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myLot reputation of 92/100. leizlmarie (2480)   ranked 709 out of 38,036 in life1 year ago

physical attraction usually happens fast even just at one glance to a person.. and looking for the emotional connection is not as easy though until you take the first step of having conversation with the person, usually finding something in common that both can relate!

is that always the situation? physical attraction before emotional connection? or are there also instances where emotional connection is noticed or felt first before the physical stuff? what do you think?

just asking=)

 
 
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21. myLot reputation of 98/100. magojordan (2489)   ranked 921 out of 38,036 in life   1 year ago

I think that it varies depending on the person which comes first. Some people see first the physical traits of a person while others could see immediately things other than that. Honestly I do notice first the physical traits of a person because I really couldn't see how a person is inside simply form the way he or she looks. Maybe after I have known that person then only then I could be able to have an emotional connection with that person. thumbup


myLot reputation of 92/100. leizlmarie (2480)   ranked 709 out of 38,036 in life  1 year ago

that would be ok! noticing first the physical looks does not necessarily mean you are just after the looks, right? of course, emotional connection will just follow!

thanks for the response!

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22. malreez (35)   ranked 24,731 out of 38,036 in life   1 year ago

yes,it normally comes before emotional connection in the sense that it is when both party are physically attracted to each other that they can now establish communication pathway which is very vital for emotional connection.Emotional connection is an aftermath of physical attraction.


myLot reputation of 92/100. leizlmarie (2480)   ranked 709 out of 38,036 in life  1 year ago

yes that's the usual but based on some previous responses here, there are also instances in the opposite way around..

thanks for dropping here!

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23. myLot reputation of 97/100. blackmantra_x (2438)   ranked 1,665 out of 38,036 in life   1 year ago

Good day.. I wouldn't just say physical but rather sensory connection. Like if one sees something good from the other, it creates some connection right? Love at first sight so to speak but not all can have attraction solely through seeing. One could also get attracted to voice (auditory) attraction, I mean if one is visually challenged or in distant place, one could be attracted by the voice of the other. But yes, emotional connection do start after physical (sensory)attraction.


myLot reputation of 92/100. leizlmarie (2480)   ranked 709 out of 38,036 in life  1 year ago

that's a good point! other senses can be involved though! nice!

thanks for sharing the idea!=)

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24. myLot reputation of 70/100. subha12 (16454)   ranked 2,062 out of 38,036 in life   1 year ago

It may be true. at times when you first see a person, the first impression is made upon how the person looks like. then come the mental case. may be as you go on interacting, you get more idea about that person.


myLot reputation of 92/100. leizlmarie (2480)   ranked 709 out of 38,036 in life  1 year ago

it may be true... but it may not always be true too! hehe...

thanks for responding!=)

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25. myLot reputation of 86/100. jaypeemanuel (791)   ranked 2,493 out of 38,036 in life   1 year ago

Well, as for my case, i believe that physical attraction sometimes causes deep-welled affection. I myself am attracted with girls with great faces, most specially those with great fronts. But more often, I don't treat them as toys or women of a lower level, I'm just fond of appreciating things like those.


myLot reputation of 92/100. leizlmarie (2480)   ranked 709 out of 38,036 in life  1 year ago

i know some who are like that as well! but of course, they love their partner not just because of the looks, it goes along with emotional connection too!

thanks for sharing!=)

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26. myLot reputation of 90/100. reckon21 (2338)   ranked 1,151 out of 38,036 in life   1 year ago

Yes, physical attraction always come first.
There's always something about the physical
aspect of that person that glued your eyes
to her or him. Emotional connection will follow
suit after the initial stage of relationship. happy


myLot reputation of 92/100. leizlmarie (2480)   ranked 709 out of 38,036 in life  1 year ago

".....glued your eyes"! hehe..

thanks for sharing you view!

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27. myLot reputation of 85/100. nengs10 (3137)   ranked 3,044 out of 38,036 in life   1 year ago

The magic of love is so powerful. Attractions, infatuations and connection between and among people may reflect how true and magical love is. In my case, physical attraction and emotional connection go together. They're inseparable.


myLot reputation of 92/100. leizlmarie (2480)   ranked 709 out of 38,036 in life  1 year ago

indeed, inseparable! that's the usual case though!

thanks for responding here!

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28. myLot reputation of 97/100. sumiirajj (1213)   ranked 2,319 out of 38,036 in life   1 year ago

Only in your teens or at the age when you are not matured enough you get attracted physically first.According to me emotional connection only stands first.When you are not connected emotionally,physical attraction will not last long.so long lasting is emotional connection.


myLot reputation of 92/100. leizlmarie (2480)   ranked 709 out of 38,036 in life  1 year ago

you have point there too! but i want to believe that physical attraction will last long having the idea that the one you're into is and will always be beautiful in your eyes as his/her lover!

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29. soheavenlyme (78)   ranked 12,706 out of 38,036 in life   1 year ago

either, but most of the time, physical attraction comes first because its easy to see beauty outside and harder to see beauty within. so pretty people have an advantage. that is why no one goes out not dressed, think about it.


myLot reputation of 92/100. leizlmarie (2480)   ranked 709 out of 38,036 in life  1 year ago

yah right! got your point there!

thanks for responding!=)

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30. myLot reputation of 89/100. karjyo (402)   ranked 9,519 out of 38,036 in life   1 year ago

I don't think so. There are so many marriages happening through internet. In this case you don't get to see the person first. But as you interact you start getting emotionally connected to a person.


myLot reputation of 92/100. leizlmarie (2480)   ranked 709 out of 38,036 in life  1 year ago

yep.. just like the one who responded here earlier who first met her partner online so basically physical attraction does not come first, based on that situation!

thanks for the reply in this discussion! have a nice day!

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