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clandestinef (72)   ranked 219 out of 11,814 in love1 year ago

Survey says that the best age to get married is shifting higher with 25 ideal for woman and 27 for man...this poll reporting the change in attitude. Over the last 60 years, the best age is 21 for woman and 25 for man (ideally)...Is this mean that couple nowadays are much mature and much practical?Or just an advent of time?And what are some several factors that need to be consider before marriage?
And for you what is the best time to get married?


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1. myLot reputation of 69/100. proff124 (267)   ranked 231 out of 11,814 in love   1 year ago

The best time for marriage when you feel you are economical sound.when you can take the responsibility of family.when you are enough mature understand family matters.Aa well as age is concerned i think ideal age for boys is 25 and for girls 23.

 
2. myLot reputation of 79/100. rirbry (299)   ranked 6,868 out of 11,814 in love   1 year ago

In here the ideal age to get married is 25 for woman and 28 for man but i think it will increase up to 26 for woman and 30 for man because of the lack of economy


shijiaxin13 (60)   ranked 9,456 out of 11,814 in love  1 year ago

I agree with u and I think when I get married,my husband should be 5 years elder than me at least.As man is less mature than woman when they at the same age,I even less mature than the girls in my ages.
So I need sb to tolerate my mistakea and to care me.

 
3. myLot reputation of 57/100. icecandies (120)   ranked 7,468 out of 11,814 in love   1 year ago

i think a lot of couples nowadays are getting married at the age over 25 because it's most likely to be an advent of time. i mean, life is very hard these days. everything is rising up high. so for me before you get married you should make sure you are financially stable, mentally and emotionally ready for it.

 
4. myLot reputation of 97/100. danishcanadian (20335)   ranked 1,512 out of 11,814 in love   1 year ago

When I got married I was twenty-five and my husband was sixty-one. The right age for marriage depends on te ccouple.

 
5. panjangakal (31)   1 year ago

Hi! For me the best age is around 20-23 for women, for men age is not the issue. But, the best age is around 24-26.:) Now in 23, my aim is married around 24 or 25...:D

 
6. myLot reputation of 94/100. myliezl0903 (1589)   ranked 2,091 out of 11,814 in love   1 year ago

i guess theres no such thing as best age to get married .,if you think that your capable or ready physically, emotionally & financially stabled and you find the right one for you then i guess thats the time that your ready to say I DO ... Ü

have a nice day ahead!happy

 
7. myLot reputation of 87/100. fratertelo (227)   ranked 3,630 out of 11,814 in love   1 year ago

I just agree with you. Women should be age of 25 when she want to get married. And man should be age of 27. But more important is maturity. And Age do not indicate mental maturity.

 
8. myLot reputation of 87/100. cupid74 (4632)   ranked 1,310 out of 11,814 in love   1 year ago

Hi dear
yeah u r right, priorties of lifes are changing, life style is getting high and so u need to work hard to get it.
and studies are time taking tooo

so i think the best age for girl is 23-25 and malr iss 25-30

Take care

 
9. myLot reputation of 97/100. gtdonna (1070)   ranked 2,872 out of 11,814 in love   1 year ago

In my opinion, the best age to say I DO, is when you feel that both you and your soulmate are ready to make that step for better or worst. To me somethings that should be taken into consideration are
1. Make sure that you both have agree that marriage is the next step
2. Discuss before hand stuff like kids, money etc
3. Have a serious sit down and talk and discuss those vows

Many people get married and then one day they wake up and one or both realise they have made a serious mistake and they are not ready yet for such a committed relationship.

 
10. myLot reputation of 93/100. kissie34 (1482)   ranked 170 out of 11,814 in love   1 year ago

Actually, I am not yet married but I have a boyfriend... We were planning to get married when we reach 25 years of age.. So that will be 5 years from now.. We are in the same age, he is older to me about 2 months and a half...

In my own point of view, people nowadays are more in sexual factors... I met many people who got into marriage life at the young age (16) because they accidentally got pregnant from their boyfriends... I think people nowadays, don't realize yet the value of marriage... They were just thinking about now, their present situation, the love that they have from their bf or gf... But I think as they go on continue the life as a married person, they might realize how hard the responsibilities that they will carry especially when they have already a child/ children..

So, maybe it is up to the person on how he/she view about getting married... But me and my bf, we are thinking about our future.. We don't want to decide without looking further because we want the best of us.. We don't want to regret our decisions and most of all we don't want to lose our love just because of wrong decisions...

 
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