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myLot reputation of 91/100. heatherfeather80 (832) 4 years ago

Ok I was just at the grocery store and I went to the baby section to get stuff and while I was over there , there were these two women pushing a cartload of dirty little kids and there was this newborn in a stroller that was just lying there without any support, he must have been maybe 1 week or less because he still had that purplish look. He was crying a lot and the kids were being crazy (yes that what kids do) and I could tell that the mom was getting all frustrated, one little girl of about 4 years old was climbing out of the cart, the mom ran up to her with an open hand and slapped her on her upper arm so hard that it made the girl fall on the floor. Without thinking first I shouted "HOLY Sh!T" the mom turned and looked at me and asked if I had a fu@@##$ problem and to mind my own business, I started walking away and as I was walking I said under my breath "you should have been neutered a long time ago", ooooops she heard me, she asked if I wanted to deal with my problem outside, I quickly responded "yes, lets go outside and fight violently in front of our children, that would be great!" She gave me a dirty look and carried on with her shopping.

 

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tags:  child abuse, abuse, attitude problems, bad parenting, bad parents
 
1. myLot reputation of 33/100. barrudaki (1332)   ranked 117 out of 377 in been an idiot   4 years ago

Sounds like someone needs parenting classes. Too bad you couldn't get some way to ID her so you could turn her into social services.


myLot reputation of 91/100. heatherfeather80 (832)  4 years ago

I really didn't want to stick around too long after that, she had another woman with her and probably would have conspired to beat me up in the parking lot. cry

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. palonghorn (4211)   ranked 104 out of 377 in been an idiot   4 years ago

OMG you sound like me, I would have said the same things! I love it when parents have no control over their children and then act like it's the small child's fault for acting like they do. There are plenty I see that shouldn't have children. My neighbor behind us was yelling at her kids, the youngest is around 4, the other two are probably around 5 and 6, and I said, to my s/o, loudly enough for her to hear, 'it's no wonder some species eat their young' she just looked at me, didn't say a word. Just the other day, the little girl somehow broke one of the small window panes in their backdoor, and of course, they yelled at her! Didn't once ask if she was okay. And they wonder why their children grow up yelling and cussing them out! Is it any wonder when that is the example they are given. If she said the 'f' word once to that child she said 50 times.


myLot reputation of 91/100. heatherfeather80 (832)  4 years ago

Wow, that lady sounds like a beast, what the heck is wrong with people, how can someone talk to thier kids like that, and act so quickly to hit them out of anger also.


myLot reputation of 98/100. palonghorn (4211)   ranked 104 out of 377 in been an idiot  4 years ago

I never have figured that out, how they can treat children that way. I raised two daughters, and grant it, there were times I wasn't sure they would make it to their next birthday lol. But, I never treated them like that.

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3. myLot reputation of 77/100. myklj999 (7218)   4 years ago

But my dear, you are showing that you are indeed not an idiot by acting like that, and are therefore no longer worthy of the crown.thumbdownrasp

Actaully, good job. I agree with a previous responder; sounds as though this woman could use some parenting classes.


myLot reputation of 91/100. heatherfeather80 (832)  4 years ago

I was actually putting that woman on blast because SHE is the idiot, or something.


myLot reputation of 64/100. darkjedi (4347)  4 years ago

Actually shes not the queen anymore, she is number 2.

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. checapricorn (10099)   ranked 91 out of 377 in been an idiot   4 years ago

Wow...I am trying to figure out how are they in the house! She is totally a bad example for the kids, no wonder we have a lot of rude and bad manners people because it is what they have as their environment! I feel for the kids!

I hope in a way she will realize what you have said,,,it will absorb in her head and she will try to evaluate her role as a mother to her children!
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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. jands1 (474)   4 years ago

See, this is why I say as humans we need more natural predators. This woman wouldn't even EXIST if survival of the fitest really was in place.

And her actually having children defys current scientific theory about sperm competition. She certainly does not seem to be the best an male could get to carry on his genetic coding. Yikes.

And, as much as it would have probably done her good to be smacked smart, you did the right thing. There is NO way you can tell your children, "Violence solves nothing." or even as I tell my son, "Violence is only the very last measure. Exhaust all other methods many many times first.", unless you actually live what you say.

Oh...and heatherfeather80...next time say, "Spayed." and then mutter something about "...we put down rabid dogs..." :D


myLot reputation of 91/100. heatherfeather80 (832)  4 years ago

LOL I was flustered, I couldn't think to say "Spayed" neutered came to mind first...lol though neutered might have been right, you don't know if she was really a man or not HMMMMMMMM. People are just about anything these days, it's what's in

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. gitfiddleplayer (6410)   4 years ago

Ha! That's funny, I mean the way you wrote it. I would have taken a bunch of candy and thrown it in the cart, that would have occupied those kids for a while while I calmly spoke to the mother. I would have said, "You need to take these kids and go home, the video cameras in this place are state of the art and you're probably being recorded right now. Leave and don't come back until you've cooled down."


myLot reputation of 91/100. heatherfeather80 (832)  4 years ago

LOL, well thank you! You know, I didn't even think about the video camera thing, I hope she gets caught for smacking that little girl

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7. myLot reputation of 89/100. scorpiobabes (2021)   ranked 21 out of 377 in been an idiot   4 years ago

She sounds completely overwhelmed. I had a hard time with one! But seriously, call the police, explain the situation and give a full description. Offer to be a witness if necessary. This week here in the Philly area, we watched a case of a 14 year old that was starved to death by her parents and DHS...and now lawyers for her estate filed suit against the city of Philly and DHS!!! Some people are capable of anything!


myLot reputation of 91/100. heatherfeather80 (832)  4 years ago

OMG, that's horrible!


myLot reputation of 89/100. scorpiobabes (2021)   ranked 21 out of 377 in been an idiot  4 years ago

I know...and the lawyers for the child's estate was on the news again this morning...here's the story: http://tinyurl.com/559xle. Absolutely disgusting! angry

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8. myLot reputation of 84/100. lyzabelle (1654)   4 years ago

Some parents are really lacking in parental guidelines.
How could she slapped her daughter hard? Such a cruel heart.
Sometimes having lots of children can make mothers more often
irritated. But still no excuse for slapping her daughters arms
like that.angry


myLot reputation of 91/100. heatherfeather80 (832)  4 years ago

Oh I know, I would like to slap that mother and see how it makes HER feel.

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9. myLot reputation of 88/100. metalhalo (517)   4 years ago

That's horrible. I always cringe when I see mothers behaving this way. She obviously wasn't raised right herself. I'm right with you. Those exact words would've flown out of my mouth as well. And maybe a few others.

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. LouiseKnittel (1864)   ranked 29 out of 377 in been an idiot   4 years ago

Wow if she smacks her like a maniac at the store.. What does she do to her at home when no one can see her... Good for you saying something though.. Might make her think before ever doing it again,,, I hope,, I doubt it.. but I hope..

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