get. The plastic cover will make things too difficult.


myLot reputation of 91/100. Katesmama (3223)   ranked 4 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

I am excited about potty training, and I thought a good start would be to get her excited about big girl undies. She mimics me on the potty, and she's really gone twice. Its so fun!

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. Trace86 (3407)   ranked 61 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot   2 years ago

I don't see any harm in her wearing boy style undies if they are what appeal to her right now. Maybe later when she sees other girls wearing Disney Princesses, she will want those instead then. I think whatever appeals to her sense of individuality is wonderful. Don't stifle it until you absolutely have to.

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8. myLot reputation of 97/100. Polly1 (8477)   ranked 15 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot   2 years ago

I would keep her in girl undies. Little boys and girls are learning their roles and identities. Its not a time for them to be confused. I haven't looked for plastic pants in ages, I don't even know if they still make them. There are so many people who use pull ups now. Good luck on the potty training.


myLot reputation of 98/100. kaysue4 (627)  1 year ago

I think the new pull ups would hinder training because they feel like they are still in a diaper. I am getting ready to train my grand daughter that is visiting here for a month and the parents have had a hard time training her, she is also hearing impaired and not sure mentally though, but they still treat her like a baby, so she is going to act like one, IMHO.

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. lilybug (15346)   ranked 159 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot   2 years ago

I say let her wear the DIEGO underwear. Why not? Who is gonna see them? My daughter has some DORA ones. I got her plastic covers at Walmart next to the cloth diapers. They are Gerber brand I believe.


myLot reputation of 91/100. Katesmama (3223)   ranked 4 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

I looked by the cloth diaper, and no go. At Target, they had padded training pants, so I got three pair of those. I did find a website that sells Gerber ones, so I'm going to call some local stores first before I order them.

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10. myLot reputation of 97/100. cjgrooms (3194)   ranked 618 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot   2 years ago

I babysit my 3y/o niece and she has a little dresser here where we keep her clothes and undies. A couple of weeks ago she decided that she was going to take some of her clothes home so she got a bag and started picking stuff out to take. I noticed that she was taking out all of her little boy panties (her "best buddy" gave them to her when he outgrew them) and putting them in the bag i asked her didn't she think that she should take her pretty girl panties and leave the boy panties to wear here. Here is her answer... "My mama likes my girl panties but my boy panties has cartoons and feels better". Needless to say the boy panties went home with her after i called her Mom to explain WHY her adorable little girl was bringing home boy underpants and not the cute little girl panties she bought her.
I don't think the type of underwear she wears to learn to potty train will do any permanent harm, Just make sure you get plenty of pictures because when she gets older she isn't going to believe it for a minute!LOL


myLot reputation of 91/100. Katesmama (3223)   ranked 4 out of 711 in be happy and laugh alot  2 years ago

AWWW! Good for her!

Yes, get pics!

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