Sometimes I Just Hate My LIFE=[

Sounds like your old man needs some cooling off time! After he has calmed down I hope things will look different to him
Everyone gets sick of life, especially at your age. Now, if you were 57 like me and hated Life, I'd be worried!

I am so sorry. It seems your dad has other issues and he is taking it out on you. It may be best to go with your Mom. I dont know how you feel about that and how you get along with your mom. I have had so many things in my life pull me down but you cant let it. It is my faith in God that has got me through. Look deep inside and keep going. Good luck.

It sounds like you would be a lot safer and happier with your mom, as long as you can keep yourself from swearing at her. Maybe a fresh start is just what you need.
Sometimes I wish I could turn back the clock and get a fresh start. The only problem would be where to stop when going back to start over. I wonder if I would make the same mistakes if I did start over.

Hello Maxehmo,

Sorry you have so many problems with your dad, you could have kept the peace by helping your dad with the computer, so I thing if you are not happy there go to your mom and why don't you try a get yourself where to live? if that is possible so you have a job it may help.


Tamarafireheart.

You really don't need to deal with that. I think you would be better off with your mother. If your father slammed you on the wall like that and threatened you, then you need to get out of that. Your dad seems to be dealing with his own issues. Believe me growing up for me was not easy. My mother was not that nice to me and she still isn't. She never says to me I love you or really tries to want me around, yet when she REALLY needs something I have to be there for her. Sure she helps me out a little but only IF I do something for her. Anyway, in your case your father is being an a** to you, so you need to get out of that. I wish you well.

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Max, I took a second to check out your profile and you're at a very difficult age plus your father doesn't sound like a very nice man. You may be better off living with your mom. The main thing that I wanted to relate to you is that there are going to be many times that you will feel that you hate your life as you are growing towards adulthood but you have to keep your eyes on your future because you will be a grown man for a lot longer than you will be a teenager. As far as your sexuality goes, you're still searching and you need to do a lot of soul searching about what it is that you really want...what kind of relationship will really make you happy. Then you will be at peace with yourself and everyone else's opinions will be a little bit easier to take. Try not to let life get you down too much. I guarantee you that being an adult will be a lot better than being a teenager.

Well, hon, go live with your mom then. It doesn't sound like you're in a good environment anyway. "He always talks about me and makes fun of me" You do know that's not how parents are supposed to be, right? So what if you're bi, it shouldn't matter. He's emotionally abusive and physically abusive. You don't deserve that. If your mom isn't a good place to go for whatever reason I'm sure you could find other options....any other family members? friends you could stay with? If I remember right you are 16 so you might even be able to emancipate yourself and be on your own...it wouldn't be an easy life but it'd probably be better than what you're dealing with now.

Everyone have some or the other difficulty in life, and at that points it seems like our's is the biggest and the worst but the fact is that everybody has problem. He is you father and if he expects you to help him he is not wrong in doing so. I understand that if he does so each time it gets over you head and nerve. Why dont you just try and ignore what he is saying. he also must be going through a tough time and beating you up would be cooling is head! try not to come in his way, although what he is doing is wrong a beating you up would not slove problems but worsen them. You are wantd, that is why you are here in this world. face it.

Yes sometimes I get that way. I just had a horrible conservation with my daughter this afternoon she lives with her dad she said that she did not want anything to do with me. She was so horrible to me she was such a smart ellec I have been in tears just about all night I couldnt even eat dinner I just hope when she gets olders she will change but I have to leave it in God's hands but it's hard to do.