What does your spouse/partner do that really irks you?

My pet peeve that I have with my partner is that he can't save money, he drinks more in the last couple of years, he smacks my bottom in front of the kids, and he calls for me to talk to me when I am doing things.

I have spoken to him about all these things. He still spends money. If he has it, he has to spend it. This has been a struggle for the last 14 years.

I have spoken to him that he drinks every day now in the last two years and his reply is that he works hard and he comes home to enjoy a drink. Before he would only drink on nights where he was not working the next day.

I have told him that I don't like it when he smacks my bottom in front of the kids because the kids do it to me in public. But he still does it and say to the kids that Mommy and Daddy are only playing.

He tells me to do things but when I am in the middle of doing these things, he calls me to talk to me. The last time he told me to do something, I said to him, when I am doing what he wants me to do, was he going to call me. He said no why? I told him because he does it to me every single time. But he will do it again. I just wish he would come to me when he wants to talk to me.

So I have told my partner to stop different things because of different reasons, but he doesn't stop.