Would you choose to be best friends forever or lovers?

I think that you should go and tell your bestfriend what you really feel. Telling it wouldn't mean that your friendship should end right? Also if that person is truly a friend then you would both still remain as friends whether it becomes a relationship or not. I say that people sh=ould go tell their best friends how they really feel

That's always a tough situation...like its hard to bring that friendship to another level without endangering the friendship. Know what I mean? First of, what if the person doesn't feel the same way...what if that person sees you only as a friend, then you tell that person how you feel...so there would be this weird realization from each other or something.

But on the other hand, if the bestfriend feels the same way...then that's great, cause a good relationship starts with good friendship.^_^

Well if there is this question that lingers in your mind, then it is better that you try to figure that out and maybe you and your friend can talk about it. This question can only be answered by the two of you since you are the once that can feel and the other party alone. We here in mylot can only advice you as far as this post is. But, neither of the two choices are best when you and your friend have discussed it honestly with each other.

MAYBE you should tell he your feeling,once you did you will never be regretful..but i f you didn't do it maybe you make a good chance passed to you . i always tole to be bravely,so i will do what i want to do

it is the most ideal case. i believe it happens rarely in life. still if i think that i have some feelings, why not convey that to him? to see how he thinks?

it always feels good to be in love. you should tell your bestfriend how you feel, that you are in love. dont ever think that when you say to your bestfriend your love to that person, your friendship may end. i believe that whether you will tell your bestfriend or not, if your friendship is not that strong, it will collapse. so...it is best to tell your feelings, who knows, your friendship may even flourish

i should be brave and tell my best friend what i feel before it's too late. at least i've been honest to him.

I think you should talk to your friend about your feelings and find our if your friend feels the same way that you do. Then you can find out from their what you want to do but the decision has to be with both of you. They say the best lovers were friends first so why not talk about it. I wish you all the best!

Hugs, Tianna

Been down that road and done that before. Nearly screwed up everything. Its best that childhood friends remain best friends forever

well that's hard. which ever you think is the right thing to do. but you have to really think hard about it and weigh the consequences of your actions. do you think he feels the same way? or is it pure friendship that he is showing you? anyway, this discussion reminds me of a song, here goes the line.."how can i tell you, when if i do i might lose a friend that i have...how can i tell you, that you're the girl that i love deep inside my heart, how can i tell you, when doing so migh mean losing you in the end.." just have to think, and think real hard about the situation first before making any move. if you think there is a possibilty for both of you to be happy together, then risk it..than lose the person forever..:)