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myLot reputation of 94/100. mibngold (111)3 months ago

Last year, I slipped & fell on some black ice. I got a concussion and a sprained neck. I asked my mother to take me to the neurologist. As we were walking up to the Dr.'s door, she blurts out to me "I think your father molested you when you were little" I couldn't even walk a straight line at the time and they gave me a sedative for the MRI...During the MRI, I whipped my head out of the headpiece and they had to do it over again...and that was under sedation. I don't know what made her say that & I really don't know what made her pick such a weird time to blurt it out. I don't believe her & my dad has been dead for 18 years, but what would make her think that it would have no effect on me? This happened a year ago and I'm still trying to figure the whole thing out. I have never talked to her about it, you just can't talk to her like normal people talk. Any suggestions? It's on my shoulders now!

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 80/100. wendyvv1 (333)   3 months ago

I would say that unless you have a memory, don't deal with it. Leave your impressions that you have of your father the way that they are. If they are only good memories save what you have. Let your mom deal with what she is going through. You don't need to carry her load.

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2. myLot reputation of 73/100. willy1 (115)   ranked 1,348 out of 3,843 in depression   2 months ago

I think that if you known someone that she love and respect, tell them about your problem and ask the person to talk to her, or if she has a pastor you can talk to the pastor and hopefull she will get both of you together to talk about your problem. God be with you.

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3. myLot reputation of 87/100. baleleng2008 (442)   2 months ago

Thats very to deal mibngold especially your in hurt bcoz you slipped and fell...sighh!But I can tell how good person you are bcoz no matter what your mom did to you I don't think you really hate her,do you?We cannot change them the way they are.Hope your mom realized that someday....Take care yourself mibngold..

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