First Date?
By angelia286
@angelia286 (2029)
Singapore
July 26, 2008 10:14am CST
Do you guys remember your first dates?
I definately do! It was awkward, sweet and innocent. Even the simplest things that the other party does could make us so happy. We were at the mall, just walking around, doing nothing. The both of us don't even know what to talk to the other party. That was how my first date went.
How about you guys? Do you remember your first dates? How was it? =D
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@pioneer2009angel (135)
• United States
28 Jul 08
Well my first date with him was when I just turned 11 and started attended the Lutheran church across the street. Lo and behold I saw him with brown eyes,brown hair and tall. We met playing Street Ball, then we went out as friends for Pizza, but he consider it a date because he paid for my slice of pizza and drinks.
It was all fun , of course we became friends then romance interested as boyfriend/girlfriend. I spent alot of time with him every weekend for 2 yrs we just held hands and hugged each other. Then it came to be serious after 2 yrs we started kissing and making out and we then dated for 8 yrs before he cheated on me for a girl cousin of his. They went out their first date, August,1998 then they find out she was expecting with her hiding it for 5 mos, I think he didn't really love her just wanted a piece of her so to speak. Then he was forced to marry her or he wouldn't get the $$ from his family they are rich,marina business owners and they also run an ice cream shoppe. It really interesting how he changed when he got married cause he more calm and more busy with his 2 sons Bowen and Benjamin, I am still close to him only as family now cause he married a cousin of mine, turns out to be his cousin as well. Ewww right? I mean it a good thing I didn't married him as we had promised to do so. But maybe it was one of those things in life.
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@angelia286 (2029)
• Singapore
29 Jul 08
It's all fated, sometimes things just don't turn out the way we want them to be. However when we look back on our lives, we can be thankful for the things that did happened, as it probably make us stronger and we are where we are because of those past incidents.
Of course, it became a waste as both of you were together for 8 years. It's a real pity that both of you did not get together in the end because he has cheated on you. However, it's really ironic that the girl he cheated with was actually his cousin which is also your cousin! It's such a coincidence.
I'm glad that both of you are still close friends and had got on with your lives. How about you? Have you met the guy who is fated to be with you for the rest of your life? I hope that everything did turn out fine for you in the end.
Take girl girl!=)
@MrsFairWells (921)
• Turkey
26 Jul 08
Yes, I remember it. It was definitely awkward and there's no way I would ever want to do it again ;-P
@angelia286 (2029)
• Singapore
26 Jul 08
Lol, I think no one would ever want to experience that sort of experience ever again. However, it makes good as a memory of that innocent and naive period of ours, aint it? =P
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@MrsFairWells (921)
• Turkey
26 Jul 08
Oh yes, I do agree with you there. I miss that innocence sometimes, don't you?
@angelia286 (2029)
• Singapore
27 Jul 08
Yes =) It's ironic how when we were young, we wanted to grow up fast, but when we do grow up, we want to go back to our young selves. Lol, but the innocent period of our lives though awkward, is still the sweetest period of our lives. Sigh~
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@wendhieRN (754)
• United States
29 Jul 08
i can't forget how my first date with my husband was. it was actually his birthday then that he decided to meet me in person and share his precious day alone with me. we went to visit the church, paid some prayers and thanks that finally our meeting date was pushed through. would you believe? we had been sending messages and were like mutual friends even though for a fact that we did not meet yet in person. LOL. but all was well! after a church visit we rushed to the mall, had lunch together and watched a movie "the guardian" by ashton kutcher and kevin cosner. after the movie we took dinner together and had a private talk. a few months after, we made that mutual understanding official. he did court for my late mom's approval and so did i with his folks. after about 8 months after, he proposed and we got married. LOL.
@angelia286 (2029)
• Singapore
29 Jul 08
Aww.. it's like a fairy tale! That was so sweet and you are so fortunate to have met such a sweet guy! =)
I'm happy that you had found happiness with him, and I'm sure you have a happy marriage with him. Well, take care girl! ^o^
@mally2008 (78)
• Egypt
27 Jul 08
oh i was so afraid because we weren't see each other befor i knew him on chat 7 years ago but we didn't meet and we got separated then we met by accedient on chat again and now we decided to meet he changed all my life i wore my best dress i put full make up and he did the same we still remember the place the clothes we were wearing every word we said
@angelia286 (2029)
• Singapore
27 Jul 08
That is soooo sweet! Aww~! You are so lucky! Do treasure this sweet memory =)
Both of you must really be fated to be able to meet up again after losing contact with each other! Not many people have this luck / fate that you have, and this usually leave the majority of us hanging to that memory and wishing for him/her come in back to our lives.




