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myLot reputation of 95/100. raclie (805)   ranked 995 out of 25,886 in people3 months ago

how many of you actueally talk to others when they are not talking to you?
like when your classmates or the people you work with...
when they are in a conversation...
like a big group...
will you go up and talk to them?
i will not...
not used to it...
what about you?

 
 
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tags:  people, insecure, friends, wanted, conversation
 
1. myLot reputation of 99/100. lilaclady (15390)   ranked 459 out of 25,886 in people   3 months ago

Yeh I know how you feel, I like to know I am wanted in the conversation, I have never been a pushy person, I guess we are really shy people deep down...


myLot reputation of 95/100. raclie (805)   ranked 995 out of 25,886 in people  3 months ago

i agree!!!
but i realise that me being left out in class is rather my fault too...
as i did not try to be friendly...
so maybe i will try harder!!!
lol...


myLot reputation of 99/100. lilaclady (15390)   ranked 459 out of 25,886 in people  3 months ago

I have found most people feel insecure about themselves at times, but some people are just good at putting on a good fascade..You will be ok...

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. SomeCowgirl (2085)   ranked 243 out of 25,886 in people   3 months ago

I will approach the group and wait for someone to acknowledge me before I say anything. I would rather someone acknowledge me and welcome me to the conversation before I said anything. It's impolite to talk when other's are talking, so I wait. I also hate starting to talk to someone and then they ignore me. Have a Great day!happy


myLot reputation of 95/100. raclie (805)   ranked 995 out of 25,886 in people  3 months ago

lol...
i hate it too!!!


myLot reputation of 99/100. SomeCowgirl (2085)   ranked 243 out of 25,886 in people  2 months ago

I think that it is kind of disrespectful to do that, just like it's disrespectful to talk when others are talking.

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3. myLot reputation of 70/100. Piscesmoon (1091)   ranked 2,578 out of 25,886 in people   3 months ago

I am more likely to go up and talk to them if they are in a large group. If it was only 2 or 3 people, I'd probably think they were having a private conversation but, if there are lots of people there, I wouldn't feel like I was intruding.


myLot reputation of 95/100. raclie (805)   ranked 995 out of 25,886 in people  3 months ago

i agree!!!
i hate the akward scilence...
it is almost as if they were saying...
you are not welcome here...

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4. myLot reputation of 89/100. catfish57 (683)   ranked 1,758 out of 25,886 in people   3 months ago

sometimes i do,sometimes i do not.it might depend on the topic of the dicussion.


myLot reputation of 95/100. raclie (805)   ranked 995 out of 25,886 in people  3 months ago

lol..
agreed...
i just listen to them..
and when i have something to say...
i will say it..
lol..


myLot reputation of 89/100. catfish57 (683)   ranked 1,758 out of 25,886 in people  3 months ago

that is the way to be.i am going to put a new post on here in a little bit.

 
5. myLot reputation of 94/100. danishcanadian (13947)   ranked 1,037 out of 25,886 in people   2 months ago

Sometimes I ccan't resist, if the conersation turns to a topic that is ery near and dear to my heart. Someoe mentioned looking for a ookstore in Phoenix today, in a cae, and I jumped right in and told them about the one I used, since I'm in Phoenix a lot.

 
6. myLot reputation of 99/100. magojordan (1591)   ranked 2,455 out of 25,886 in people   2 months ago

Me either if they're not talking to me especially if it is a sensitive topic then I don't talk back. Usually I just listen to them so that when the time comes for me to talk. Then I would be a able to express myself better thumbup

 
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