I finally got to hear those three little words...

Tell H. that you are in love with E. Try to do it without being cruel I know it is hard sometimes when the guy isn't listening to you when you try to say it nicely; so you may have to be cruel in the end. But try to let him down gently.
take care,
Trish

Hi scorpiobabes.

Looks like you've already set up your mind on E. I must say it is great that you can let him stay with a woman who was once had a relationship with him, I could never do that without having to spy on him everyday Guess I'm not the trusting type? Hehe.

If you've been friends with H for that long, you two must be very good friends. He should understand your feelings for him and for E. Just tell him straight in the eye and tell him that if he continues this you can't hang out with him anymore. Of course, you might lose a friend because of this, so be prepared.

Good luck scorpiobabes.

Hello Scorpiobabes, I think that if H was a real friend, he wouldnt be trying to break up your relationship for his own personal gain. If he knows that you are already commited to someone else, he should respect that. If he cant, then he's not a very good friend.
I've had friends like this before and they seem great and will do anything for you, but there always seems to be other motives for their friendship.
I would tell him that while your flattered about how he feels, your already spoken for and you dont expect that to change. I hope everything works out for you!

Hugs, Tianna

I think if you are not attractive there is no point in forcing in! You can't make yourself love him!

its quite weird. i think you should tell H that you are in love with E. you can't love him/ also love can't be forced. i hop he understand your point.yopu have to tell him politely.

If you are having a hard time broaching the subject, maybe you can just slip something in, here and there and he will get the hint without slamming him with it.

But, somehow, he sounds a bit too pushy, opinionated and doesn't like to take no for an answer. So it may have to be a bit of a slam.

Maybe a letter, worded correctly, would be better. That way, you can extoll his virtues to him AS A FRIEND, AND ONLY A FRIEND, while at the same time letting him know you are not romantically interested in him, too.

Say, "sorry, but I just don't FEEL that way about you. I love you as a friend. Not romantically. And please stop pushing me as I do not want to lose you as a friend, but if you persist, I will have to." That should set him straight.

itss no easy way too do it but all i can say is follow your heart and you know what your heart is sying so listen to your heart you know who you truelly want too be with so go with that you know who you are in love with you know who your heart is drawn too so the only thing that matter is that you are happy with yourself and choice to choose the men you desire too be with you just need too tell the guy that this relationship is not going further then friendship so he needs too grow up and move on and see that this replationship is not going anywere at all past friends so he needs too back off!!!!!!!!