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myLot reputation of 91/100. mysdianait (3994)   ranked 218 out of 25,008 in mylot.com4 months ago

Is it just me or has anyone elde noticed that recently here on MyLot many users get 'heated'?
I usually keep out of the way when tempers fray but I also state my opinion. This seems to differ from others on more occasions recently and others start 'flaring'.
This wasn't the case until recently so could it be caused by the heatwave that is being experienced in many parts of the world right now?

Does the heat affect your way of saying things?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 90/100. slyvixen42 (708)   ranked 1,190 out of 25,008 in mylot.com   4 months ago

Unfortunately the heat does affect how I say things sometimes. High temperatures make me uncomfortable. When I'm uncomfortable I get cranky. I'm sure other people do too.


myLot reputation of 91/100. mysdianait (3994)   ranked 218 out of 25,008 in mylot.com  4 months ago

Seems they do. Something I said, had it been winter, would probably have been read completeky differently. I must remember that next time wink

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2. myLot reputation of 80/100. Marleysa (2783)   ranked 1,792 out of 25,008 in mylot.com   4 months ago

I do get more cranky when it's hot outside. I am SO much happier when it's cold out. When you are hot there is nothing you can do about it but when you are cold you can get a blanket or a coat. The hotter it is outside, the hotter my temper gets. So in answer to your question, yes, it does affect my temperament a lot..lol..


myLot reputation of 91/100. mysdianait (3994)   ranked 218 out of 25,008 in mylot.com  4 months ago

I agree about the cold being MUCH better than the heat. But my temper is not affected by it - I get hot if the need arises even in winter lol

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3. myLot reputation of 88/100. LoudnProud (4422)   ranked 1,732 out of 25,008 in mylot.com   4 months ago

Oh yeh i just saw that Diana,the who cares attitude.Not me i wouldnt say that to you!! Oh you know what i mean.
Anyway am the same winter,summer,naked or clothed.I just do what i do & say what i say,cant say i really thought about the heat,prob cos there aint ever any here LOL lol


myLot reputation of 91/100. mysdianait (3994)   ranked 218 out of 25,008 in mylot.com  4 months ago

Ah! You saw it - so you see what provoked this lol
I too say what I have to say but without offending. An opinion is just that be it winter or summer but it certainly feels darn 'hot' these days on here doh

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. mentalward (1770)   ranked 187 out of 25,008 in mylot.com   4 months ago

I really haven't been here long enough to really notice a trend, but it could very well be the heat. I think it's a lot more, though... like the rising cost of energy, commodities, etc. There is so much bad news these days that it is affecting everything, including attitudes, in my opinion.

My son just came to visit me, which is kinda rare. He seemed so 'down'. He was telling me about his recent raise, which was kind of pitiful, even though he works his derriere off. Of course, the raise doesn't offset the rising costs of everything else and I'm sure that most people are feeling the 'pinch'.

Heat usually makes tempers rise. I used to live in Baltimore City, and I could see it just by looking out my window. My cousin, who used to be a police officer, said she always saw a rise in arrests for assault and battery during periods of extreme heat. There's definitely something to it!

But, personally, I just came in from doing some gardening. It's 85 deg. outside and I was dripping wet by the time I finished. I wouldn't have the energy to get "heated" even if I tried! LOL I just want to cool off.


myLot reputation of 91/100. mysdianait (3994)   ranked 218 out of 25,008 in mylot.com  4 months ago

I agree with your last bit too - tha last thing I want to do when I already hot fue to the weather is get even hotter. I come here to relax!
Here in Italy it's very hot, as in many parts of the world, but it is not a cause for an increase in 'tempers' - Italians are 'hot' always lol
I also agree that ebverything is grim at the moment (sad about your son too) but the situation of daily life does not make me get a temper. Nothing does really as i am a very placid person, somuch so I get trodden on sometimes, BUT I do state my mind eben if it is completely different from the majority. I never intend hurting people though sad

 
5. myLot reputation of 99/100. wolfie34 (11411)   ranked 2 out of 25,008 in mylot.com   4 months ago

I have to admit that the heat makes me moody and irritable, I don't like the humidity and I find the heat sometimes too much, I cope much better in the cold, I guess I was an eskimo in my former life! It also makes me feel lethargic and tired too. So yes I can understand the heat making people fray quickly and get irritable and fractious, because I can relate to that, I don't enter heated debates anyhow and prefer to take the backseat, life is strenuous enough without losing your temper over a difference of opinion, it takes too much effort, too much effort makes you hotter. I don't like the heat so I stay out of the kitchen!


myLot reputation of 91/100. mysdianait (3994)   ranked 218 out of 25,008 in mylot.com  4 months ago

I guess the heat is not the best thing for a wolf wink Good to see you once in a while! thumbup
The heat makes me flop and I'm glad to get back home after the office and no cooking here in my kitchen this weather so you'd be ok here.
In fact I can't get it that heat raises temperaments when in my case I would just give way more than I normally do if it's hot. BUT I would, and do, state my own opinion. That would never change whatever the weather!

 
6. myLot reputation of 71/100. hiccup (4750)   ranked 3,297 out of 25,008 in mylot.com   4 months ago

Like life there are those who will not be open minded and can never see the other person's point.

They always want to thrust down your throat their idea with out care for you or anyone else.

We have a few here in mylot, you get to know who they are and for me I just do not comment on anything they put up.
I have found no matter what you say to them you are always wrong, I dont need that crap, so I just do not go there.

And for heat of the day, they need to take a walk away from the PC and have a cool drink, and to take a break.


myLot reputation of 91/100. mysdianait (3994)   ranked 218 out of 25,008 in mylot.com  4 months ago

I respect other's opinions and request likewise and didn't expect the reaction that I got. My opinion remains however the same.
Maybe because I am moving out of the 'money' section more recently or because my list of friends has grown and I am aware of more discussions than before but it certainly does seem more than a coincidence that tempers are rising here simultaneously with the heatwave.
Nothing alters though when it comes to me believing that MyLot is a fun place whatever the weather! lol

 
7. myLot reputation of 77/100. Hatley (12607)   ranked 2,072 out of 25,008 in mylot.com   4 months ago

I guess it does affect how we say things as we get hot
and uncomfortable, then get cranky. but we should not
take it out on each other mylot users. thats not fair
and not respecting each others views that way either.
we can state our opinions but others should not make
insulting cracks at us for our opinions either.


myLot reputation of 91/100. mysdianait (3994)   ranked 218 out of 25,008 in mylot.com  4 months ago

That's what I think too happy
Respect should be there wqhatever the temperature.

 
8. dreamscape (49)   ranked 11,581 out of 25,008 in mylot.com   4 months ago

hi mysdiannit!

well i have not really noticed people with heated argumetns here in mylot. i am just here to shrae what i know and to answer and to post discussions.

i just think thta people have a right to their own opinion.

but i guess the heat does affect moods. and when people are aleady in a bad mood when they come in here, then it is easier to snap at peopel.

good day and God bless you!


myLot reputation of 91/100. mysdianait (3994)   ranked 218 out of 25,008 in mylot.com  4 months ago

Hi dreamscape and welcome to MyLot! thumbup
I suppose Im lucky that I don't get bad moods often and I'm usually a fun, happy type, especially on here as it IS so much FUN.
Hope you will enjoy it too and looking forward to reading you. Happy posting!

 
9. sweetmummy (18)   4 months ago

really? i am new here and i hope i don't face such situations.

 
10. myLot reputation of 95/100. vanities (7796)   ranked 638 out of 25,008 in mylot.com   4 months ago

for me i guess not..its my mood who plays a great role on the manner i responded on discussions here..what about you?happy

 
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