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myLot reputation of 94/100. spoiled311 (2703)   ranked 88 out of 6,818 in friend2 months ago

The girl that was gang raped by her classmatess here in the Philippines turned out to be a victimg of fraternity baptism.
During the group's meeting and where she was invited to attend, she reportedly saw the suspects bringing in drinks. She was forced to drink and when she became dizzy, she was subjected to a "frat baptism," which involved hazing for men or sexual acts for women.
Now, about the lure of fraternities especially among freshman students, whether in high school and college, I wonder why are good and nice young men and women being enticed to join a brotherhood with misplaced identities, goals, and objectives?
And really, why was the victim alone? Didn't she have girl classmates that she could have invited? If she invited them and they turned her down, what made her go to that "meeting?"I feel bad that this unfortunate event happened to her. But I would like to know why, I don't want to be judgmental but her situation raises more questions than answers,

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. checapricorn (5831)   ranked 191 out of 6,818 in friend   2 months ago

Hi spoiled,

I am also wondering why she joined them and there was no other girl aside from her, it was very painful experienced but I hope this will remind every students not to trust anyone specially when it is an overnight activity or just a night out with more men friends...We can't tell what's going on in their mind and I also hope that each organization will do good instead of harming people as part of their hazing!

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2. myLot reputation of 83/100. barbie84 (1391)   ranked 500 out of 6,818 in friend   2 months ago

your right and i think the only persion who can answer your uestions is the girl herself

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3. myLot reputation of 72/100. everlasting (9055)   ranked 105 out of 6,818 in friend   2 months ago

Most of those who join frats want to be in a group, they want identity. Joining frats is sometimes a status quo. If she was gang raped and reported this to the police, I think she did not like what happened to her! I think it is also ridiculous for others to judge her when she was the ones raped. I also think she learned her lessons the hard way.

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4. myLot reputation of 68/100. sau2188 (499)   ranked 5,587 out of 6,818 in friend   1 month ago

Reading all these serious incidents really make me worried about my girlfriend. She really doesnt takes care about people around her. She is just too innocent and very not aleart and aware of things going on around. She got alot of guy friends and i dont know what they people have in their minds. I know she wont do anything bad but what about the other friends of her's. One thing is sure they are gnna get busted up right into their a**sses up. But rite here the thing is same, its the girls mistake or either the girl didnt look over and wasnt alert. She must have took things very lightly and would never think of this happening to her thats the reason she was maybe alone as a girl in the group, I didnt know what a frat is now i do from reading the disccussions and comments. Frats are just crap. They are meant to be small groups i guess of guys and girls who just freak out together rite?. This is really a shy*t that must be stopped. Girls must understand themselves what is right and what is not right for them atleast in this world full of hurtful incidents happening with girls here and there, they must atleast be aware of keeping themselves self protected.

 
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