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myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486) 4 years ago

lolthat’s just my hair in the mirror, and I look like a stranger to myself. I’ve been red, in fact all shades of red, all my life, and I wanted a change, so now I have dark hair, for change. And I am not sure I like it.
Well, I always thought the hair was my trade mark, people remembered me because of my hair, and now I am wondering who will recognize me. And I got these surprised looks when I went outside this morning. My husband says he woke up last night wondering what he has done to deserve waking up by this great looking dark haired woman in bed.
I thought he was talking about someone else; I was ready to explode, when I realized I am that woman. Well, he has his way with words, I must say.
My questions are:
Have you ever done a radical change on your looks, changed your dressing or hair style?
Were you satisfied with it, or did you regret it afterwards?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)   4 years ago

Hello Natrak
That is very nice that your Husband is so loving to you.
I liked that but I know what you mean..the way with words LOL
If there is a pic here, I will like to see it. Cant see it at the moment.
Yes, I have radically changed my hair colour all my life, but for the last year, I have done nothing and do not intend to at this moment in time.
It was always fun and yes, people always admired my hair.
I believe the hair is a woman's crown. xoxoxox


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

Hi OT, I love what you said about hair being a woman's crown, I think you are right. I am not in a mood for anything if I am not satisfied with my hair. I don't like anyone to touch it, and people like to feel my hair, because it's unusual. I still don't have photos of my new style, so no pic here, sorry.


myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)  4 years ago

Oh yes Natrak, I agree the feel of the hair is very important..I would love to see yours!
If the hair is stiff and hard with spray, then it does not feel good and we know how much the Husbands like the 'feel' of the hair LOLhappy


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

Oh I can tolerate my husband's touching my hair, but I hate when someone else does. And I am always nervous when I have to go to the salon.


myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)  4 years ago

I can understand that Natrak, unless you may be entirely assured that the hairdresser is familiar to you with her skills. xoxoox

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. Angelwhispers (4603)   ranked 2,940 out of 3,532 in me   4 years ago

One time and one time only Natty did I try to go darker. I am a blond naturally, and lots of years ago i had been thinking about how it would be to be a pretty brunette with deep dark red tones OH boy so that is what I did, I could not stand to look at myself. I never got use to it. I did not want to bleach it back out as that would have ruined my hair, so I had no choice but to let it grow out and cut it every few months. What a reverse root problem that was... LMAO never again did I try to do such a thing and I am of sound opinion that blonds do have more fun!


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

I will take your word for it, Angie, I have been blond just for few days years ago, and I hated it, just got hair cut after that. And that was the only time I was blond and had short hair. I will never do both again.lol
I like this dark now, I got used to it since yesterday, haha.

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. foxyfire33 (5787)   ranked 210 out of 3,532 in me   4 years ago

I think the first few days after a big change are always the hardest. I once had my hair purple but that was an accident! I did bleach it out as quickly as possible! Once I also had a red turn out much brighter and redder than it was supposed to. I changed that pretty quickly too! Right now my hair is close to it's natural color but with blonder highlights, some from the kit and some natural from being outside. It's not quite the right color I don't think but I can't figure out whether I should just go blonder all over and put in some lowlights or darker with more highlights.


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

I think the best colour is close to hair's natural colour, but after few days I really feel great about my change. My natural colour was light brown red combination, it's really hard to remember right now, it was so long ago.lol


myLot reputation of 93/100. foxyfire33 (5787)   ranked 210 out of 3,532 in me  4 years ago

LOL...I agree that close to natural is the best...only my hair can't decide what color it wants to be so if I don't color it at all, after awhile it looks like a really bad dye job! It grows quite auburn at the nape of my neck but medium brown on top...and then it bleaches out in the sun for what few months of summer we get. If I leave it alone like that, by mid winter I look like I dyed the top half blond and let the dark roots grow in and dyed the underside red....not pretty!


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

lol Well, it seems to me that going darker with highlights are good idea for you. Anyway, just a suggestion.

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. ellie333 (8050)   ranked 351 out of 3,532 in me   4 years ago

Hi Natrak, Wow you must look different if the hubby woke up next to another woman eh! He obviously likes it. I have had my hair all different colours in the past including every shade of blue from sky blue to a deep navy in highlights all over and it looked amazing, I have had bright pink, purple, red, white and multi but in recent years have just been a brunette. The only disaster I ever had was trying to go blonde a few years back and I eneded up looking like something between Johnnie Rotten and Rik Mayall, and Cathy Burke. Bright ORANGE at my age now. I wouldn't go out until someone had gone down to the shops to get a dark brown dye to put back over it LOL. Ellie :D


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

I look different, but my husband was joking, trying to make me smile and feel good, and get what he wants; he has a way with words, definitely.thumbup
Johnnie Rotten? I understand why you call it a disaster.lol
No, really, he is cute, I used to like him.


myLot reputation of 93/100. foxyfire33 (5787)   ranked 210 out of 3,532 in me  4 years ago

Oooh, I've done the blond turn orange thing too! It's awful. When I accidentally wound up with purple and bleached it out I was left with light pink from the root to halfway down and then grayish-blue from there to the ends...except not in a fun and wild way, just in a "what did you do to your hair!" kind of way.


myLot reputation of 95/100. ellie333 (8050)   ranked 351 out of 3,532 in me  4 years ago

Hi Natrak, yeah Johnny Rotten is cute but I don't want to look like him!!!! LOL. Ellie :D


myLot reputation of 95/100. ellie333 (8050)   ranked 351 out of 3,532 in me  4 years ago

Hi Fixyfire, I have had purple too, my dad had a works do so like a good daughter I had bought a dress to wear but my hair was shocking pink at the time and he said you are not going with hair like that and bought me a black dye, I told him it would probably turn purple instead but he insisted LOL, the purple hair looked fantastic with the lilac trim on the dress, he couldn't say a word as I had done what I was told to do LOL. Ellie :D


myLot reputation of 95/100. ellie333 (8050)   ranked 351 out of 3,532 in me  4 years ago

oops Foxyfire, not fixyfire, haven't had my second cuppa, still morning time here. Ellie :D


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

Hi Ellie, you are right, I doubt anyone would want to look like him, but my sister did, when she was 15.lol


myLot reputation of 95/100. ellie333 (8050)   ranked 351 out of 3,532 in me  4 years ago

lol I take it she grew out of the look! Ellie :D


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

She did, but she doesn't want to admit she looked like him.
I don't blame her.lol


myLot reputation of 95/100. ellie333 (8050)   ranked 351 out of 3,532 in me  4 years ago

No I don't blame her either, are you getting used to your new colour yet. Ellie:D


myLot reputation of 98/100. Scoop_Dogg (1932)  4 years ago

I bet Natty as hair to dye for. drool


myLot reputation of 98/100. Scoop_Dogg (1932)  4 years ago

has, you fool, has!


myLot reputation of 98/100. Scoop_Dogg (1932)  4 years ago

Sorry, I saw two of my favourite ladies together and felt compelled to join in.

Big black bush indeed! lolshockedblush


myLot reputation of 95/100. ellie333 (8050)   ranked 351 out of 3,532 in me  4 years ago

I see you are picking up on my typos Scoop he, he. At least I know I'm not the only one now. Must be the fact that you have two of your favourites in the same discussion eh! lol Natrak and I had a real fun evening the other night on one of my discussions and by the morning of of the two that accidentally posted had been deleted and we thought prehaps it had all been a dream LOL. Ellie :D


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

I am used to it already, it's my favourite colour so far.
I had to stay positive, Ellie.lol
Scoop, you are just the right person to meddle here.wink


myLot reputation of 95/100. ellie333 (8050)   ranked 351 out of 3,532 in me  4 years ago

one of, see you got me doing it now! Ellie :D


myLot reputation of 95/100. ellie333 (8050)   ranked 351 out of 3,532 in me  4 years ago

Hi missed the naughty but innocent conversation the other night though Natrak, now that would have been great fun. So shall we ask him now what inncoent thing has he ever done that has appeared to look very naughty? Ellie :D


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

I was really confused in the morning when I couldn't find your discussion, I thought I was dreaming. It was too much fun to be deleted, sad.sad
Too bad, Scoop, you weren't there.thumbdown


myLot reputation of 95/100. ellie333 (8050)   ranked 351 out of 3,532 in me  4 years ago

sadAnd we were so good at being naughty and it was myLot that posted it not me I posted the other one. Ellie :D


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

I think we confused him enough.shocked
It's not that difficult question, and I believe he has maintain his reputation.wink


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

I think Scoop is off to find that discussion now, Ellie.


myLot reputation of 95/100. ellie333 (8050)   ranked 351 out of 3,532 in me  4 years ago

I'll go take a look and see if I can find him, too much of a gentlemen is our Scoop to confess to being naughty eh! Even though he had a laugh at the thought of getting rude and nude in Bude one day he, he, Ellie :D


myLot reputation of 98/100. Scoop_Dogg (1932)  4 years ago

Hello ladies. I didn't run away earlier, honest! I got booted from myLot and was unable to reply. Glad to see you managed without me. blink

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. ucancallmedissy (2480)   ranked 987 out of 3,532 in me   4 years ago

Awww, your husband is sooo cute! Mine never said something like that, or something romantic and flattering that is.
I never done something radical yet, but I should, my look is so boring. I need to lose some weights first of course, then I'll go to something radical. I really want to have a sexy look. wink


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

Yes, he knows how to get something he wants, and he just knows what works with me.wink
You should go for that sexy look, it's great a great feeling.thumbup

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. abhi_destar (495)   4 years ago

Your husband truly has a wonderful sense of humour, I have to say that, Natrak. As for changing my hair colour, I won't even think about it personally (not until I'm old that is. I may go in for covering up the "grey" matter on my head! lol ). But as for dress style, I must say I have become more adventurous after my school days and entering college. In my school, of course, I had to wear uniform, but when I went to the tuitions, I used to wear pretty boring long T-shirts and trousers. But now I wear designer short T-shirts as well as short shirts and jeans. I've also changed the hairstyle a bit, not such a radical change as you speak of! I must say I'm quite satisfied with this change, after all it was nice to break the monotonous look. Unfortunately, I haven't attracted any girl's attention yet, but let's not lose hope. Cheers.


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

My husband is charming, I must admit, and I always fall for charm, that's my weakness.cool
I know most of men don't like to change hair colour, and I really don't like to see men with coloured hair, I think grey hair just ads to their charm. So don't colour it when you grow older.
You may have attracted many girls, but you are just not aware of it yet. You express yourself wonderfully, so it won't be a problem for you.thumbup

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7. myLot reputation of 92/100. littlepinoy (449)   ranked 1,551 out of 3,532 in me   4 years ago

I am a boy. And yes, I make radical changes to my hair. I have my head striped or chckered, I did mohawk, now I got a little tail with skinhead.

I don't regret it, why? Because when I had it, it was my choice. I shouldn't regret it.

Having the same here for a year is boring. I had my hair changes once every two months.

If you often regret having radical changes to your hair, then don't do it. I suggest you just make your hair new everyday. I mean, tie your hair in a different way each day. To avoid boredom.


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

I like my hair, and I like to experiment with different styles, so it looks different every day, it's just the colour that was the same for years. Now I don't regret having this change, I needed some time to get used to it, that's all.
It looks like you really had some great hair styles over the years, and you are very comfortable with change.

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8. myLot reputation of 71/100. subha12 (16391)   4 years ago

oh its nice that your husband found it nice. i have never paid so much attention to my look. so i have never changed it drastically also. may be some hair cut made me look different.


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

It was very nice of him, but I didn't realize it at first.
Hair cut is a change, and it's good to cut your hair every once in a while.

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. valeria1 (1442)   4 years ago

I had a party to celebrate my graduation in University that day I decided to cut my car short, and was awful, so this changes are not good sometimes, but if you look the other side of it, you learn how to not do ever again! I wish I could wear black color on my hair and it is not for everyone, I look like one of the members of Adams' family!


myLot reputation of 97/100. Natrak (1486)  4 years ago

How did you manage to cut your car short? lol
Just joking, if you don't mind, I know it's a silly mistake, you meant 'hair' not 'car'.
You are right, change is good, even just to learn from an experience.

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