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redrockwolf (32)   ranked 1,188 out of 2,067 in been in love1 year ago

I spent my whole life looking for that Mr. Right. Went through two bad marriages, and many bad relationships. I met my daughter's father, when I was 27, and we had three good years together, before our daughter was born. We were perfect together, and oh so happy. After our daughter, things got complicated. He wasn't ready to be a daddy, and had wanted a son. Then, things were beginning to straighten out, and we saw the chance to make it work. And he was killed in a car accident. Our daughter was 2 1/2, at the time. She never really got the chance to know him.

I don't talk to her about the bad times, I only tell her what a great man he was. I've been in some relationships, since he died, but nothing seems to fit just right. I try not to compare, but I'd like to have as much in common with someone as I did with him. It made things so good, being able to do everything together, and not get on each other's nerves.

That was my "fairy tale" relationship, and nothing's come anywhere close, since. Maybe the old saying is right: "There's One special someone for everyone." I guess I already had mine.

 
 
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Aurone (2551) response was accepted on 9/8/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. Aurone (2551)   ranked 490 out of 2,067 in been in love   1 year ago

I am happy you got that chance. Even if it was for only a short time. I believe that we all have one person we are meant to be with, but there are several others we can be happy with and as long as we never meet the one, we don't know the difference. Sometimes you meet the other half of your soul and the situation is just not right for you to be together and you miss each other. Thats what happened to me. But I found a wonderful man to be with after I lost my soulmate to circumstance (he is not dead, he is married). And I am happy with him.

So I guess what I am saying is don't give up. You will find someone else to make you happy if not as happy as the one you lost.


redrockwolf (32)   ranked 1,188 out of 2,067 in been in love  1 year ago

Thanks for your words of encouragement. I greatly appreciate it. I never thought of it that way. Someone I could be happy and content with, though not perfect, would be a good thing.

Again, thank you.

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