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Ever fall in love with a friend? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 73/100. iennevalentine (107)   ranked 5,655 out of 8,148 in friend5 months ago

I mean can you really help it? Since you know everything about each other and pretty much spend a lot of your time together? And isnt there a saying that says: "The best kind of lover is a friend". I did have a thing for my friend back in highschool just because he was like my ideal -- never acted on it though. I figured, we'd be better off as friends.

So... any similar experiences?

 
 
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1. yrayne (68)   5 months ago

..but why didn't you act on it.. my husband today was my friend before.. you know, that was suppose to be just fine because you've already known each other for so long and you know how to adjust with each other's qualities and characteristics.. my friend says, marriage is just a bunos for friendship.. Why? because after you get married, you still continue to be friends telling your problems and your secrets to your husband.. being friends ofr husband and wife is said to be one secret of a long lasting family life..


myLot reputation of 73/100. iennevalentine (107)   ranked 5,655 out of 8,148 in friend  5 months ago

I dont know. It didnt feel right at that time. I mean, I wasnt even sure if he liked me back -- I mean, liked me in a non-friend way -- So yea, I didnt do anything. But I guess it worked out for the best, we're still good friends today and I guess that I felt before was just a "crush".

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2. myLot reputation of 64/100. tin_cierva (201)   ranked 2,284 out of 8,148 in friend   5 months ago

its possible but not applicable all the time.. because its also true that friends can be lovers but lovers can't be friends, i mean, yes after you broke up you may speak to each other, but the closeness you had the time you're just friends will be minimized..

that's what i've observed from my friends.. i just want to share..


myLot reputation of 73/100. iennevalentine (107)   ranked 5,655 out of 8,148 in friend  5 months ago

Hi! I also thought about that. You know? What if it doesnt work out and we break up. Its like Ive lost 2 people. A lover and a friend. So that was definitely one of the factors why I didnt tell him.

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