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OK...So I left my boyfriend/baby's father email this discussion to a friend?

Aidensmommy821 (78)   ranked 4,340 out of 27,514 in make extra money1 year ago

About a month ago I found out he had been cheating on me and I finally got fed up with it. That was the 6th time that I know of. But we have a kid together and no one I know thinks its a good idea to let him see Aiden without doing a supervised visitation. He is a felon, has robbery charges, domestic violence charges for stabbing or cutting his dad 3 yrs ago but I dont think that is still on his record but I am not sure and he also has a DUI. He is 25 yrs old and still lives with his parents, he dont work and if he does he only works long enough to get a few paychecks and then quits. He is not responsible enough to pay his phone bill, car note, insurance, or his restition and probation fees. His Mom has to do it all for him. I know I am back at my mom's house since I left him. But I am signing up for the Air National Guard and I will get into school and find me a part time job also once I get back from basic training. I am trying to get my life together for my sons sake but his father still thinks he is a kid. So I guess what I am getting at is... Should I listen to everyone and not let my son go to his fathers for the weekend and only have supervised visitations or should I let him go over there to see him? But even the lady at Juvenile COurt when i went to file for CHild Support told me to be careful with the unsupervised visitations because he can take Aiden and they cant do anything about it because he is the father and with me going into the military (even though it is just part time) he can claim I abandend my son.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 90/100. cricket1 (381)   ranked 107 out of 27,514 in make extra money   1 year ago

Well it sounds to me like your son would be in danger if you let him go there unsupervised. He don't need to grow up being exposed to that type of life, not good for him. Also I have read it is hard to get a child back if the other parent runs off with him, so the lady is right about that too. I think you need to keep your son away from him even though he's the father. Being a father is not a right, its a privilege. No offense, but I think you started this discussion in the wrong area. confused


Aidensmommy821 (78)   ranked 4,340 out of 27,514 in make extra money  1 year ago

I know I did. I just didnt feel like looking through all that stuff to find the right one to make it under so I just clicked on something.

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2. myLot reputation of 84/100. academic2 (5130)   ranked 1,310 out of 27,514 in make extra money   1 year ago

Am glad you did move away from this very dangerous man-we men can be so beastly, and before you fall in love, give yourself a deep understanding of the man you want to live with-doing this would save you from the beast in some of the men roaming this planet


Aidensmommy821 (78)   ranked 4,340 out of 27,514 in make extra money  1 year ago

Before he went to anger management classes all he did to me was either put his hand on my throat and throw me on the ground or up against the wall but I could always fight him off from that. He never hurt me really when he did it.. He didnt choke me hard enough to hurt me and didnt do it ong enough. An then there was one night we were both drunk and something started an argument ( I was in one of those stats were the alcohol kept making me have these "black outs" where I didnt remember everything) but the last thing I know I went to lay in the bed to go to sleep and then somehow I ended up on the couch him on top of me with his hands on my throat and then we rolled in the floor and I kicked him off of me and then the next thing I know I am in the bathroom my nose is bleeding and I guess I blacked out again because I dont remember getting into the shower but I came to again and I was in the shower still bleeding screaming dont hurt my baby because our son was there with us and he was 3 months old at the time(which he had just gotten back from my moms house and he was in bed) and he started crying while I was in the shower. But I have learned my lesson. I just jumped into a relationship with him and now I know not to jump into something so quickly.

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3. myLot reputation of 80/100. tapusforu (356)   ranked 1,985 out of 27,514 in make extra money   1 year ago

you have done the right thing its impossible for a women to live with such man ...


Aidensmommy821 (78)   ranked 4,340 out of 27,514 in make extra money  1 year ago

I know. Last night I started crying because I thought I missed him and I called him and I realized that is just part of the process of breaking up and I really dont want to be back with him

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