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myLot reputation of 98/100. roshand8 (530)   ranked 295 out of 27,506 in life3 months ago

I thought they left elementary school far behind them.But,some people never grow out of being a bully.Bullying is no joke and effect you in serious ways.Victims can suffer from loss of sleep and depression or phobias which can result in financial problem from missed work.

Are you a victim of bullying? confused

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. Vladilyich1 (763)   ranked 4,167 out of 27,506 in life   3 months ago

I'm not a victim, but I've witnessed bullying by adults for over 50 years. It should be a criminal offense (not just when they become physical). Psychological bullying is often worse because it lays under the surface for years.


myLot reputation of 98/100. roshand8 (530)   ranked 295 out of 27,506 in life  3 months ago

Yes you are right.I don't understand the real reason why some people do this.But, I know one thing for sure, we should speak up! thank you for sharing have a nice day and cheers.. lol


myLot reputation of 94/100. danishcanadian (14557)   ranked 190 out of 27,506 in life  3 months ago

Well said, Vladilyich1.

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. salonga (2392)   ranked 1,512 out of 27,506 in life   3 months ago

No I am not! I have always been a fighter. No amount of bullying could effect me as believe I have enough courage to fight back to shoo all the bullshits away.

During my elementary days, there was this group of 3 boys who went behind me when I walked my way home. Then they counted as I walk, 1, 2, 3, 4.... Then they were laughing and calling my name...altogether as if they were devils in disguise. Then as I was walking, I noticed that some leaves are falling on my head which were all coming from them. What I did... With all my strength... I pushed the boy nearest to me, he fell on the other next to him, who also fell on the 3rd boy. All of them fell on the ground then I hit them all with my big umbrella. Then my big brother arrived and all the three rushed to their feet and ran as fast as they could.


myLot reputation of 98/100. roshand8 (530)   ranked 295 out of 27,506 in life  3 months ago

Wow salonga you really have the guts!keep it up!thumbupthank you for sharing your story and by the way happy to see you again lol..Have a nice day and cheers..hahaha poor boys..

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3. myLot reputation of 73/100. everlasting (10037)   ranked 2,606 out of 27,506 in life   3 months ago

I am never bully victim material but my son was. My husband was the one who went to school to report the bulying and threatened that school that if they will not do something, he will. The school asked all the students to write in paper if they were bullied and name the bully. they were surprised that 3/4 of the students were bullied! 5 of the students were expelled because of that!


myLot reputation of 98/100. roshand8 (530)   ranked 295 out of 27,506 in life  3 months ago

I am very happy that you have addresses this issue,so the parents would see and know that this bullying thing can effect their children emotionally.Thank you for sharing everlasting.. hehehheehelollolcheers.... lol

 
4. myLot reputation of 94/100. danishcanadian (14557)   ranked 190 out of 27,506 in life   3 months ago

I am not ow, but I was when I was in chool. I learned ery early on not to take a interest in people my age, ecause the ones I studied with just turned out to be idiots. When I left highschool it was nice to leave them all behind, and jut get on with my own life. Sad to say that in this day and age bullying has become more serious than it ever was. I was jus finishing highschool when the Columbine shooting took place. Someone in my school made a list, like the muderers did. Thankfully he was promptly suspended.


myLot reputation of 98/100. roshand8 (530)   ranked 295 out of 27,506 in life  3 months ago

Thank you for sharing your experience with us danishcanadian.I really appreciate it,yes you are right now days bullying has become more serious and we all have to be aware of this thing because it's not a joke!thumbdown Thank you and have a nice day.cheers.. lol

 
5. myLot reputation of 99/100. applefreak (1433)   ranked 2,215 out of 27,506 in life   3 months ago

well there are bullies and there are bullies. some of the bullies grow out of it. but some of them remain bullies for the rest of their lives. i pity victims as they really suffer to no end. i've read cases how victims actually tried to kill themselves. remember the facebook case where the girl killed herself? it's really sad to see a young life snuffed out because of these bullies. the worst thing is nothing can be done about it! angryangry

i will not allow myself to become a victim. i believe in standing up for my own rights. however, i do avoid confrontations by all means. so i will try to let it go unless it really riles me. cheers;p


myLot reputation of 93/100. ahgong (2071)   ranked 137 out of 27,506 in life  3 months ago

lolIf everyone has a strong resolve like you, there will no longer be bullies around. lolCos there is no one else left to bully. So the bullies will die a natural death.

It is sad that in life, where we, the humans, supposedly the intelligent ones, are still resorting to bullying to feel good about themselves.
Sigh....


myLot reputation of 98/100. roshand8 (530)   ranked 295 out of 27,506 in life  3 months ago

That's a good idea applefreak.Thank you for sharing.Have a nice day and cheers... lollol


myLot reputation of 99/100. applefreak (1433)   ranked 2,215 out of 27,506 in life  3 months ago

yup, i wish parents will start teaching their children to stand up to bullies. instead, parents are teaching their children how to score better in exams. to me it's kind of getting the priorities wrong. being able to stand up to bullies instill a sense of confidence in the child. being confident will ensure the child go a long way in his/her career.

hopefully we'll move towards a more gracious world where everyone cares for each other. cheers;p

 
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