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myLot reputation of 93/100. marina321 (1935)   ranked 445 out of 14,940 in parenting1 year ago

I babysat my friend's one year old today as she returned to work for her first day back and baby was so upsetcry as mum was not around as she is still breast feeding sometimes and has only started being weaned within the last week or so..so she is still very attached to her mother.

I stopped breastfeeding when mine was 4 months old as there was a significant drop in the production of breastmilk and mine was getting frustrated and decided to just go for the bottle that she had rejected profusely a month before so it was easy to dohappy

I know some people breastfeed or have breastfed for longer than 1 year. When did you wean your baby to solids and formula? Is there a right time to do it? Is it better to breastfeed as long as possible?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. sudalunts (4247)   ranked 3,343 out of 14,940 in parenting   1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 93/100. marina321 (1935)   ranked 445 out of 14,940 in parenting  1 year ago

Seven years old!shockedlol Yeah, I guess it's a personal thing but I would also wean any more I may have before they're 1, even as soon as they start taking solidshappy

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. dandj929 (331)   ranked 574 out of 14,940 in parenting   1 year ago

My daughter pretty much weaned herself at 18 months. She gradually started nursing less and less and so my body started producing less and less so the pain when she stopped completely wasn't that bad. We started her on some whole milk at 12 months, we would give her a sippy cup in the morning with her breakfast but she was never fond of it until she was weaned. I don't think there is a set "right time" to wean your baby. I think every mother and child is different. When the time is right you will know.


myLot reputation of 93/100. marina321 (1935)   ranked 445 out of 14,940 in parenting  1 year ago

That's true it does depend on the mother and baby but I think waiting too long makes it harder to stop due to the bonding.. happy

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3. myLot reputation of 85/100. rebeccajean (365)   ranked 5,635 out of 14,940 in parenting   1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 93/100. marina321 (1935)   ranked 445 out of 14,940 in parenting  1 year ago

I wouldn't breastfeed if they had teeth, too cowardlyblush, it is most probably accidental when they bite or do not know how much it hurts and milk teeth are the worst to be bitten by so I would not take the chancelol


myLot reputation of 93/100. foxyfire33 (5796)   ranked 113 out of 14,940 in parenting  1 year ago

It's really not so bad. They learn quickly not to bite. My son tended to gnaw a little as the tooth came in and then bit a few times after it emerged but it never became a problem. When he bit I would remove him and say 'NO' firmly and after a couple times of that he'd stop. It's probably been well over 6 months since I've been bitten.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. deebomb (9001)   ranked 404 out of 14,940 in parenting   1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 93/100. marina321 (1935)   ranked 445 out of 14,940 in parenting  1 year ago

You're right on this one, the mum should've started early enough to avoid the distress to the child. She has greatly improved now in just a weekshocked and so it should have definitely been done sooner seeing how little time it takes to adjust but I think mum enjoys the bonding involved too muchrasp


myLot reputation of 97/100. deebomb (9001)   ranked 404 out of 14,940 in parenting  1 year ago

I don't blame her. They are babies for such a short time.

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5. myLot reputation of 84/100. kenzie45230 (2467)   ranked 1,858 out of 14,940 in parenting   1 year ago

I think that how long mom breastfeeds her child is a decision that mom and baby and maybe the rest of the family or situation should decide. Each child, mom and family are different.

When my son was little, his doctor did not want him to have any solid foods before 6 months at the earlies, preferably 9 months. My son breastfed until he pushed me away. He was 6 months old and had his first tooth, so I was okay with that.

But I continued producing milk for a few more months and fed him breastmilk in a bottle until he started using a cup regularly. It's a good thing I did that, because we learned pretty quickly that he was allergic to cow's milk. He had to have soy milk, and back then it was so expensive.

I was remembering a situation from my jr. high years, though. There was a woman in our neighborhood with a 7 year old son who was like a vegetable and a normal 3 year old girl. The son breastfed at 7, because it soothed him like nothing else could. But he had only enough brain activity to keep him breating and his heart pumping. Very little else.


myLot reputation of 93/100. marina321 (1935)   ranked 445 out of 14,940 in parenting  1 year ago

Cheers Kenzie, you're right - each mother and baby is different and depends on the situation as to when they should be weaned like if a mother knows she will be at work in time to come, she could start sooner..

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. liquorice (1751)   ranked 241 out of 14,940 in parenting   1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 93/100. marina321 (1935)   ranked 445 out of 14,940 in parenting  1 year ago

Yes, she's doing this now and the child has improved loads in just a week of no constant feeds and is more relaxed about mum not being around and her people skills are improvingthumbup

 
7. myLot reputation of 93/100. foxyfire33 (5796)   ranked 113 out of 14,940 in parenting   1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 93/100. marina321 (1935)   ranked 445 out of 14,940 in parenting  1 year ago

You're right foxyfire, I think the mum left it too late and was enjoying the bonding to much and probably dreading returning to work or maybe she was not entirely sure about returning to work and should have started sooner. happy
The child has improved a lot in such little time so it could have been done quickly before the seperation. thumbup

 
8. myLot reputation of 98/100. lingli_78 (10199)   ranked 914 out of 14,940 in parenting   1 year ago

i don't have a child yet... so i don't really know when a baby should be weaned... but from what i heard, every baby is different and it really depends on the baby... some baby can be weaned faster... some takes longer... but in average, i think babies should be weaned at about 1 year old... take care and have a nice day...

 
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