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myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people4 weeks ago

What would you do, if you were walking down the street and someone you didnt know approached you and asked for a hug?

Would you give them a weird look and move away? Would you give them a hug? Would you be scared? Would you call for help?

Would their appearance have any bearing on what you did?

Would you sooner hug a good looking woman/man, then one who was not so attractive?

WOuld you be more likely to hug a clean richly dressed individual, then a person who lived on the streets, with tornand dirty clothing and an unsavoury aroma?

Would age have any bearing?

Would race have any bearing?

Would anything else affect your decision? tattoos, piercings, anything.


What if they were crying?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. fwidman (1427)   ranked 1,150 out of 25,435 in people   4 weeks ago

I would most likely give them a hug happy Their looks wouldn't have as much to do with things as my mood at that exact moment. If I were grumpy about something and muttering to myself, I might just ignore the request.


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Thats a good point about your mood at the time, fwidman, I hadnt considered that, thank you for your reply.

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. lilaclady (15013)   ranked 439 out of 25,435 in people   4 weeks ago

No I would move away, these days I don't think it would be wise to put yourself in such a situation, maybe I am a cold person for thinking this way but i just don't think many people would think it wise.


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

I"m sure a great many people would have the same fear, lilaclady.


myLot reputation of 96/100. mommyboo (1245)   ranked 993 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Yep, I felt the same way and I explained in length why lol.

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3. myLot reputation of 92/100. dumblnddzzy (8818)   ranked 134 out of 25,435 in people   4 weeks ago

Very good question! I think I would first look at them & 'size' them up & then probably give them a hug. I don't believe the clothes they are wearing would have any bearing on me. I've hugged homeless people before cause I saw they really needed some human touch, & I restored their faith in mankind just by hugging them...Lori


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Wow! That was good of you. I had a similar experience, but it was someone looking at me through the windshield of my car.


TheCatLady (90)   ranked 17,355 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Wow, You 're brave. I would be afraid of catching TB or hepatitis from the homeless person.


myLot reputation of 92/100. dumblnddzzy (8818)   ranked 134 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

You can only catch those by swapping fluids, a hug is just a hug nothing more nothing less... If more people did this it would make for a better world...Lori

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4. myLot reputation of 77/100. myklj999 (3932)   ranked 952 out of 25,435 in people   4 weeks ago

Honest answer? I'd be afraid they'd stab me in the back in the middle of the hug. I've had enough friends do it to me (metaphorically speaking) that I really just don't trust people very easily anymore...and that's a shame, because I used to be a totally different person.


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Yeha, life can do that sometimes, myklj.

 
5. myLot reputation of 92/100. Goodie123 (6885)   ranked 3,377 out of 25,435 in people   4 weeks ago

I really do not do know what I would do CurlyRed.
There appearance, race, aroma would have nothing to do with it.
Sure they could appear to be crying but are they really crying.
I think even though there have been times I desperately needed a hug,
I would be very cautious.
They could just be a mugger or anyone, I would not know by their appearance.
I think I would have to give them a miss.


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

happyFair enough Goodie, you're right, life is like a box of chocolates, you never know.


myLot reputation of 92/100. Goodie123 (6885)   ranked 3,377 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Well geez CurlyRed it could even be Cheese, X, Trans or anyone of our friends and we all know how weird they are. w00tlol


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

OH yes, I know Goodie! I can imagining being compelled to hug in the right instance.


myLot reputation of 92/100. Goodie123 (6885)   ranked 3,377 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Umm there are a few I would love to hug, but sadly they are all taken.*sigh*


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

happy Yeah, they all are.


myLot reputation of 92/100. Goodie123 (6885)   ranked 3,377 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

sad


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Bribe the cat Goodie, get the goods back!


myLot reputation of 92/100. Goodie123 (6885)   ranked 3,377 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

He has never been a cuddly cat CurlyRed. sad


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Heeheee! I mean to get back all those things it took!

 
6. myLot reputation of 79/100. OceanTiara (596)   ranked 4,146 out of 25,435 in people   4 weeks ago

I do this often.
I would hug any living soul or creature.


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Awwwwww, that's really sweet OceanTiara.


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

I havent been on much, how have you been?


myLot reputation of 92/100. Goodie123 (6885)   ranked 3,377 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Hey OT, how you going Hon, I have not seen you for awhile.
I am sending you a great big hug. xxx


myLot reputation of 79/100. OceanTiara (596)   ranked 4,146 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Alright thank you Curly Lovely and I hope you are well yourself.xo


myLot reputation of 79/100. OceanTiara (596)   ranked 4,146 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Hello Dear Goodie
I have been scarce yes, but I am going along ty.
My little nephew just left me to fly away back home.
I am sad.
Thank you for asking.
I hope life is good to you as well Dear Friend. xo


myLot reputation of 92/100. Goodie123 (6885)   ranked 3,377 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

You know I am only an email away if you want someone to talk to OT. xxx


myLot reputation of 79/100. OceanTiara (596)   ranked 4,146 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

I got a call Goodie from a dear myLot friend the other day. I know you are all here for me and more..tis all I can do to get through the day, but just from your caring of me, I am stronger.
Thank you...I always remember.
I am sorry I have been scarce. xo


myLot reputation of 92/100. Goodie123 (6885)   ranked 3,377 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Thats what true friends are for, to care about us. xxx


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

cry Some people just warm your heart.


myLot reputation of 79/100. OceanTiara (596)   ranked 4,146 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

They do indeed most Beautiful Woman CurlyRed. xo


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

blush Awww shucks!

Thought you might like to see this! Someone posted it on page two.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=aMBgSfQI49E


myLot reputation of 79/100. OceanTiara (596)   ranked 4,146 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Eh, thats me Curly in that video. I am a hug slu*.


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

lol

 
7. myLot reputation of 95/100. greenglitterturtle (1212)   ranked 3,342 out of 25,435 in people   4 weeks ago

if it were a stranger in general i couldn't give a hug. i'd be too scared. but if i could tell they were distressed and we talked a little so i could get an idea what was going on and they needed i hug, i would probably give them one.


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

I think in this day and age fear has become a very popular thing, greenglitterturtle. Thats a good point about learning a bit about them first.

 
8. myLot reputation of 82/100. LadyMarissa (385)   ranked 3,658 out of 25,435 in people   4 weeks ago

I would feel that anybody who was desperate enough to approach a stranger askin for a hug, needed one bad. Wrappin my arms around someone costs me nothin except a few seconds of time. I would not hesitate to hug someone askin for one. I don't think their looks would make much difference. A human is a human no matter their status. For anybody here needing a hug... ))) HUGGG (((...from me to you. :)


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Thats very nice, Ladymarissa, I hope your hug reaches someone who needs it.

Desperation is a good point.. what would drive someone to ask. Thank you for your insight.

 
9. myLot reputation of 87/100. tamarafireheart (2245)   ranked 3,919 out of 25,435 in people   4 weeks ago

Hello CurlyRed,

Yes I would give someone a hug if they ask for it, it wouldn't matter to me who they are because if they wanted a hug they are in need of one, an old lady asked mef for a hug at the bus stop one day and I did and now we firm friends and that was a long time ago.

Tamarafireheart.


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

:) That's a nice story, tamarafireheart! Thank you for sharing.

 
10. myLot reputation of 99/100. sunshinelady (5224)   ranked 154 out of 25,435 in people   4 weeks ago

I would not give a hug right away. I would invite the person to sit down to a cup of coffee and some talk. After we talked for a while I would probably give them a hug. Everyone needs a hug every now and then. No matter who you are.


myLot reputation of 97/100. CurlyRed (2388)   ranked 115 out of 25,435 in people  4 weeks ago

Yes, sunshine lady, I believe everybody does.

 
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