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What would you do, if you were walking down the street and someone you didnt know approached you and asked for a hug? Would you give them a weird look and move away? Would you give them a hug? Would you be scared? Would you call for help? Would their appearance have any bearing on what you did? Would you sooner hug a good looking woman/man, then one who was not so attractive? WOuld you be more likely to hug a clean richly dressed individual, then a person who lived on the streets, with tornand dirty clothing and an unsavoury aroma? Would age have any bearing? Would race have any bearing? Would anything else affect your decision? tattoos, piercings, anything. What if they were crying?
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CurlyRed (2388) | 4 weeks ago | Thats a good point about your mood at the time, fwidman, I hadnt considered that, thank you for your reply.
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2. lilaclady (15013) | 4 weeks ago | No I would move away, these days I don't think it would be wise to put yourself in such a situation, maybe I am a cold person for thinking this way but i just don't think many people would think it wise.
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CurlyRed (2388) | 4 weeks ago | I"m sure a great many people would have the same fear, lilaclady.
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mommyboo (1245) | 4 weeks ago | Yep, I felt the same way and I explained in length why lol.
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3. dumblnddzzy (8818) | 4 weeks ago | Very good question! I think I would first look at them & 'size' them up & then probably give them a hug. I don't believe the clothes they are wearing would have any bearing on me. I've hugged homeless people before cause I saw they really needed some human touch, & I restored their faith in mankind just by hugging them...Lori
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CurlyRed (2388) | 4 weeks ago | Wow! That was good of you. I had a similar experience, but it was someone looking at me through the windshield of my car.
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| TheCatLady (90) | 4 weeks ago | Wow, You 're brave. I would be afraid of catching TB or hepatitis from the homeless person.
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dumblnddzzy (8818) | 4 weeks ago | You can only catch those by swapping fluids, a hug is just a hug nothing more nothing less... If more people did this it would make for a better world...Lori
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4. myklj999 (3932) | 4 weeks ago | Honest answer? I'd be afraid they'd stab me in the back in the middle of the hug. I've had enough friends do it to me (metaphorically speaking) that I really just don't trust people very easily anymore...and that's a shame, because I used to be a totally different person.
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CurlyRed (2388) | 4 weeks ago | Yeha, life can do that sometimes, myklj.
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5. Goodie123 (6885) | 4 weeks ago | I really do not do know what I would do CurlyRed. There appearance, race, aroma would have nothing to do with it. Sure they could appear to be crying but are they really crying. I think even though there have been times I desperately needed a hug, I would be very cautious. They could just be a mugger or anyone, I would not know by their appearance. I think I would have to give them a miss.
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CurlyRed (2388) | 4 weeks ago | OH yes, I know Goodie! I can imagining being compelled to hug in the right instance.
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Goodie123 (6885) | 4 weeks ago | Umm there are a few I would love to hug, but sadly they are all taken.*sigh*
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CurlyRed (2388) | 4 weeks ago | Bribe the cat Goodie, get the goods back!
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CurlyRed (2388) | 4 weeks ago | Heeheee! I mean to get back all those things it took!
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6. OceanTiara (596) | 4 weeks ago | I do this often. I would hug any living soul or creature.
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CurlyRed (2388) | 4 weeks ago | Awwwwww, that's really sweet OceanTiara.
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CurlyRed (2388) | 4 weeks ago | I havent been on much, how have you been?
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Goodie123 (6885) | 4 weeks ago | Hey OT, how you going Hon, I have not seen you for awhile. I am sending you a great big hug. xxx
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OceanTiara (596) | 4 weeks ago | Alright thank you Curly Lovely and I hope you are well yourself.xo
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OceanTiara (596) | 4 weeks ago | Hello Dear Goodie I have been scarce yes, but I am going along ty. My little nephew just left me to fly away back home. I am sad. Thank you for asking. I hope life is good to you as well Dear Friend. xo
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Goodie123 (6885) | 4 weeks ago | You know I am only an email away if you want someone to talk to OT. xxx
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OceanTiara (596) | 4 weeks ago | I got a call Goodie from a dear myLot friend the other day. I know you are all here for me and more..tis all I can do to get through the day, but just from your caring of me, I am stronger. Thank you...I always remember. I am sorry I have been scarce. xo
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Goodie123 (6885) | 4 weeks ago | Thats what true friends are for, to care about us. xxx
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OceanTiara (596) | 4 weeks ago | They do indeed most Beautiful Woman CurlyRed. xo
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OceanTiara (596) | 4 weeks ago | Eh, thats me Curly in that video. I am a hug slu*.
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7. greenglitterturtle (1212) | 4 weeks ago | if it were a stranger in general i couldn't give a hug. i'd be too scared. but if i could tell they were distressed and we talked a little so i could get an idea what was going on and they needed i hug, i would probably give them one.
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CurlyRed (2388) | 4 weeks ago | I think in this day and age fear has become a very popular thing, greenglitterturtle. Thats a good point about learning a bit about them first.
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8. LadyMarissa (385) | 4 weeks ago | I would feel that anybody who was desperate enough to approach a stranger askin for a hug, needed one bad. Wrappin my arms around someone costs me nothin except a few seconds of time. I would not hesitate to hug someone askin for one. I don't think their looks would make much difference. A human is a human no matter their status. For anybody here needing a hug... ))) HUGGG (((...from me to you. :)
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CurlyRed (2388) | 4 weeks ago | Thats very nice, Ladymarissa, I hope your hug reaches someone who needs it. Desperation is a good point.. what would drive someone to ask. Thank you for your insight.
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9. tamarafireheart (2245) | 4 weeks ago | Hello CurlyRed, Yes I would give someone a hug if they ask for it, it wouldn't matter to me who they are because if they wanted a hug they are in need of one, an old lady asked mef for a hug at the bus stop one day and I did and now we firm friends and that was a long time ago. Tamarafireheart.
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CurlyRed (2388) | 4 weeks ago | :) That's a nice story, tamarafireheart! Thank you for sharing.
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10. sunshinelady (5224) | 4 weeks ago | I would not give a hug right away. I would invite the person to sit down to a cup of coffee and some talk. After we talked for a while I would probably give them a hug. Everyone needs a hug every now and then. No matter who you are.
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CurlyRed (2388) | 4 weeks ago | Yes, sunshine lady, I believe everybody does.
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